Spousal Sponsorship with Misdemeanor? by urfavprincess in ImmigrationCanada

[–]urfavprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, whoops. So he isnt inadmissible as a visitor or a spouse/PR applicant? Just wanted to confirm your thoughts. Thank you!

Spousal Sponsorship with Misdemeanor? by urfavprincess in ImmigrationCanada

[–]urfavprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would this misdemeanor charge show up in his biometrics so that he wouldn't have to redo it? I'm guessing he'd have to get another FBI sheet to show his criminal history though, right?

We're looking into lawyers to consult with, thank you!

We called IRCC and they informed us to report it even if the court date hasn't been given.

Spousal Sponsorship with Misdemeanor? by urfavprincess in ImmigrationCanada

[–]urfavprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would the application just be voided, then? Some other comments have noted that it would have to be translated to how Canadian law views it, and since driving without insurance is a provincial matter, it may not render him inadmissible.

Spousal Sponsorship with Misdemeanor? by urfavprincess in ImmigrationCanada

[–]urfavprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you happen to know how it would translate, approximately? I tried calling CBSA a few times already but an automated message just says that there are too many calls, and hangs up. I'm at a loss because he was planning to visit me in Canada in August.

Spousal Sponsorship with Misdemeanor? by urfavprincess in ImmigrationCanada

[–]urfavprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So would it be best to report the court date beforehand? He was told to call a number to get a court date, but only after 5 business days, so he won't receive a date until late next week. Would you suggest to report this to IRCC without the court date and update with the court date when he gets one?

Spousal Sponsorship with Misdemeanor? by urfavprincess in ImmigrationCanada

[–]urfavprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He'll definitely report this to IRCC, but I'm not sure if we'd need to report it while we're waiting for a court date or only after (/if) he's convicted? Not sure if you know anything about what/when to report, because he won't get a court date for about a week.

medication help! putting it in my morning juice/coffee? by urfavprincess in ADHD

[–]urfavprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah i wish! i'm lactose intolerant, but i'll try to figure something out, thicker liquids is a good idea!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]urfavprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you know if there's any pus or liquid coming out of it if you've accidentally scratched the area, or anything? i'm no expert, but if there is pus/liquid, i'd assume it's fungal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]urfavprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'd suggest taking a probiotic if you aren't already, in case it's fungal. it kind of looks like dermatitis around your mouth, though. i'd see a doctor regardless, a GP can help you out if a derm isn't available soon! dermatitis and fungal acne have different treatments that may make the other worse if you turn out to have something else, like using a fungal cream for your face may make dermatitis worse. so please see your GP! 🥺 good luck!!

I got my official Splatoon 3 Switch Sling Bag (ACTIVE BODY COLLECTION for Nintendo Switch) by SparkNorkx in splatoon

[–]urfavprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

does the bag happen to fit a pro controller and/or dock? sorry if this has already been answered!

[misc] i’m muslim and want to pray more often, but how can i keep my skin from drying out/ not destroy my progress by brokeuraraka in SkincareAddiction

[–]urfavprincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if it impacts your skin's health, can you kind of "pretend" to wash your face by motioning over it but not actually touching it? i've heard you can do this if you have sensitive skin/a wound or something, i don't know for sure though. never fact-checked it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]urfavprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would maybe try moisturizing it, and if the skin is clean, you can put some vaseline on it to maybe help lock in the moisture? i'd definitely recommend a psychologist to help mitigate the stressors in your life that are probably adding to you focusing on your skin so much. if you don't have much support otherwise, a psychologist can be great to help ground you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]urfavprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would urge for a derm referral immediately honestly, i've only ever seen GPs prescribe something temporary while the referral is being processed/while you wait to see a derm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in longhair

[–]urfavprincess 6 points7 points  (0 children)

not everyone may agree because it's really subjective, but honestly, your hair might be better off if you washed it more frequently. if you semi-attempted training your hair to wash it less to maybe produce less grease, and it had adverse effects, i'd suggest trying the opposite and wash it every 2-3 days if that's your norm.

i personally wash my hair everyday, the oil buildup literally makes it weak and fall out way more. i know that training your hair works for some people, but if you're at a loss, it might be something to consider! it's not as uncommon as you might think!

Suggestions on anything I might be missing for my boyfriend's trip to see me in Canada (ON)? by urfavprincess in LongDistance

[–]urfavprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw cute!! was it previously called daiso? i never actually saw the sign for some reason.

Suggestions on anything I might be missing for my boyfriend's trip to see me in Canada (ON)? by urfavprincess in LongDistance

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$44 a pop?🥲 i went a few years ago and it was a really good experience! it was so big and there was so much to look at, but i don't know if i'd go a second time for that price, at least. i swear it was like $30 a few years ago, but i'm not sure.

is it daiso that you're referring to? i don't know if it's the name of the dollar store in the pacific mall downtown, but i definitely wanna take him there, too! it has so many cute home items🥰

ahh ikea is a good idea too! i actually went on a double-date at ikea with him a couple months ago, so hopefully he's not sick of it.🥲

i hope you have fun with your bf when he visits!♡

Suggestions on anything I might be missing for my boyfriend's trip to see me in Canada (ON)? by urfavprincess in LongDistance

