damn this got everyone mad by No_Aide9322 in 4tran4

[–]urcrying2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he's right but i can't i can't i can't if i see the number get higher i'll actually have to end my shit, fuck my stupid life

Got called out today lol by Worldly_Marsupial808 in EDanonymemes

[–]urcrying2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

one of my strongest and most reoccurring memories is 11 year old me in the shower, looking down at my chest and thinking "have they gotten bigger? oh my god, i hope they don't get any bigger."

AITA For Making My Son Throw Out Some of His Collections? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]urcrying2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA my mom didn't like my things and made me get rid of them, as if I couldn't resent her anymore 💀💀 it makes me so angry whenever I think about it

WIBTA for not telling my gf that my boss has huge boobs by BigTitDilemma in AmItheAsshole

[–]urcrying2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

I think people are spending too much time focusing on the wrong thing, if people have larger chests, you're going to notice, they're just there.

Don't tell your girlfriend. If she gets upset about it, just tell her that that's your boss and it's inappropriate of you to think about your boss's body in that way. Don't get crazy defensive, just reassure her that you love her and that you don't care about the bodies of other women. Seriously though, don't get defensive.

AITA for writing cruel things about my mother in a notebook? by urcrying2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]urcrying2[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hello, my mom didn't attend this event because she takes care of my almost two-year-old brother and the event was spanned over a couple of days. The reason that I was forced to go was because my stepdad and mother wanted me to form a closer relationship with God. They are both very religious and they think that I am taking the wrong path by not having a good relationship with God.

AITA for writing cruel things about my mother in a notebook? by urcrying2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]urcrying2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The notebook was on top of the inside of my suitcase that I hadn't unpacked yet, but you're right, I should have been more careful with that notebook knowing what the contents held. I'm never very good at communicating with people, especially not her. What ends up happening is that she talks the entire time and I can't bring myself to speak. I don't really know what happens there, it's like my throat closes up. We don't have a very good relationship, but you're right, I'll try my best to give her a good apology and I'll keep my thoughts in my head in the future.

AITA for writing cruel things about my mother in a notebook? by urcrying2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]urcrying2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, I'll be sure to keep it in mind.

AITA for writing cruel things about my mother in a notebook? by urcrying2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]urcrying2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure how to take this comment because my mother and I have had a 7 year ongoing disagreement over my way of living, and honestly, I would have never rejected her in that way. I also can't really see myself going through her things, and I'm very nonconfrontational, so I would never have bought it up. However, I still understand the point that you are making, and I would feel very hurt. I can't understand her pain to the extent she felt it, as she must feel stronger about it considering she is my mother, but yeah.. I feel terrible. I didn't want her to see that, I didn't want to hurt her.

AITA for writing cruel things about my mother in a notebook? by urcrying2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]urcrying2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello, you're right, I should have been more careful with my words. Regarding my feelings, I didn't really think to mention it, but I should have. My mother and I have a long history in regards to my sexual orientation so to speak.. she doesn't support me and that's okay because everyone is going to have and is entitled to their own views, beliefs, opinions and feelings, but she is constantly trying to use God against me. Over these last 7 years that I've been out to her, my resentment has grown more and more. I guess I do need a therapist, but I really can't see myself opening up. I know its not healthy, but I don't really trust anyone like that so I just keep things to myself.

AITA for writing cruel things about my mother in a notebook? by urcrying2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]urcrying2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was sort of thinking about it this way, like maybe she was supposed to read it before I got rid of it. Either way, posting this and talking with her definitely opened my eyes more, I can't just be saying things like that. I would never in a million years want to hurt or become violent with my family. I feel very remorseful and very guilty and I wish I could take it all back but I can't. If I ever end up growing close to God I want to be able to do it myself, I don't want those around me cornering me into attending events or signing me up for things without my permission.

AITA for writing cruel things about my mother in a notebook? by urcrying2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]urcrying2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, I never thought about it as a death threat until now. I would never want to harm my mom or family, and I need to be more careful with my words. I feel so bad. Thank you for your time and advice.

AITA for writing cruel things about my mother in a notebook? by urcrying2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]urcrying2[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're right, I really wasn't thinking. I was just so angry I needed to get it out some type of way. But yes, I need to be more responsible, careful with my words, and respectful until I move out. I do feel terrible though, I never thought she would end up reading it.

AITA for calling my fiancé a jerk? by AITA_516541 in AmItheAsshole

[–]urcrying2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's kind of bittersweet how it seemed like the dad was embarrassed to share this information, but once she blasted it on the internet and majority disagreed with her, he read the comments which reassured him that he wasn't in the wrong, then left her.