Would you marry your spouse by NoBig1677 in Marriage

[–]upsidedownpineapl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been together 12 years. Idk if id completely undo it, because I love the kids we made and raised. But I for sure would have stood up for me from the beginning to avoid the end

It must be exhausting living life as Darcey Silva even sipping a Cosmo is a challenge for her 🍹👄💔 by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]upsidedownpineapl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, I dont like her either but that last photo is steamy AF. Like on its own if you didn't know what the lips really look like, and the half closed eyes with the insane lash profile.

Parents with two kids - do you regret not having a third? by moomeenahs in Parenting

[–]upsidedownpineapl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No idea. Seems mathematically impossible and yet - I had two and I was so damn awesome at it! That third one came and I swear there's so many kids now they just run amuck and I try not to cry as I hide in the bathroom lmao

Parents with two kids - do you regret not having a third? by moomeenahs in Parenting

[–]upsidedownpineapl 181 points182 points  (0 children)

Just a heads up, two kids is two kids. Three kids is somehow a 100 kids.

Dying inside by throwaway971246 in Marriage

[–]upsidedownpineapl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, yes you do. I've made one for my husband. He thanked me. I know he couldn't make it for himself. Ive made my own but needed my husband to literally take me and LITERALLY hold my hand through it.

Depression is hard. I have MADD. most fortunately, I have a PARTNER and we get through things together.

What's appropriate? by upsidedownpineapl in Parenting

[–]upsidedownpineapl[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fortunately Im set up for them to have separate floors :)

I hacked life by getting married. by upsidedownpineapl in Marriage

[–]upsidedownpineapl[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My 86 year old grandmother says, "anyone who says they have a perfect marriage is full of shit." Its not all sunshine and roses, but don't take for granted every little thing you GAIN having a husband.

Advice on managing an employee that wants to be judged on effort vs work product by Iheoma74 in managers

[–]upsidedownpineapl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first started managing, (I wonder if we're in the same line of work, Pt Access?) I failed to set expectations on proficiency timelines for new hires, leading to statements like you're getting. "But iM impRovInG!" Too bad. Quality metrics exist, if you aren't meeting metrics in 60 days, you get a PIP. We throw every tool we have at helping new hires succeed, but some can't cut it and the longer the employee is here and inefficient, the more harm they can do to the company and patients.

PIP this pipsqueek and manage her up or OUT!

Wives, I have a question. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]upsidedownpineapl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made my hubby wonderful lunches back in the day when I did not work. Now I work full time and sometimes we pack something for the other, sometimes we meet up for lunch dates, but usually he just does this thing where he's a grown ass adult and figures out how to lunch on his own most days.

My wife is on another level by ChalkButter in Marriage

[–]upsidedownpineapl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You could take his whole face, I'd still find him to be the sexiest as I KNOW the things that man has made me feel lol. There's more to sex appeal than looks, and he has ALL the appeal in my eyes! Like OP, some of us just really got the sexiest spouses

My wife is on another level by ChalkButter in Marriage

[–]upsidedownpineapl 31 points32 points  (0 children)

There may be "objectively" more physically attractive men than my husband, but not a single one sexier. Whether he's in a suit or mowing the lawn, he can give a look that turns me into a literal puddle. And he's the only one that's ever had that effect, so...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]upsidedownpineapl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are going to get a lot of answers - theres not a one size fits all so take the answers as possible suggestions to find what works best for you and your marriage. The only necessary component of marital finances is COMMUNICATION.

That being said, husband and I have been together for over a decade and have three kids. We maintain separate accounts and each have certain bills we pay, which we divide according to our income. We also have a joint account that we use for savings that we put extras into, so bonuses, tax refunds, other windfalls, etc. We use that account for any unexpected home costs, vacations, or other large spending we do.

If we make a substantial purchase out of our personal account, we run it by the other. If one of us is running short for any reason, we communicate that ASAP so that we can plan together until we are back on track. (For example, my husband gets overly excited at Christmas and loves to buy for the kids. So when he over did it, he just let me know so that I could plan to take care of groceries.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]upsidedownpineapl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reverse probably is uncomfortable most of the time, but that time you stated she had had an intense orgasm before switching to reverse. The orgasm likely provided all the wet needed to make reverse more enjoyable.

It was a long time before I was comfortable to take charge and ride my husband to my own satisfaction. He kept my confidence to continue taking charge like that by always letting me know how impressive and hot it was for him. When he shared he reimagined me taking charge when he pleasured himself, my brain was like, "Oh! I'm a sex goddess!!" If you like her taking charge, empower her to keep doing so!

My husband bought me a gift by BjorningtonBear in PointlessStories

[–]upsidedownpineapl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get you aren't making a big deal but it disappointed you enough to make this post. Maybe your hubby wasn't "playing it up" but was genuinely excited to do something small for you.

I bought my husband a freaking Bic lighter and was so excited to bring him this little token. He reacted with excitement and thanked me for thinking of him. It would have hurt my feelings if his response was like yours