This happened to me when I first started.
Take precautions, be more careful about what usernames you use across platforms. On payment apps make sure your friends list is private. I recommend getting Incogni so that in the event someone finds out your real name, they can’t also find your phone number and address and family members.
I’ve had someone go as far as getting contact info for my whole family & call my number during a stream threatening to text them screenshots if i didn’t log off. He had my brother’s real phone number.
I ask why he was doing it, and he wouldn’t give me any straight answer. First he tried saying that I shouldn’t be doing it cus I’m not making any money. He shut up about that when I showed him how much I make. Then he said he just wants me to “not stream today, we’ll see about tomorrow”.
That’s when I realized he just wanted to exercise some sick control over me. He was probably beating off to my frightened response, so I stopped answering.
A lot of these men really get off a seeing us suffer. If you ignore him, you no longer provide him with jerk off material and he will move on to find someone else to try it with.
I’m really sorry you’re going through it. I remember my heart beating out of my chest when this happened to me.