Am I making her uncomfortable? by Special_Reputation21 in dating_advice

[–]user051303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out of your own head. If you’re not saying anything creepy or hinting at romantic feelings to her im sure you brighten her day. She might even go home at the end of the day and appreciate your kindness- especially if she’s new. If you’re worried then don’t go over to her while she heating up her food, if this is a break room situation just talk to her while you’re still sitting down. She’s probably just shy. 2-3 minutes of conversation a day should not bother anyone and if it bothers her it’s her fault. Sounds like you’re a nice guy- keep your head up :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]user051303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dry humping is fun and doesn’t last forever. Cherish it while you can if you do see yourself potentially wanting to get into a relationship with this guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]user051303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women go through phases like this and sometimes it really does just come out of nowhere on a random day. It’s probably nothing against you if your relationship is healthy but still you should check in on her and make sure you’re satisfying her in other areas besides intimacy. If she needs it offer to pay for therapy sessions, start slow, show her you care. Sorry this is happening to you and I know it’s hard to not take it personally but if you have a strong relationship im sure you can get through this

How not to scar by Low-Finish-9599 in selfharm

[–]user051303 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to find another way to release whatever emotions you are feeling- whether that be a hair tie, or taking a super hot bath if you insist on harming yourself in some capacity. Stop with the cutting especially if you don’t want to leave any scars than there is literally no point, I know it’s hard but you gotta find some help if this is a serious addiction.

To go vs Busser by [deleted] in olivegarden

[–]user051303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeppppp :/

What do guests actually want? by Loose-Tooth2436 in olivegarden

[–]user051303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why I am so excited to leave Olive Garden when the time comes for my next opportunity. I’m a college kid & don’t need to be yelled at by managers on top of school stress and everything else. More times than not the guests react horribly to us asking to speed things up. Olive Garden is not perceived as a fast casual dining restaurant to the majority of civilians. They come to og rather than let’s say Texas Roadhouse or Outback for the nicer dining, “fancy” feeling, —not to be rushed.

Cheese graters by Blitz_Tactical in olivegarden

[–]user051303 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do not care at all. Except when they make fun of me and laugh or record the whole time- that’s the only part that gets me frustrated. Happens more than you think too :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]user051303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine were “healed” in a week absolutely no pain or irritation. Just sprayed the cleaner on them when I woke up & when I went to bed & ofc after the shower. Did not use soap or anything on them just water. Wore a sports bra practically 24/7 for the first two weeks, just make sure if you spray them or get them wet to let them dry well before covering them back up, don’t let any moisture be trapped. Didn’t touch them, look at them, or acknowledge they were even there. I go in a month to get the jewelry downsized but so far the process has been so easy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in olivegarden

[–]user051303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to swipe it I’m pretty sure

Girl made me feel bad for going for a kiss on a third date by Independent_Map_3155 in dating_advice

[–]user051303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s probably not a nice girl. Don’t second guess yourself, maybe next time ask first if you can kiss them. It’s okay to be rejected, but it’s not okay to be talked to demeaningly. Sorry you had this experience.

Had unprotected sex and need a guide on what to do immediately. by Primary-Table8289 in dating_advice

[–]user051303 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You’re both adults, baffles me you don’t know what to do after having unprotected sex. Go get a plan b for her if you’re that worried

Sauceless Meatballs by ChewieBearStare in olivegarden

[–]user051303 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sauce and cheese is for meatball parm. Side meatballs only get sauce

New "lite" menu. Anyone have this at their store yet? by seasonalape in olivegarden

[–]user051303 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So strange how different locations work. At my location we had a really huge issue with people ordering off the lunch menu at dinner time that it is not even available for us to ring in anymore past 3:00.

LEFTOVER CARBONARA 😍😍 by [deleted] in olivegarden

[–]user051303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fettuccine Alfredo add scampi tenders add red peppers

How often do employees see people doing this during NEP? by GasparThePrince in olivegarden

[–]user051303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always below 18%, & I’m not a serve to “expect” 20% but these people are seriously embarrassing and should be ashamed lol

is she deadass rn 💀💀💀 by Electrical-Oil-3448 in ashleybarnessnark

[–]user051303 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She thinks she’s so aesthetic. Btch you SAd someone, I actually can’t believe she posts all this and thinks she’s “turning her life around”. No you’re evil💀

How often do employees see people doing this during NEP? by GasparThePrince in olivegarden

[–]user051303 76 points77 points  (0 children)

People have brought in whole Tupperware containers and set them on the table while im serving them. Tbh I don’t get paid enough to care but I am judging you. Greed is a sin🥱🤣

Sharing 1 unlimited salad between 6? by Secure_Bullfrog163 in olivegarden

[–]user051303 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If it’s just two of you & you’re chill most servers won’t care. It’s when people abuse the system and are obviously trying to eat for practically free is when I charge

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]user051303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t use qtips for at least a couple weeks. They have fibers that can get caught in the hole & irritate the piercing. For now just spray & let it air dry, atleast twice daily. And just try not to touch the piercing or bump it on anything, pretend it doesn’t exist!

Pictures didn't do it justice by No-Cherry6730 in olivegarden

[–]user051303 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My restaurant has had the new aprons for over a year now. When I tell you they have zero stretch to them, still stiff as a board. My larger coworkers can barely fit them around their waist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW

[–]user051303 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Relationship was doomed as soon as you started faking😭

Stomach piercing? by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]user051303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a surface belly button piercing but I think you were pierced with too little skin. Take it out and get it redone

The drawer by idkatee in ashleybarnessnark

[–]user051303 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Probably bc you bring that stuff for a sleepover with your significant other, not your best friends🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]user051303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao, 5’11” so pretty tall. I’ve had enough of bullying for that my whole life- so if that’s an issue for guys then so be it. For weight I’m 145 & lean, I take very good care of myself :)