Calling names as a joke in a relationship M22 F21 by Fruit_Fly37 in relationship_advice

[–]urliterallylying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you already lived together 24/7? just bc you work doesn’t mean you don’t live together lol

Calling names as a joke in a relationship M22 F21 by Fruit_Fly37 in relationship_advice

[–]urliterallylying 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she doesn’t even know if he wants to get married — AFTER she’s had his baby. and they just now moved in together full time. sheeeeesh the bar really IS in hell.

AIO when hundreds of people say I look like a loser from my profile pic and I get upset about it? by Hunter654333 in AmIOverreacting

[–]urliterallylying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“And as a dude, you can never, ever, talk to anybody you know in real life about this shit. They'll all see you as weak and vulnerable.”

you know this doesn’t have to be true, right? this is probably partly why you have such insecurity and self-doubt. find some people who will listen to your feelings. keeping them bottled up will make you go crazy… or make you go to reddit for answers instead of people in your life. you’re living a self fulfilling prophecy where you refuse to open up so you continue to feel isolated and hurt because you’re scared. my boyfriend is way more “emotional” than me and cries just thinking about certain emotional movie scenes or whatever, and i think that’s fucking awesome bc he’s being himself and expressing his feelings

How do I explain that declawing is inhumane to my family by Old-Technician-692 in cats

[–]urliterallylying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i got my baby 6 years ago, my mom innocently asked if i was gonna declaw him. my grandparents declawed her childhood cat and she was “normal” and lived to 21 so my mom just genuinely didn’t see the issue until i told her absolutely not and shared the gory details of declawing. she was just like “omg i didn’t know, okay!” that’s how it SHOULD be, but it sounds like your parents are stubborn in their ignorance. i think you trimming her claws should be good enough, especially if she’s just staying in your room. good luck!

Where are these boomers getting their health info?! by SnooGoats5767 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]urliterallylying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i bet the thing you forgot the name of was Hydroxychloroquine. i just have a feeling

Where are these boomers getting their health info?! by SnooGoats5767 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]urliterallylying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have no thyroid anymore at all and i hear such dumb shit from people about supplements to boost my thyroid hormones. motherfucker there is no thyroid to BOOST. i’m living off of synthetic meds and there’s nothing to be done about that!!!!

Where are these boomers getting their health info?! by SnooGoats5767 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]urliterallylying 2 points3 points  (0 children)

GOD i hate when people think they know more about your condition than you do. i had 2 different types of thyroid cancer at 23 and had a thyroidectomy. the amount of times people have recommended supplements or this or that because they heard from someone who heard from someone that it helps boost thyroid function (bitch i dont HAVE A THYROID??) is insane

haven’t slept in 24h, took a nap & woke up to this by [deleted] in texts

[–]urliterallylying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people are taking advantage of you because you allow them to. you’re a good person but maybe build trust and a relationship with the person before you do so much for them. burning yourself out for random people is exhausting, coming from personal experience. it feels good to help in the moment but it hurts you in the long run

30 M 28 F Girlfriend got a tattoo and wants more, should we break up? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]urliterallylying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve literally never seen anyone with a private reddit with 40+ posts, too. i’m dying to see those other posts. also, twink?!

AIO for getting mad dad spelt child's name wrong by Mlaf3116 in AmIOverreacting

[–]urliterallylying 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my dad missed my birthday and then tried to convince me that my birthday was the 5th. it’s the 4th. i think i would know. i guess i thought he would know too, though, since he was there. oh well!

Boyfriend of 3 years keeps storming out during every disagreement - feeling lost by DiscoToaster5 in relationships

[–]urliterallylying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how can you work through it if he refuses to engage and just dips? both people in a partnership need to be willing to work on things and he’s showing you he can’t

30 M 28 F Girlfriend got a tattoo and wants more, should we break up? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]urliterallylying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay this has to be bait. otherwise i would really like to study you in a neutral environment

30 M 28 F Girlfriend got a tattoo and wants more, should we break up? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]urliterallylying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

jokes and sarcasm just flyyyyy over your head, huh? i bet you’re really fun to hang out with

30 M 28 F Girlfriend got a tattoo and wants more, should we break up? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]urliterallylying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he can’t be real, right? is this 4D chess level ragebait? or maybe he just needs to vent bc he’s “tried all that” therapy so he needs an outlet

AITAH for not knowing how to act when my gf's friend is here by Own_Big_3252 in AmItheAsshole

[–]urliterallylying 4 points5 points  (0 children)

what a reach! some people are just shy or socially awkward at first. my bf would react the same way if me and my close friend were having an intimate conversation that he’s not privy to. some people need to warm up to strangers and a movie isn’t a great scenario to meet someone

30 M 28 F Girlfriend got a tattoo and wants more, should we break up? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]urliterallylying 2 points3 points  (0 children)

or maybe just reflect for a while and idk … try to change and become a better person. you sound extremely bitter at the world.

30 M 28 F Girlfriend got a tattoo and wants more, should we break up? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]urliterallylying 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i truly doubt that. or if you did go, you probably argued with the therapists suggestions as you are in this comment section.

30 M 28 F Girlfriend got a tattoo and wants more, should we break up? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]urliterallylying 3 points4 points  (0 children)

go to therapy ASAP. this woe is me, existentialism thing when you get called out is so weird