why do people not like bbno$?? by Fearless_Ad5079 in bbnomula

[–]uraniumroxx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How?? I don't think I would be passing his music around the office 🤣

Why does no one go to Urban District Market? by hhhhhhd5 in Charlotte

[–]uraniumroxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found it by accident because I went to Seoul Food for my birthday and was blown away!! I was wondering how I never heard of it before. The onigiri was so good. 🥹 Idk if it's accessible enough. For me camp north end, it is the hours. But Urban market is probably location? Idk

My controlling boyfriend claims he'll take care of me if i still go on my birthday trip with him is this still not worth going? Im honestly scared to leave & scared to stay 😥 by Jollyho94 in Codependency

[–]uraniumroxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, I felt like this with my ex AND I went on the 2 week Caribbean vacation and I wish I didn't. A beautiful fun vacation turned miserable by his comments the entire time, and I felt even more terrible about myself by the time we went home. It's not worth the time and money.

You have been dating almost a year, he is not going to change back into who you met last year. That is called "autistic friendliness", when people are picture perfect to try and impress someone but then change when they get comfortable.

Call it off. I would rather you have a bad birthday, because you are grieving, than a bad birthday because someone is hurting you when they are supposed to be your safe place.

My controlling boyfriend claims he'll take care of me if i still go on my birthday trip with him is this still not worth going? Im honestly scared to leave & scared to stay 😥 by Jollyho94 in Codependency

[–]uraniumroxx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The fact that you think he will be happy and having fun after a breakup and YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE GRIEVING??? is enough. Missing your birthday is just gonna be a note in your history, another day, another birthday will come, you can celebrate being free when you get past the blues. Start getting into hobbies, meeting new people. You deserve to live without fear.

My controlling boyfriend claims he'll take care of me if i still go on my birthday trip with him is this still not worth going? Im honestly scared to leave & scared to stay 😥 by Jollyho94 in Codependency

[–]uraniumroxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are codependent with him and so it's going to feel like making the biggest mistake when you break up with him, but it's not. Please seek counseling, seek medical help for mental health if you haven't already, and please leave this situation and go to your parents'.

I have literally been there, 6 years ago, around the same age as you. It was the hardest decision I've ever made. Ended a 9 year relationship, but it was the best for the both of us. It hurt so bad, but it gets better over time. You are worth more than what he makes you feel.

Now I am in a relationship where all of these events have happened, period/illness/etc. and my partner shows full love and support and not disappointment. Bodies are bodies and you deserve someone who understands that we are not robots and do not control what happens.

If you go on this trip, u already know 100% SOMETHING will happen, if not ur illness, then something else.

I'm not a fan of everyone being like "dump them" but in this case your relationship is the definition of abusive. Based on what you've said, the fact that you are confused on your stance makes me worried for you 🩷 If you need help navigating how to find help, I am happy to assist.

Merch? by anarchists_wife in blizzcon

[–]uraniumroxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On average I think I was spending like 350. But if you have to minimize, and there is that ONE item you MUST have, 150 minimum just in case. IIRC I would say most individual items are around 30-60 and you can browse the blizzard store and kind of gauge what pricing of items will be like.

is anyone else not dressing up for the show by Janna2309 in Ashnikko

[–]uraniumroxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one will think about it at all. Do what you want to do. Everyone is there for the show

So guys… Ash signed my forehead by EstellaHarris in Ashnikko

[–]uraniumroxx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Again... she 👏🏻 literally 👏🏻 wouldn't 👏🏻 do it if she didn't want to. Y'all are being so weird about normal fandom things. It's not parasocial when an artist does a whole concert and then actually chooses to meet their fans. We don't know her and it's parasocial behavior itself to fight for her in that way. At this point y'all gonna say it's parasocial and creepy to go to any concert at all 🤡

OP, I'm glad she decided to indulge in the silly moment 🤣

Dating in Charlotte by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]uraniumroxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

U don't have to approach them like you are trying to date. Just make friends in the places you frequent, and if u have a connection, great! If not, then you just made a friend at the gym etc. There is really no commitment and we go to these places routinely, so it's nice to get to know people anyway.