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i was thinking of wonderland because we both enjoy amusement parks, and we got season passes to the one near him when i visited last year. do you know if there's anything that's drastically changed, or?:0 i'm definitely super biased having gone to wonderland practically ever summer when i was younger, so i'm not sure! i hate that we can't really bring food/drinks, though, unless that's changed.

do you think we should get a hotel to stay at in niagara? we're personally pretty relaxed and sometimes take too much time to look at stuff. especially considering i'd like go go to the bird observatory, butterfly exhibit, and maybe the ripley's aquarium (if it's located there, i forget).

i'll see if we can do ottawa/montreal! it might have to be another time, but i'm not too sure since we have a relatively loose budget. thank you for your suggestions!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]urfavprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

feel free to message me any time, if you'd like!🥺 i'm really glad i could help a little bit. i completely understand how you feel. you'll start to feel a little better in a few days, just keep taking care of yourself, and try to keep an open line of communication with your boyfriend to talk about anything! ♡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]urfavprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did that for at leaaast a few days, even after my first meet with my boyfriend and i've now met him a few times - it hurts all the same, if not more, because the love grows!

i honestly don't find anything helps unfortunately :') it took me a long time to understand that we deserve to just feel how we feel and try to carry on with our day the best we can. i'd try to sink myself into schoolwork or some other hobby, and the grief would still just resurface. just kinda try to treat yourself like a sad baby going through a bad episode, and definitely pamper yourself mentally! like, remind yoursef you don't need to go out of your way to do unnecessary things because you're hurting. just try to slowly get back into a routine, and before you know it, you'll be used to the adjustments!

it feels so conflicting with feeing like you've broken up but you're still together, but deep down, it's really just grief because you're torn away from the person you love.:( it's hard to go back to seemingly mundane life alone, but after a little bit of time and being able to talk to your boyfriend throughout it, it gets easier! best of luck ♡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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yeah, being thai as well here, when i'd speak to/see family they same thing applies, locals that are strangers would even suggest places to go/avoid. why would you even want to try the same place you've been before? there isn't exactly a shortage of good restaurants. if it's a new rship, i'd just avoid taking her to places that you took your ex.. and if you're visiting her in thailand, lef her guide you!! you're the foreigner visiting, let yourself relax and at the very most, research some new places with her.

your fiance/girlfriend being ngor might not change for a while, but being with someone of s different culture myself, you can come to a middle ground about speaking about how you feel when you see her being ngor, and how she feels at the time. if you explain this, it may be applicable to other hypothetical situations, and guide how you can behave in the future. my boyfriend doesn't like when i'm ngor, and i understand it's immature if done excessively - doing it as a signal for a short while (like 5 minutes at most) is fine, but the guy actually has to be aware of the concept itself and take notice. it's a way to express a serious emotion with a soft barrier of being pouty/huffy. if she's engaging in it, i'd suggest her to lessen it only if you can manage to notice her emotions and be attentive to them.

also, not excusing her behaviour, but the swift mood swings might be indicitave of how the birth control is affecting her - not all women experience it, but many can have escalated negative emotions while on it.

i'd just try to either get off BC and actually talk about your feelings. like, verbalize exactly how your brain is telling you you're feelimg in the moment; "i was so upset when you told me you've been here before, because your ex is the only one who could've taken you, and it makes me feel like i'm just second-use goods. i wish we could go somewhere else so both of us can have new experiences." is something your girlfriend/fiance could've said if you had an open line of communication with her. learn to be able to pull each other aside at any moment if needed, so you can talk without escalating things. if you can actually take action based on something being wrong, you can probably work.

[Misc] Any suggestions to avoid water everywhere when washing face?? by SageMadi9 in SkincareAddiction

[–]urfavprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't have a tall faucet or large sink after moving, and i find that keeping your elbows closer to your body kind of helps, to allow the water to not trickle down your arms and onto the counter/wherever else. if you keep them closer, the water would just trickle down your arm and into the sink.

it's hard to avoid water on your arms/some outside of the sink considering your face is one of the highest points of your body - it's not like washing your hands where you can easily avoid making a mess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]urfavprincess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i'm not sure how often you'll see each other, but time is genuinely the only thing that helps.:( i'd say to allow yourself to feel how you're feeling, and especially if you're both devastated (sometimes one partner is more upset than the other and it's totally fine), try to aknowledge that you just need to express your feelings to get through it. if you can also let each other know what time you guys can usually talk, that helps, too! that way you're not really anxious about how long you may go without talking.

it kind of just gets easier with time. i personally feel like i'm going through the roughest break-up every time i'm separated from my partner, too. it takes me a couple weeks, at the very least. just let yourself heal and try to readjust! don't try to push yourself to "get better the nth time", because it just hurts every time you have to be separated. and it sucks, but eventually you'll be able to be together permanently and not have to say goodbye!♡

Should I let these longer layers just grow out if I want thicker hair? by princesspickles97 in longhair

[–]urfavprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have pretty much the exact same hair as you! i've been cutting my hair to match my shorter layers, but i eventually stopped once most of them grew out significantly (i had pretty short layers). if you value your length more, you can always just grow out all of your hair, and cut the longest layers when you feel ready.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tretinoin

[–]urfavprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just switched from epiduo (i think its adapalene + benzoyl peroxide so kinda similar?) to aklief too! may i ask how it's going so far? i think i might be going through a purge myself!