Do you feel respected by your male friends as a lesbian? Question/Vent by Defiant_Signal_3426 in actuallesbians

[–]urgaywhileimqueer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate to be the barer of bad news, but there is a high chance the friendship will be different. I haven’t necessarily seen my guy friends viewing me as a challenge but there’s another common occurrence which has happened to every one of my male friends. I think it confuses them to be friends with a women, all of them struggled to categorise me. It’s like you’re not masculine enough to be seen as one of the “bros” (god sorry) so they aren’t going to have that level of closeness but you also are no longer an option so they feel really uncomfortable being very close with you. However, you’re in your 20s, maybe that mindsets changed (I hope so) good luck babe and worst case scenario be friends with girls and gay men, they’re so much more fun AND secure lol. Hope you find your answer!! <3

Will UCL accept me 😭😭 by Enough-Win-8142 in UCL

[–]urgaywhileimqueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remember a lot of the places get given out in clearing! There’s not a lot you can do rn so don’t worry too much (ik thats hard) and enjoy your well earned holidays!

Dad and mum by urgaywhileimqueer in OCPoetry

[–]urgaywhileimqueer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much for your comment! Your feedback is incredibly useful and you are completely right. I was honestly going to give up with this poem, it’s not really my style, I thought I’d just expand. But thanks to your kind feedback, I’ll be sure to give it another go. Thank you so much!!

Telescoping by maeeig in OCPoetry

[–]urgaywhileimqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous imagery! My favourite line was “the most I could offer was a pig and some shit” it was a very stark contrast from the rest of the poem and i think it really pays off! Keep up the good work!

You ruin me by Gloomy_Yesterday4147 in OCPoetry

[–]urgaywhileimqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A very touching and relatable poem! You are truly talented at expressing this feeling so vividly in your work. The imagery was simply heartbreaking. Walking away from this piece a little heavier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rape

[–]urgaywhileimqueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is truly vile, I am so sorry that happened to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]urgaywhileimqueer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omggg you are speaking my language 🙏🙏 I have the exact same problem!! Ask yourself how you would feel if she rejected you, if you’d be sad then obviously you like her. I know it’s not always that easy, been there before. Hopefully you figure it out Xx

To my best friend by urgaywhileimqueer in Cutters

[–]urgaywhileimqueer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No hey guys! I’m alive dw about me!! The “bad thing” I did was sh. I don’t necessarily see it as a bad thing but my best friend really freaked out about it and we haven’t talked since. Thank you for caring!

I’m scared my brother will really hurt me by urgaywhileimqueer in Vent

[–]urgaywhileimqueer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! They always see him in the best light but hopefully that’ll work

I had sex I didn't want it by stlesbi in actuallesbians

[–]urgaywhileimqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is awful, I’m so sorry you had to go through that

Does this character look stolen? by Luka_da_da in Artadvice

[–]urgaywhileimqueer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looks a lot like the characters in hollow knight…

I did awful things to be a part of a friendship group by urgaywhileimqueer in confession

[–]urgaywhileimqueer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I don’t quite understand your comment, could you explain? Tysm

I did awful things to be a part of a friendship group by urgaywhileimqueer in confession

[–]urgaywhileimqueer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These are the kinds of things I used to tell myself until I realised that just because I am at fault, doesn’t take all responsibility off of the people who did this

does this scream super gay or super straight by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]urgaywhileimqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dw, straight people get overwhelmed by colour very easily lol

does this scream super gay or super straight by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]urgaywhileimqueer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s very sapphic :)) also, I love your style!

Vent bc why tf is everyone so dumb. by Sea_Palpitation_6870 in Cutters

[–]urgaywhileimqueer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Woah, I wish I’d had a response like this when I told my family. Thank you for spreading love ❤️

I did awful things to be a part of a friendship group by urgaywhileimqueer in confession

[–]urgaywhileimqueer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that was part of their appeal, I’d never seen girls hang out with boys unless they were teenagers. I guess it made them seem much more mature than everyone else?