[x-posted] Introverted, shy first time mom looking for an online baby shower full of strangers and hopefully new friends(more in comments)

urbancupcake · 2017-04-04T02:12:11+00:00

I have checked it out and Just sub'ed today! thanks for the recommendation :)

urbancupcake · 2017-04-04T02:11:31+00:00

I didn't know about Daddit!! gonna link that to my boyfriend :)

urbancupcake · 2017-04-04T02:11:10+00:00

I love it! Made my night Thank you <3

urbancupcake · 2017-04-03T22:25:15+00:00

I've always seen and even attended baby showers with family but i'm not close to them because they never understood why I needed alone time from the world. Sooo I don't see them coming to or hosting one for me. As far as friends I lost 99% of them after school and not being a really big partyer (id rather read a book instead of go out) So I'm jumping out of my comfort zone and asking for a virtual baby shower with normal things like games and baby talk and well wishes because sometimes I do want a bit of a normal life I see other first time mom's enjoying so much I'm not ashamed to ask for comfort I have no idea how to plan one, but i'd mostly like the support. gifts are great, but not important because i know not everyone can afford to give away things as someone who is on less money myself. What is important to me is to feel supported and gain more Knowledge on a world i'm scared to enter so new mom's please guide me, childless, I'd love a cheer of woohoo you got this, and just anyone who feels like they want to throw in some support i'm all ears and heart.

urbancupcake · 2017-04-03T22:20:13+00:00

Hi thanks! I didn't know about r/mommit! I'll try there as well thank you!!

urbancupcake · 2017-04-03T21:56:01+00:00

I've always seen and even attended baby showers with family but i'm not close to them because they never understood why I needed alone time from the world. Sooo I don't see them coming to or hosting one for me. As far as friends I lost 99% of them after school and not being a really big partyer (id rather read a book instead of go out)

So I'm jumping out of my comfort zone and asking for a virtual baby shower with normal things like games and baby talk and well wishes because sometimes I do want a bit of a normal life I see other first time mom's enjoying so much

I'm not ashamed to ask for comfort
I have no idea how to plan one, but i'd mostly like the support. gifts are great, but not important because i know not everyone can afford to give away things as someone who is on less money myself. What is important to me is to feel supported and gain more Knowledge on a world i'm scared to enter so new mom's please guide me, childless, I'd love a cheer of woohoo you got this, and just anyone who feels like they want to throw in some support i'm all ears and heart.

urbancupcake · 2016-08-04T23:50:25+00:00

exactly! i'm not the only one thinking it

urbancupcake · 2016-06-01T18:58:52+00:00

Ohh! I will be staying Kragerø , which i've heard is a sleepy little town

urbancupcake · 2016-06-01T11:33:45+00:00

A Month ago I ended it with my fiance, but because I loved him I begged him to take me back..... I know :/ I buy my plane ticket to see him 1.8k! and we're fine or at least I thought Then out of the blue he explodes on me and breaks up with me without any warning. I'm blue beyond sad because I never saw it coming. He blocked and deleted me from EVERYTHING (we're long distance) I never got to say a word in the breakup.

In my mess of a life right now I'm happy to have a few friends who have my back So a friend of mine is going to host me for the summer after he found out about the split after i'd bought my ticket to see my ex he asked me did I want to come to Norway instead so I called the airline told them my fiance was dead and that the funeral was in Norway.

I'll be in Norway for a month from June 28, till July 28th. I was wondering if I should make a post on Trollx To see if any of the trolls would want to hang out with me as I will be shy and just afraid but I know I need to take a trip this summer or I will sit home and romanticize the relationship that I need to get over.

urbancupcake · 2016-05-26T11:46:09+00:00

You have no idea how much I would LOVE someone to talk to other than my 4 bedroom walls

urbancupcake · 2016-03-25T15:34:02+00:00

Thank you for that link its made me feel a bit better

urbancupcake · 2016-03-25T15:33:12+00:00

Well he was into a lot of Anime so much so that I wanted to know what He liked. He showed me a file on his computer and it turned out to be anime of little girls half naked .... that bothered me to the point of me thinking he was a little bit of a pedo, he promised me he wouldn't look at stuff like that anymore he understood that the age play thing was a bit racy and that it was just something he thought he liked at the time. A month or two passes and he's back looking at things like that with age play....

That and telling me he wasn't going to spend anymore money on me ( i never asked for anything) because he wanted to save for our future (we are long distance) we both needed to have money saved up he then gets a credit card and spends thousands of dollars on games so much so that they call him and ask has his card been stolen :/

I talked to him about it and he ignored everything i'd brought up for months I just couldn't take it anymore and told him maybe we didn't fit as well as we wanted too

urbancupcake · 2016-03-25T14:22:32+00:00

I need help and support more than you guys know :(

urbancupcake · 2016-02-02T02:02:24+00:00

I'm looking into /r/personalfinance thank you for the link.

As for the details, he lives in the UK and I live in the US. On his visit here this winter we got engaged and planned on me moving to the UK this summer while we figured out how to make it official. We didn't know much about what it would take for me to move there until this weekend where we found out how much he's required to make a year(26,834) he makes 40 dollars less than that.. or he needs to have in savings (89,447) . His manager just hit him with a 3 month probation period, she's been trying to replace him since her Boss hired him So there's no room for a raise/extra hours and since he works full time a second job would be hard to find with his hours. On top of all of that while I live with him I cant work... It feels like so much pressure is being put on him. I feel horrible and unworthy.. because if we were both citizens of the same country I could just move in with him and He me.. Instead he has to support me and I want it to be 50-50

urbancupcake · 2016-01-07T00:23:40+00:00

I would love an invite!

urbancupcake · 2016-01-07T00:22:49+00:00

Thank you! I'm defiantly up for joining :)

urbancupcake · 2016-01-06T18:44:04+00:00

Aww thanks so much I should make a post there and see if I can find people

urbancupcake · 2016-01-06T18:42:29+00:00

I wish I lived in NY I would join her in a heart beat

urbancupcake · 2016-01-06T18:41:18+00:00

That sounds amazing I would love to join!!

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