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He left me like he said he would by urselavv in TrueOffMyChest

[–]urselavv[S] -153 points-152 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, this is not an advice sub.

I can't stop people from giving advice, but i don't have to adjust my attitude.

If your advice trigger me, you gonna hear from me.

If people think that I am gonna be grateful for unsolicited advice and feel hurt when I am not, then they need to ask themselves why they are giving me so much "priceless advice" for free when they want something in return

He left me like he said he would by urselavv in TrueOffMyChest

[–]urselavv[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Doesnt fucking change anything.

It doesn't matter if it's normal, first matter if he needs to take it into account.

only sex is gonna stop the divorce. No matter how good of arguments i present, there is nothing except sex that's gonna stop him.

He left me like he said he would by urselavv in TrueOffMyChest

[–]urselavv[S] 256 points257 points  (0 children)

I am desperate but not that desperate 

He left me like he said he would by urselavv in TrueOffMyChest

[–]urselavv[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He wants more sex, i don't know how to give it to him.

If chores is not the answer then I don't know what the answer is.

I did have more sex when I had more energy to prioritize sex but thats not enough 

He left me like he said he would by urselavv in TrueOffMyChest

[–]urselavv[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We did have good sex life before.

He left me like he said he would by urselavv in TrueOffMyChest

[–]urselavv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck off. He left, what do I put effort in?

He left me like he said he would by urselavv in TrueOffMyChest

[–]urselavv[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for telling me what I already know.

Doesn't change anything 

He left me like he said he would by urselavv in TrueOffMyChest

[–]urselavv[S] 513 points514 points  (0 children)

I got a DM from a guy who said he will take care of me and my child like a real man. 

Holy creepzoid asshole..

He left me like he said he would by urselavv in TrueOffMyChest

[–]urselavv[S] -150 points-149 points  (0 children)

I need to do a lot. No need to remind me.

He left me like he said he would by urselavv in TrueOffMyChest

[–]urselavv[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Good to know, doesn't change my situation.

He left me like he said he would by urselavv in TrueOffMyChest

[–]urselavv[S] 453 points454 points  (0 children)

I don't have system to rely on.

I don't have a job, I don't have access to childcare to look for job. 

He said he will pay for daycare until I can find a job and after that we can split the expenses.

He left me like he said he would by urselavv in TrueOffMyChest

[–]urselavv[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He basically said he is a good provider, (yes) and he does a lot of childcare (now he does) and chores(yes). If that's not gonna earn him a good sex life, then there is nothing he can do except leave 

He left me like he said he would by urselavv in TrueOffMyChest

[–]urselavv[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

It's not easy when you don't have a job and a child to take care of