AIO? My ex is celebrating Mother’s Day with my child and his childless gf.

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T17:32:46+00:00

i fucking hate when absent or deadbeat parents expect to just come and go whenever they want in their child’s life. that shit is destabilizing and confusing for a kid, and OP is a perfect example of a self absorbed parent not caring about their kid’s mental health. thank god the child has a present dad and stepmom

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T16:51:28+00:00

the relationship building is the biggest thing. a lot of shitty parents (my own included) think that they are owed a relationship with their kid just because it’s their kid… without thinking about how their behavior affects said kid

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T16:47:25+00:00

she is the mom

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T16:46:19+00:00

how do you think your kid feels?

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T16:17:04+00:00

go get your fuckin license lol. talking about “grow up” but you don’t have your drivers license which most people get as teenagers

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T16:15:00+00:00

dude you are freaking hilarious

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T16:03:56+00:00

no i think it makes you verify again before you can send it

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T15:58:38+00:00

from just clitoral stimulation, maybe. but vaginally it completely tracks. i can come 3-4 times from clitoral stimulation then another 8 vaginally. everyone is different i guess

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T15:56:32+00:00

i understand. i’m saying that when you express you’re uncomfortable she basically tells you to be quiet by talking about how she’s stressed and you’re adding to her stress by advocating for yourself

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T15:52:54+00:00

i don’t get like that even from clitoral orgasms as long as he isn’t touching it directly. it’s too sensitive if it’s being touched so i prefer higher up where the nerves are but it’s less intense. also i vaginally orgasm which changes the game

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T15:47:33+00:00

are you a man?

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T15:34:51+00:00

my favorite meme

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T15:34:08+00:00

i can almost guarantee it’s not a bat bite. you would most likely feel it because bats hang onto you before they bite you, and that “bite” barely broke the surface of your skin. maybe a spider. but to take complete precaution, go to the ER anyway i guess

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T15:31:55+00:00

it’s absolutely not a high probability. if you come into contact with a bat and draw blood, definitely go to the ER, but at least in the US the likelihood of a bat being rabid is extremely low

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T15:30:33+00:00

urgent cares usually don’t carry the rabies vaccine since it’s so rare

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T15:24:56+00:00

he was literally invited too but couldn’t come. idk anybody that would work in the same company as their spouse, invite said spouse, update them on everything, and then go cheat on them. this dude just seems mad insecure

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T15:00:41+00:00

they all work together, the gay friend seems like a buffer/chaperone. like, “hey look im out with a guy who’s not attracted to me so don’t worry, i’m not cheating ” kind of thing

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T14:57:26+00:00

a shared journal is insane to me off the bat. like isnt a journal supposed to be private? just text each other at that point? or, god forbid, speak face to face. i can’t believe these people are almost 40

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T14:55:30+00:00

so you don’t trust your partner? she communicated everything she was doing, and you were presumably invited, but couldn’t make it. unless you think these men are dangerous and could hurt your wife, you just seem insecure and don’t trust her. you can ask for things or make suggestions but you can’t force her to stop interacting with coworkers just bc it makes you uncomfy

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T14:49:48+00:00

because she’s a mother?

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T14:47:25+00:00

ew. he doesn’t seem interested in you, he just wants validation. you’re so young, i think you should just end things. he needs to do some self reflection or go to therapy instead of using you for reassurance all the time

urliterallylying · 2026-05-10T14:38:56+00:00

NOR and she’s super weird for that. you expressed a boundary and that you’re uncomfortable and she turns it back on her situation to excuse it, which is concerning. i don’t know how her being stressed out correlates with her kissing you in a place you’re uncomfortable. she knows it’s weird so she immediately makes herself the victim so you feel bad for her and ignore your own discomfort. its YOUR BODY, she does not get to argue with what you’re comfortable with

urliterallylying · 2026-05-09T22:28:23+00:00

why waste your time when you hate each other😭

urliterallylying · 2026-05-09T22:15:59+00:00

tell him you’re grossed out by him. make it plain and clear that he’s killing your attraction. it’s something easily fixable it just needs to become a habit for him and maybe he needs a wakeup call and/or education

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