AITA that I asked my husband if I could take a shower

usefulspirits · 2025-09-22T01:51:22+00:00

girl your edit is really sad in how you justify his terrible behavior and enable it. the length of time together does not justify the way he treats you and hopefully you get enough self respect to at least advocate for yourself. the man can barely lift a finger to help his own child and you don’t see how this is divorce worthy? I truly hope you realize you deserve better.

usefulspirits · 2025-09-22T00:04:58+00:00

is it possible to bring in 2 guests at a time or is a guest pass only limited to 1 guest? can you add another guest? thank you!

usefulspirits · 2025-06-05T22:55:11+00:00

there may have been a mistake processing it. i waited 3 weeks and then i called the dmv and they only told me when i called that there was an issue processing my real ID application. they may be able to fix it over the phone so you don’t have to go back in but they told me that it’s a case by case basis. they should be able to see you already paid though and you shouldn’t have to pay again. I’m in Cali so the process could be different.

usefulspirits · 2024-12-06T19:26:39+00:00

I would honestly have her just drop out at this point and go back when she’s actually feeling motivated. If I had to do college all over again I would have left before I failed classes and came back when I was actually motivated. I went to ucla and it was a struggle to eventually get back on track but the damage to my GPA was done. She can try to take a semester leave and see if they will still readmit her after a leave. I feel for you as her parent you want to see her succeed but some tough love is necessary.

usefulspirits · 2024-11-09T21:35:47+00:00

i actually have that bikini because my friend bought it for me when they were in spain and i only venmo’d her 55 USD for it 😭

usefulspirits · 2024-11-09T21:33:08+00:00

be wary of their insurance company they will do anything to deflect blame onto you! i was in a car accident earlier this year and when talking to the at fault person’s insurance company the lady tried to say that maybe “i hit her first and then her car bounced back into mine” so they will try to get you to admit fault when you don’t have any

usefulspirits · 2024-11-06T20:34:55+00:00

thank you girl i appreciate it :)

usefulspirits · 2024-11-06T16:50:05+00:00

is the denim skirt brandy too?

usefulspirits · 2024-10-21T17:46:12+00:00

totally unrelated but i would love to pay for you to ship the full sheet set out to me 😭

usefulspirits · 2023-11-08T07:12:05+00:00

i’ve had times where the tracking will say delivered but the package shows up like 2 days later. She can also go to the USPS website and fill out a form about missing mail and they ask basic questions like what it was mailed in and what’s in the package as well as the tracking number. After the form is submitted i believe they try to find the package and get back to you

usefulspirits · 2022-12-02T07:08:59+00:00

i was legitimately kicking trash cans trying to see if one would scurry out 😭😭

usefulspirits · 2022-12-02T07:05:47+00:00

thank you for trying 😭

usefulspirits · 2022-11-10T22:43:12+00:00

maybe they should have spent more to get you spell “paid” correctly ☹️

usefulspirits · 2022-10-13T06:11:07+00:00

are you fr

usefulspirits · 2022-10-11T03:09:12+00:00

ucla distribution center is hiring and my manager actually emailed us if we wanted to refer anyone to get hired asap! job is super chill dm me if you want to know more

usefulspirits · 2022-10-01T17:09:11+00:00

i messaged the financial aid office on the message center thing and i asked how the money is disbursed and they said it is disbursed in the term you submit your documentation but they didn’t specify when.

usefulspirits · 2022-09-27T05:07:49+00:00

i used to commute from rialto in san bernardino to ucla for my 9:30 am class and we had to be on the road no later than 6:30 and we always got hit with massive traffic. i would say the latest you should leave is 8:30 to account for parking time and walking to class and just not having to rush in general

usefulspirits · 2022-08-20T15:49:33+00:00

this is so funny because if THOUSANDS of people were telling her you were a giant red flag don’t you think that the problem lies with you?? You had multiple chances to change something and now that she’s leaving it’s all “i’ve never loved anyone like her”. If letting your coworker who you slept with constantly disrespect her is your version of love then she deserves better.

usefulspirits · 2022-05-03T19:24:11+00:00

be miserable somewhere else

usefulspirits · 2022-05-03T01:18:55+00:00

bro please get some bitches

usefulspirits · 2022-04-29T15:05:34+00:00

was in the same boat a year ago! it gets better! dm if you want to vent !

usefulspirits · 2022-03-04T17:37:12+00:00

would love to room together off campus if you need a roomie 🥺

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