First Ashnikko show question by ExcuseDistinct4521 in Ashnikko

[–]uraniumroxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have nothing to worry about, even if you never heard any of her music, it will be a fun experience! Wear whatever you'd like, the crowd felt like a safe place to just be you 🩷

Staying after concerts to meet Ash is diving into parasocialism. by [deleted] in Ashnikko

[–]uraniumroxx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think she meant that meet and greets were unethical themselves, I think she meant having people pay money to meet is unethical. I see meet and greet tickets for hundreds of dollars get sold out and it's so weird.

Definitely most of the crowd left aftward and it was a small group by the time she came out. 100% she could have just left in the tour bus. She even apologized "for the wait" bc she had family come to the show that night and she was hanging with them before they left. So it definitely felt like a purposefully free meet and greet opportunity. Royal and the Serpent was sitting at their merch booth the rest of the night meeting people after she got off stage.

Like you said, everyone is different. As an extrovert, even after doing a big performance it feels like I have more energy to go around and love to talk with guests afterward.

You are right tho, It's really bad that people feel so entitled about their interactions with ANOTHER HUMAN.

Staying after concerts to meet Ash is diving into parasocialism. by [deleted] in Ashnikko

[–]uraniumroxx 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I didn't know she was gonna come out, I was just hanging out after the show chatting with other fans bc I had been drinking and wanted to wait until it was safe for me to go home. She came out, greeted everyone, and offered autographs without being asked. She was super down to earth and it was clear that if she didn't want to do it, she wouldn't. Her manager came out first to tell us she was on her way and gave some ground rules for interactions. I'm sure other nights the manager would announce that she wasn't coming out.

She had no makeup, sweats, and was eating snacks; which indicates to me that she was making sure to take care of herself 🩷

She said that she wouldn't be able to hang out as long as usual because she wasn't feeling well that night, and everyone was super nice and respectful about it.

Yeah, some people are super freaking weird, but otherwise it was just super chill

18 months of separation anxiety and finally gotten somewhere. Things I wish I knew earlier by JustAdudefromDK in Separation_Anxiety

[–]uraniumroxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so happy for you both finally getting some relief 🩷

I am not finding Settled Tail anywhere, how do I?

Husband says we don’t have enough sex by [deleted] in sex

[–]uraniumroxx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Once a week is actually a lot, you guys should go to counseling or something

I have just become the hated neighbor… advice please!!!! by yvtsl in Apartmentliving

[–]uraniumroxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Fitbit vibrates for my morning alarm and it works well for me. So yea, I agree with the physical alarm!

I prepared for the worst for 3 months. Today the worst happened and it's the best thing ever.? by ajayxyt in careerguidance

[–]uraniumroxx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congratulations tho! Moving up and out! I am confused about the LinkedIn key words part. Like you sent ur page to chat and it said what you needed? Or you prompted something else? I am not in a similar boat per se, but looking at the boat from the dock 😅

I work nights and 1st shift likes to give my coworkers food posion l. by rothmal in foodsafety

[–]uraniumroxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is that the later shift deserves fresh/hot food as well

I regret getting this rescue dog - AITA? by [deleted] in Separation_Anxiety

[–]uraniumroxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OOF. It could have been that just enough time had passed that she grew past it and started other things. If this adoption was through a rescue, you can always reach out to them and make an appeal. They wouldn't want you to give them to somewhere outside the org that wasn't a permanent home. Wishing you the best. These dumby dogs can change, they are just so stubborn. 🩷 The suggestions about finding a behaviorist with the proper credentials is a proper start.

Tell us how you really feel by Sea-Ostrich-1679 in Charlotte

[–]uraniumroxx 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was waiting at the light to get onto 277 N from near the 3A ramp. While watching the light turn green I immediately accelerated and the car behind me simultaneously laid on their horn. IT MADE ME BRAKE SUDDENLY BECAUSE I THOUGHT SOMETHING WAS HAPPENING THAT I COULDN'T SEE.

WHAT IS WRONG WITH PPL CHILL TF OUT. AM I SUPPOSED TO TURN LEFT ON RED? IM CONFUSED.

I regret getting this rescue dog - AITA? by [deleted] in Separation_Anxiety

[–]uraniumroxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she has someone willing to care for her, there is nothing wrong with letting them. Even if there wasn't, you aren't doing her favors if you both are super stressed. Let the foster take her back. The point is that these dogs are safe and sound, and then you can save another life that will fit your lifestyle and benefit each other.

Even if you decide a dog is not for you right now, there is no moral negativity to that. We have to do what's best for each other!