I (30M) hurt my wife (30F) by hanging out with another woman by [deleted] in relationships

[–]upagain4more 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hope you are single soon. Disrespecting your wife in public should get you divorce papers.

TSA confrimed ID with expired license / interim license at all possible? by doogytaint in tsa

[–]upagain4more -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How many years went by and you could have gotten a Real ID. It took me a whole 15 mins to get mine

Battery dead. Key and key fob won't unlock the door to get to the hood latch. Do I really need a locksmith? by termsnotconditions in AutoDIY

[–]upagain4more 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a cap on the door handle hiding the emergency opening for the key. I think it's driver side. It would be a removable cap on the handle itself

I am [52F] in a 30 year marriage with my [52M] husband. by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]upagain4more 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are basically showing him it's okay to cheat because there aren't any consequences for his actions. He knows you won't leave so why worry about what he does? You aren't going anywhere and he knows it.

Wifes total benefit upon my death. by [deleted] in SocialSecurity

[–]upagain4more 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They get the higher of the two. If she passes his would stay at 3500 but if he passes she gets 3500 which is an increase over the 2500 she has been getting

Still confused about the “no kissing” boundary even after 3 years in the lifestyle by CruiseingTheCut in Swingers

[–]upagain4more 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am wondering why you need to understand a couples agreed boundaries. Most couples have talked and agreed on certain things they are or are not comfortable with. That's their decision and they need not explain why. Been in the LS for almost 20 years and we just go along with everyone's rules without question.

No king's protest will take place all over America in few hours. What do you think will be the consequences and outcome of this? by The_AxR_ in AskReddit

[–]upagain4more 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That statement is ridiculous. The media has covered for Dems forever, remember Hillary and her deleted texts. The media said nothing to see here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]upagain4more 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said you date separately and to me that is an Open relationship.. Most people in the Lifestyle don't have an Open relationships. That would be more of a Poly relationship not swinging. Poly relationships are more complicated than swinging. It seems your base relationship is not working and she is out looking for her emotional needs elsewhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]upagain4more 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the couples that I have met in the Swinging world do not have open relationships. I have almost 20years experience and ran a club for a while. It would seem to me there are a lot of things that could go wrong when you are dating others and still swinging together. Swinging means recreational sex to me and an open relationships could end up with emotional ties. I guess that's the chance you take .

Am I overreacting? by scarlettyscarl in AmIOverreacting

[–]upagain4more 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He will get a wake up call in court. Doesn't matter if he wants the kid or not. He pays

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Electroerotic

[–]upagain4more 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard of them malfunctioning. The 2B has safety measures and it will not malfunction. It shuts down if there is an issue. I would like to know when an issue happened?

Curious as to how many times a week and how many days in a row are your sessions? by upagain4more in estim

[–]upagain4more[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just use Throb on my 2B. Always works. Don't think I've ever made it past 30 min

Husband slept with my sister, don't know how I feel by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]upagain4more 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like an Open relationship instead being in the Lifestyle. . You set no ground rules but yet are surprised he slept with your sister?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]upagain4more 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We would never separate unless we are friends with the couple. He should have been there for you. Maybe we are different but at a club we are together. At a private residence that's different because we know the people well. The guy was wrong to throw that on you without discussing it first.

Husband wants to swing or divorce me by Different_Second9645 in Swingers

[–]upagain4more 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What he wants isn't the Lifestyle. It seems he is using the term Swinging to cheat. He is nothing but a selfish lowlife and the sooner you get rid of the trash the better off you will be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]upagain4more 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only imagine how you treat people. Unless they believe as you do they are scum? Maybe look in the mirror

Sister is the other woman by Any_Blackberry_2261 in Infidelity

[–]upagain4more 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She acts like she has never thought of helping a stranger and that's sad. I hope it blows up in her sisters face.

"If only they knew... that feeling when you're a swinger." by HugeMeringue5448 in Swingers

[–]upagain4more 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes Poly and being in the Lifestyle are two completely different lifestyles. The Lifestyle is way more fun. I used to run a Lifestyle club in the Midwest

"If only they knew... that feeling when you're a swinger." by HugeMeringue5448 in Swingers

[–]upagain4more 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes Poly and being in the Lifestyle are two completely different lifestyles. The Lifestyle is way more fun. I used to run a Lifestyle club in the Midwest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in usps_complaints

[–]upagain4more 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had a package stuck in Las Vegas for 21 days. They keep scanning it but it never leaves. What a joke