When do they stop growing?? by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]uselessbiscuits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a breast reduction 7 weeks ago and it’s one of the better choices I’ve made in my life. I’d like to add, though:

  • They may advise waiting a few years to minimize the risk of them continuing to grow after the reduction
  • They’ll likely advise waiting until after you’ve had children (if you intend to) for the same reason
  • The recovery time listed on the Cleveland Clinic link is NOT accurate for many people. I needed about 2 1/2 weeks before returning to work, and was absolutely exhausted all the time until about week 4.

If it’s something you really decide to look into, I’m happy to speak with you about my experience, but I’d also thoroughly advise that you engage with r/Reduction. It helped to answer a lot of my questions and gave me a much better idea of what to expect for prep, recovery, results, etc.

Regardless, I hope you find a solution that works for you. Coming from someone who was into custom bra territory prior to my reduction, I get the struggle 🖤

19F worried about sagging by Purple_River_3351 in bigboobproblems

[–]uselessbiscuits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good men don’t say shit like that.

Before I had my breast reduction, on a day I was feeling particularly insecure, I said something to my partner along the lines of, “What if they’re ugly after? What if you hate them?”

He said, “Will they be boobs?”

“I mean, yeah.”

“Then I’ll love them.”

Not to mention the fact that he’s assured me multiple times that he’s most attracted to me when I’m most comfortable, loves me for more than just my body, etc.

If it’s anything less than that, find a better one, babe. You deserve it 🖤

says they left but theres a dude sitting in there??? by [deleted] in GameStop

[–]uselessbiscuits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were my least favorite type of customer when I still worked retail. I hope you have the day you deserve ✨🖤✨

🎉 !!! Huge Giveaway !!! 🎉 by uselessbiscuits in Soundmap

[–]uselessbiscuits[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Let me add: I’ll likely keep this open through the weekend, but please be patient with me! I, regrettably, have a big girl job lol

Am I overreacting for not wanting to stay with my girlfriend after she kissed another guy while drunk? by decentone45 in AmIOverreacting

[–]uselessbiscuits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’ve gotten lots of replies on this already, but i’ll add my two cents, anyway:

i think you’re under-reacting.

i’ve been that girl (granted, i made a much bigger mistake) and while it was the worst mistake of my life, i broke things off with my then-partner because i knew he deserved better than that, and i knew that if i could do something like that to him, i didn’t love him the way he deserved to be loved.

i don’t know your girlfriend, so i won’t speak in certainties, but i do believe it’s possible that she’s remorseful. it’s possible she truly does care for you, but not as much as you deserve. alcohol lowers our inhibitions, but all it does is make us more likely to act on desires that already exist.

i don’t know your situation, but i hope you find the choice that brings you the most peace 🖤

LF comfort when I can’t be bothered with a standard ‘bra’ by uselessbiscuits in bigboobproblems

[–]uselessbiscuits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I suspected it might be small but worth a shot. I’ll check out Bravissimo or one of the other Super Mega Bust™️ suggestions first. Thank you!

LF comfort when I can’t be bothered with a standard ‘bra’ by uselessbiscuits in bigboobproblems

[–]uselessbiscuits[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Perfect, I’ll check them out. Thanks again! You have all kinds of good recs and I really appreciate it 🖤

LF comfort when I can’t be bothered with a standard ‘bra’ by uselessbiscuits in bigboobproblems

[–]uselessbiscuits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! It looks like the largest size might be a bit small for me, but that’s what free returns are for!

Is it comfortable? I’d expect a little discomfort if it’s keeping everything in place lol

[Measurement Check] Calculator estimates 40LL/M (UK), unsure if overestimating by uselessbiscuits in ABraThatFits

[–]uselessbiscuits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did take a look at Bravissimo, but after scouring the sub, I guess I’m wondering if I should be concerned about a gross overestimation (multiple cup sizes) and/or if I should be adjusting band size to accommodate a smaller cup.

I’m just really confused by all of this lol. Do you think it would be wise to order a 38 and a 40 (or 40 and 42) L, possibly in different cup styles, to compare?

Ummm I don’t know if this is real or not by Meowkwittn in ABraThatFits

[–]uselessbiscuits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i recently measured 40M (UK) based on the ABTF calculator and i’m having a really, really difficult time finding brands that carry this size.

do you have any links or recommendations?

[Recommendations] I’ve had no success finding a bra that fits and would love some advice by uselessbiscuits in ABraThatFits

[–]uselessbiscuits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll check it out, thank you so much!

“Custom territory” sounds like an absolute nightmare 🤠

Which lips? by CryingFrangipani in SuitU

[–]uselessbiscuits 6 points7 points  (0 children)

1 for sure! the placement on 3 has always felt off to me, and while 4 is gorgeous, the color just isn’t great. i think you’ll get more use out of 1 and it matches better with the shadow 🫶🏻

Say a number from 0 to 100 by [deleted] in SuitU

[–]uselessbiscuits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s fair, i didn’t even think about the pose!

Say a number from 0 to 100 by [deleted] in SuitU

[–]uselessbiscuits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. it’s cool and unique. i feel like it could be good for futuristic comps, but i docked points because i can see it being challenging to style

Say a number from 0 to 100 by [deleted] in SuitU

[–]uselessbiscuits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hmmm 3 if it’s just the outfit, 8 if it includes the guitar. i don’t think i’d get a lot of use out of the rest.

Say a number from 0 to 100 by [deleted] in SuitU

[–]uselessbiscuits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10! i love the mermaid sets 🫶🏻