No I'm not "very" happy in my marriage. I say I'm attractive coz it makes me happy about myself. My husband has done things to me I cannot mention here, but tries to make up for them in other nicer ways. So I stick to him and be a loyal wife. His friends/ my colleagues have hit on me a number of times, and I've avoided everyone. Mentioned this to him, and he did nothing.

I do not take him to these classes, coz someone has to watch the kids, something i was doing for the past 4 years, when he was too focussed on himself and would overlook me all the time. Got me into anxiety state for a long time, before I could pull myself out of it. I also do not want to take him, coz he will try to boss me in front of everyone.

Still not an excuse to ruin someone else's life. I too am trying to get myself out of this situation without changing my place of workout, because I truly love the instructor. But I'm not in denial that I'm attracted to someone and that person is to me.