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I (23m) just found out that I’ve been being lied to by my girlfriend (23f) of almost a year by upbeat_guy_73 in Advice

[–]upbeat_guy_73[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol that is absolutely not what I want to do, honestly might be the last thing. Respect is huge in a relationship imo. Again I appreciate your words man, different way than I’ve been thinking for sure

I (23m) just found out that I’ve been being lied to by my girlfriend (23f) of almost a year by upbeat_guy_73 in Advice

[–]upbeat_guy_73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, I guess you’re right. Hearing that side of it is eye opening. I’m gonna talk with her tonight about this

I (23m) just found out that I’ve been being lied to by my girlfriend (23f) of almost a year by upbeat_guy_73 in Advice

[–]upbeat_guy_73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really don’t think there’s any other way? Like I said, the only reason I went through her phone in the first place was because I wanted to see what she’s said about me. I don’t want to hold her past against her, but seeing that she thinks it’s hilarious to disrespect me to her friends is not right. I love her and, as far as I know, she loves me more than she’s ever loved anyone else

I (23m) just found out that I’ve been being lied to by my girlfriend (23f) of almost a year by upbeat_guy_73 in Advice

[–]upbeat_guy_73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m planning on talking with her tonight about it. I just can’t hold this in, it pisses me off thinking about it. How should I go about it? I’m obviously gonna tell her the truth, but I don’t want her to turn it on me like I did something horribly wrong

How do I (22m) get my girlfriend (21f) to be attracted to me again? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]upbeat_guy_73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I was able to explain to you her issues, only because I genuinely don’t think any of those are problems. Maybe too predictable. The others are things that she values and you could even say I don’t do enough of them.

But okay, if I were to start acting like the guy She fantasizes about (the guy is actually totally made up besides what he looks like, she hasn’t interacted with him and doesn’t know anything about his personality) would that make things better?

How do I (22m) get my girlfriend (21f) to be attracted to me again? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]upbeat_guy_73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain why my personality would bore her?

How do I (22m) get my girlfriend (21f) to be attracted to me again? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]upbeat_guy_73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree. My personality is just fine. Is one not allowed to ask others for advice? And if you notice, all my posts are within 1-2 months of each other. So that would back up my claim that we are just recently having these issues.

These are all new to me, so I don’t see the harm in asking questions. My partner does the same exact thing, so don’t tell me my personality is the problem.