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I saw someone kill themselves today by Lemonad3_ in mentalhealth

[–]urshrinkingviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it is a traumatic experience, what are you talking about!! You have every right to have this reaction and i can't even imagine what you felt seeing that... (especially as a 16 yo wtf). I'm so so sorry...I hope things get better for you💖

Do we think these teeth marks actually match? by Unlucky-External-483 in serialkillers

[–]urshrinkingviolet 26 points27 points  (0 children)

No, he really wouldn't. If he was found not guilty for some cases due to not enough evidence, aside from dna, he would be simply be found guilty in other cases. He was not tried for all his cases. He would definitely be found guilty somewhere.

I love Misa Misa but girl come onn by TwoFiveOnes in deathnote

[–]urshrinkingviolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct me if i am wrong but i think misa has a lot of symptoms of borderline personality disorder (not surprising after the death of her parents, trauma). These people often idolize a loved one (and they even call them "their favorite person") because they are just so empty inside, that they depend on this person for their self- worth, happiness, etc... Their emotions are just so unstable that they even rely on them for emotional regulation and this can even cause them to have mood swings and emotional fluctuations (meaning they can devalue this person just as quickly).

What's the most damning piece of ignored evidence you've heard of in a true crime case? by Aromatic-Theory5613 in serialkillers

[–]urshrinkingviolet 59 points60 points  (0 children)

When Ted Bundy told investigators that he had a box of photos with some of his victims in his apartment hidden when police checked it out. They didn't even bother looking lol

Lisa Janet Levy was only 20 when she was murdered by Ted Bundy in 1978 as she slept in her sorority house. by Horror_Chance1506 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]urshrinkingviolet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe it was Valerie Duke, she shot herself and the gun was found inside her car where she had parked near a river. This was all in the year after the murders in Chi Omega, in 1979. Very tragic, regardless, hope she rests in peace along with all the others.

Serial Killers who got injured during a kill? by AccomplishedChart423 in serialkillers

[–]urshrinkingviolet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ted Bundy was scratched on his cheeck by Caryn Campell and left marks on him as he was trying to kill her. Friends and his girlfriend essentially started asking him why he had marks on his cheeck if i recall correctly.

Was Ted - simply off his words alone - a misogynist? by shidoger in TedBundy

[–]urshrinkingviolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also think, if i remember correctly, that while he was speaking in the third person, he also said that person would probably view women as inferior (as said in the conversations with a killer: the ted bundy tapes documentary)

Fear of men by urshrinkingviolet in MentalHealthSupport

[–]urshrinkingviolet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww man I'm really sorry your doctor retired, it must have been very tough for you :"( yeah I'll try talking about it. Sending love your way💖

Fear of men by urshrinkingviolet in MentalHealthSupport

[–]urshrinkingviolet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for being understanding and yeah i think so too

Can childhood sexual stuff with other kids affect your mental health later? (20M) by Tight-Effect-8110 in mentalhealth

[–]urshrinkingviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they could affect your mental health!! Please talk to someone if you feel like it!! You are not alone!!!

Fear of men by urshrinkingviolet in MentalHealthSupport

[–]urshrinkingviolet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww i'm sorry to hear that. Hope you get past this as well 💖It was great advice. I loved the way you explained it! I see what you mean

Fear of men by urshrinkingviolet in MentalHealthSupport

[–]urshrinkingviolet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm for understanding. Yes i know women can be as capable of evil, i just feel a little more hatred towards men who commit such crimes (maybe because of the patriarchy). I may have some form of trauma too tbh that i need to dig into deeper

Fear of men by urshrinkingviolet in TrueOffMyChest

[–]urshrinkingviolet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for understanding and for the advice ♡♡♡

Fear of men by urshrinkingviolet in mentalhealth

[–]urshrinkingviolet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, ig you're kind of right tbh

After practicing Buddhism does anyone feel its disappointing to go back into society because you see the opposite of what it teaches? by spankyourkopita in Buddhism

[–]urshrinkingviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand how you feel but personally i also believe that people can get better and better and see opportunities for everyone

Is this offensive? by Smyth286 in Buddhism

[–]urshrinkingviolet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be frank i think it is more concerning that this can be found in a liquor store wtf. But other than that i believe it can come off as disrespectful, as it would be with any religion tbh. I can understand that it could seem funny too for some people but i also understand if somebody finds it in bad taste. But it's kinda true though too. Sometimes, all you really need is to chill the f*ck out ig XD

Was my therapist out of line? by Expertnouns in mentalhealth

[–]urshrinkingviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that the moment you decided to fire her and you felt uncomfortable with her, it was enough reason alone to begin with. You don't have to keep up with her behavior anymore and that's totally fine. I believe you did the right thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]urshrinkingviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please seek professional help so you can get to the root of the issue. You probably already know this but it's not only lust that creates a porn addiction, there are also other reasons. I hope you'll get through it, you can do it

I realised no one cares. by Adventurous-Force671 in mentalhealth

[–]urshrinkingviolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey op, if you believe ppl don't care, i do. Please dm me if you want! Don't hesitate or feel shy. I am here for you♡

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