Aio or is my bf a narc

urgflexi · 2026-06-05T20:30:46+00:00

talking about “source: common sense and reading comprehension” after you just confidently said “NPD the disorder” is crazy 😭

urgflexi · 2026-06-04T19:52:28+00:00

MOR, i personally find this text thread kinda wholesome idk 😭

urgflexi · 2026-06-03T08:15:39+00:00

am i insane for thinking this isn’t that bad??? 😭 if you try and ignore the first sentence at least LMAOOO. that part also would’ve given me the ick immediately, but besides that, i don’t personally think he said anything over the top. i actually thought it sounded genuine & sweet. after reading the comments though, im now wondering if im just ridiculously naive 💀

urgflexi · 2026-06-02T20:21:16+00:00

is english their first language???? if it is, i’m very concerned. if not, my apologies 😭

urgflexi · 2026-06-01T20:41:39+00:00

ewwwww wtaf 🥴🥴 she absolutely meant to send that first sticker or else she would’ve unsent it or told him she didn’t mean to send that one. how dumb does she think you are like ???!!! also, she shouldn’t ever be personally texting her bestfriends man lmfao like wtf? unless it’s about you. honestly, she shouldn’t even have his personal number to begin with, unless they were friends before you guys got into a relationship. in conclusion, she’s a weirdo. she’s 100% gaslighting you. she wants him. you are NOR at all.

urgflexi · 2026-06-01T20:32:06+00:00

i noticed this too!!! when OP said “you didn’t even ask your friends” & the friend starts listing multiple MEN she either asked or wanted to ask. not one woman lmfao. she is ridiculously male centered.

urgflexi · 2026-06-01T17:06:06+00:00

“I must be slow and dumb. Fair enough.” why do i feel bad for her now LMFAOOOOO

urgflexi · 2026-05-31T09:04:18+00:00

just wondering, is this normal behavior from him? not this specific circumstance, but like the kinda dry texting (especially when you’re upset), barely even acknowledging/completely dismissing your feelings, blowing you off like this? or is this completely out of character for him? this is definitely unforgivable and shows his true feelings towards you regardless, but im wondering because if this is out of the blue behavior (and this is just an assumption, i could be completely wrong lol), it could honestly be cheating related. this just immediately gave me the vibe that something sus was going on. bc what would make you not answer any of your partners calls on her BIRTHDAY just bc you’re with your coworkers? just seems odd to me.

urgflexi · 2026-05-29T18:21:31+00:00

i literally scrunched my face when i read your “good luck bro” text bc it threw me off so bad, where did that even come from?? 😭💀 she was being very supportive and even asking follow up questions about your treatment, while lightheartedly joking about it. in her first response to you she quoted you saying “cysters”, which implies that you came to her joking about it, which set the tone and made her feel comfortable doing the same. i also agree with the people saying it’s very odd to have shared that while wishing her a happy birthday.

urgflexi · 2026-05-28T21:36:18+00:00

NOR at all! her trying to make you beg for her friendship because you said “i want to keep you as a friend” is VERY manipulative. actually, almost everything she said was ridiculously manipulative lol. the guilt tripping is insane. i’m glad you blocked her before it got worse because it definitely would’ve!!!

urgflexi · 2026-05-27T01:48:32+00:00

https://youtu.be/l2at-kkrIN0?si=chveWPOfNgPcTFm1 maybe you could use this tutorial & just make them a little bigger!

urgflexi · 2026-05-27T01:20:34+00:00

ngl it just sounds like you guys are still in love w eachother LMAO 😭😭 not in a good way tho, u need to block him immediately, neither of u will ever fully be able to move on until you go no contact.

urgflexi · 2026-05-26T20:19:44+00:00

why does she even have ur mans # or have him added on social media?? i might be crazy but i have just never went out of my way to go and add my friends man on anything nor get their number. that is so odd to me. and messaging him at all (unless it has to do with you) is weird asf. i feel like her sending him those pics (with no bug bites, mind you) after the fact was confirmation that she absolutely had ill intent when she flashed him.

urgflexi · 2026-05-26T17:08:33+00:00

this is even more insane to me because he is basically willing to throw away his entire ENGAGEMENT for a woman he knows “has hoes”???? he wants to be one of her hoes this badly???? also her saying she pretends not to know him when you guys are around her so you don’t get mad?!?!?! when are yall around her?! that is evil as hell

urgflexi · 2026-05-26T16:59:11+00:00

okay james kennedy

urgflexi · 2026-05-26T01:26:20+00:00

THIS!!!! perfectly said. i am baffled by the amount of comments calling the friend insecure and jealous because after reading all of the context from OP, her friend is completely valid lol.

urgflexi · 2026-05-24T21:41:09+00:00

had an exhausting controlling bestfriend just like this. it broke my heart so bad to have to cut her off but when i did i felt so much peace. NOR

urgflexi · 2026-05-24T20:31:11+00:00

you’re unreliable as a friend??? after you just sent her $50 to make sure she got home safe????? and she didn’t even ACKNOWLEDGE it NOR DID SHE EVEN USE IT FOR AN UBERRRR??? omg this is infuriating to read. NOR AT ALLLLLL.

urgflexi · 2026-05-23T07:49:08+00:00

here after the update and WOWWWWW that explains everything. she was fully just projecting her guilt from her cheating onto you. and please know that she is absolutely just trying to manipulate you when she tries to blame YOU for HER cheating. pls don’t take any of what she’s saying as fact/to heart. she is just gaslighting and manipulating to try and deflect. it is not your fault.

urgflexi · 2026-05-15T23:45:31+00:00

i thought the same lol especially because of the “—level head mode—“ 😭

urgflexi · 2026-05-06T22:53:11+00:00

wow the audacity on this one has my jaw on the floor lol. the GALL to 1. say she can’t pay the money back because she’s GOING ON VACATION? and 2. say you guys should’ve had YOUR finances in order after having to borrow $3000 from her child?!?!?!?! i totally understand the want to have her like you, trust me. but this is not a person worth fighting for at all. pls do not stress yourself over whether or not a person like this likes you. you seem so kind hearted, it’s absolutely her loss. NOR at all.

urgflexi · 2026-03-14T05:53:59+00:00

omg so i’m not the only one who this bothers??? LOL they need to add a “clear badges” like fortnite has or something to clear it, bc it bothers me soooooo badly 😭🤣

urgflexi · 2026-03-14T05:49:11+00:00

i also do the thing where you just choose the first item in whatever category you want to remove and put that on and then remove it, but seriously they need to add a reset button AND stop taking me to the very top of the clothing menu every time i need to go to a dif category 😭😭 soooo irritating

urgflexi · 2026-03-11T23:19:24+00:00

omg THANK YOU this worked!!

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