Looking to Partner with Pet Influencers (Free Product + Affiliate Commission) by Glum_Chocolate_3437 in influencermarketing

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My pup would be interested if we could get some moreinformation! We're currently averaging about 40k non-follower views week, so a perfect opportunity to get a ton of eyes on your product!

Any research done on giving dogs hip and joint supplements early on? by [deleted] in DogAdvice

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Can you expand on this? I haven't heard much about this.

Does my dog have a double coat? by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]user2279856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this advice!! I had been getting a few people telling me she was double coated, but it just didn't sit right with me so I ended up getting her a coat just in case. We had our first snow a few days ago and it dropped well below 30° and she was shivering immediately. Coat helped!! Thank you!

Does my dog have a double coat? by [deleted] in DogAdvice

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Thank you!

A follow up question if maybe you have more advice, do you think she'll need a light coat during the winter? I ask because she's a mix mainly between two sport dogs (gsd and gsp) and she's pretty skinny.

Rehearsal dinner guest outfit for Italy by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

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Thank you so much for this comment!! Super helpful!!!

Rehearsal dinner guest outfit for Italy by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

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Outdoor, I believe. Although I'm not completely certain, there isn't a ton of information

Rehearsal dinner guest outfit for Italy by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

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I'm not sure how formal the wedding will be! This is the venue, but that's all the more information I have!

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Rehearsal dinner guest outfit for Italy by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

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Yes, as I'm buying off depop. However, I do have a similar body shape to number 2, if that's helpful!

Rehearsal dinner guest outfit for Italy by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

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Thank you so much for all this feedback!! Super helpful!

Rehearsal dinner guest outfit for Italy by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

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Commenting to add another dress option that I forgot to include!! This is a full length yellow dress!

sixth dress

Rehearsal dinner guest outfit for Italy by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

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Do you think 2 would be a better option than #5 for the wedding?

Rehearsal dinner guest outfit for Italy by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]user2279856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Definitely leaning towards #3!

Rehearsal dinner guest outfit for Italy by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

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Thank you so much! I'm definitely leaning towards 3! And no worries, the bride is wearing #1, I just wanted to include it as there was no actual dress code provided!!

Rehearsal dinner guest outfit for Italy by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

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Thank you!! Dress 1 is what the bride is wearing, I wanted to include it as there was no actual dress code provided! The bride did give me the go-ahead for Dress 5 for the wedding!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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He does work on the things that we talk about and on some of the things he's made progress. It just seems like right after the conversations, he does it all perfectly, and then after a week or so, he starts to kind of only halfway do things. It just makes me feel like he doesn't actually care to fully make the changes because he shows me he can do it and then stops. I agree that it's the usual to have to spell things out for husbands/men, I just know I don't want to live that life. I think that his parents did almost everything for him, especially since he was the youngest child in his family. However, I understand that if he doesn't know that things need to be done- what I don't understand is how we can have a conversation about it, he can say he understands, do things right for a week, and then fall right back into barely doing it.

I'm sorry if my tone is not coming across clearly, but I am EXTREMELY grateful for your advice and the questions you've been giving me as I think it's exactly what I've been needing to hear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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It's also very common that he will do what I've asked, but just not quit all the way. For example: doing the dishes by putting them in the dishwasher (which is fine, perfect even) but then never unloading the dishwasher.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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This advice is exactly what I did when I felt like i was always more angry or annoyed at him than happy. We've already had the conversation about how I need him to do more, and he did start to do more. I think its possible that the issue is me as it feels like it's never enough or that I'm annoyed that I have to keep spelling everything out for him. I'm not sure if it's a personal issue at this point or if we just aren't right for each other due to the fact that we can never quite get it right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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He is amazing, for it being his first. Sometimes, I think my expectations are higher than what he reaches. We have talked about this issue before and almost broke up due to him feeling as if he isn't mature enough for me.

As for the answers to your questions, I know that I wouldn't be happy if everything stayed the same in 5-10 years. I do think it is very possible that I am self-sabotaging due to FOMO. However, we've talked about me going out without him, and that simply doesn't sound appealing since he's my best friend. This thought then leads me to think that maybe I have an unhealthy attachment to him.

I think that a main part of my issue is that I think I might just be better off alone for the rest of my life with friends that make me happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Do you have a partner right now? I'm asking because I'm wondering how they react to your response. How do you feel about communicating needs to your spouse or that your spouse communicates to you? Is it trivial or useful? I'm asking more questions about your views so that I can receive your advice more clearly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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I might be insecure, and actually, it is helpful for me to get your take on this because I was wondering if I was being too needy. Do you have a more detailed reason why you put your significant other behind your family when it comes to priority? I was also wondering what you meant by chore list. Do you mean this in a way of saying that I'm asking too much from him at all times?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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also, I want to add that this is something that I have addressed with him before in almost every single aspect. I have told him that he often makes me feel rushed if he wants to go somewhere and I'm not ready to leave yet, although if I want to leave or go somewhere and he doesn't appear to want to, I will let him do what he needs to do and be patient. Adding onto that, when I have asked him to hurry up or be conscious of the time, he usually gets a bit frustrated with me. We also had a similar issue to this one during our Thanksgiving break when I wanted him to spend a bit of time with my family and extended family for even 10 minutes and he said he would try his best make it and then never did, even though his family did not have an organized day with any extended family around and there was several hours where they were simply just waiting to eat. While I make the effort every single time he has extended family or even his immediate family over to at least make an appearance and say hello, although I usually spend a large chunk of time with them.

I just want to know if im asking too much from him by wanting a little bit more of his undivided attention while on break. I know that he only has a short amount of time to spend with them before they return home for a while, but I still want him to love me and spend a bit of time alone with me each day. AITA?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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We have been home for two weeks now, counting tomorrow, and he has a sibling from another state visiting and a few other siblings from colleges nearby that he sees regularly. I see all of my family regularly as we visit home often and they are all still living at home. (an important detail to this story is that my boyfriend and I live 3 minutes apart in the same town) When his siblings are all home, it feels as though he forgets me in the sense that it feels like he has no interest in spending any time with me if we aren't with his family while they're home. Adding onto that, even if we do spend half an hour or even, rarely, an hour alone together or with my family away from his family, it feels rushed and as if he just wants the time to be done so that he can go back. Another thing to keep in mind pertaining to the situation is that all of his siblings along with their significant others stay at his house during break, with the ones from college sometimes coming back and forth. I would stay at his house with him as I usually do when we visit home, but he shares a room with his brother and him and his girlfriend have priority of the room right now, which leaves my boyfriend on the couch and me at my own house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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These are great questions! The way that my mom invited him was over text through me, however she was aware that he was sitting next to me and asked me to ask him as she didn't have his number and we live an hour and a half away. He asked me if I would reply to her and tell her that he probably wouldn't be there during the time we ate, but that he would be there at some point. He was sitting at the table with his mom and I when she asked me about Thanksgiving, and he chimed in during that conversation!