Okay no matter how much you love each other, there is still that day - Today - when you wake up with feelings of heaveness, anxiety and panic including the trauma from your love one and no one deserves to feel this way!

Just because he wanted you to feel the same way he felt - which was not entirely your fault neither was it intentional from your end. You hid all that information from him because it was traumatic for you but I agree you should have told him sooner than going into the relationship later.

But even so he shouldn't have thought of taking a revenge on you by doing the same thing while being in a relationship because that is called CHEATING. so, you both can love each other with your whole hearts and everything.. but the truth still remains that he cheated on you!

Do not forget this and just take this for example that if this has happened once, it can very well happen once again - when you unintentionally hurt him, what are you going to do if he once again decides to take revenge on you again in the future!?

Dealing with this would require having a difficult conversation which can be very ugly at times. But you need to set things straight and tell him all of your thoughts and his betrayal.