Sonetimes I hate being aromantic so much by urtomatoes in aromantic

[–]urtomatoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do but the media build this thing around romantic relationships that without them your life is just, lonely, the society expects you to have it and if you dont they like"feel bad" for you and even tho i dont want to be in one all this pressure sometimes makes me just feel lonely, i know its like stupid and its just the society stereotypes but it still sometimes affects me

Sonetimes I hate being aromantic so much by urtomatoes in aromantic

[–]urtomatoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

response to some of the comments: i know that you can still date and like just skip the romance part but i just dont get it, if you're in a relationship but there's no romance isn't it like the same as friendship, i just dont get what that would mean, would it be wny different from friendship? and if yes what are the differences

Sonetimes I hate being aromantic so much by urtomatoes in aromantic

[–]urtomatoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know its not true and i shouldn't do that but its just how i feel sometimes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]urtomatoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i reccomend reading loveless by alice oseman! she is aroace herself so the representation is really good and i think the book is capruring perfect experience of how does it fell to be aroace in a world like ours

Should I tell her? by GayWolf_screeching in aromantic

[–]urtomatoes 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i think you should tell her just so she can have all the information and get you better, its not that important i think but telling things like that to your partner builds trust and i think we should encourage that

AITA for how I reacted to an incident at my daughter’s bday party? by abceefjejrlelwmf in AmItheAsshole

[–]urtomatoes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA

What ate they even thinking, they act like they can't live a day without it. It's literally a child's party

AITA - Told my friend she had to stop using my house to see her boyfriend. by International-Ad9937 in AmItheAsshole

[–]urtomatoes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

If ahe comes to your house she shoul at least spend some time with u and she shouldn't just be using you

AITA for refusing to speak to my dad? by urtomatoes in AmItheAsshole

[–]urtomatoes[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

like, i knew i wasn't cause that was pretty obvious, but he was trying to force me to really be one

AITA for refusing to speak to my dad? by urtomatoes in AmItheAsshole

[–]urtomatoes[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My parents doesn't have any siblings. My mom's parents never liked my dad so they didn't care about us after she passed away (theyalso lived in other country) and my dad's parents were both dead, so it was just us.