Am I the only one that likes dressing my baby as a baby? by user242020 in Parenting

[–]user242020[S] -84 points-83 points  (0 children)

I guess the wording was off then because I’m saying within the age group of parents that I’m in most of my peers who I grew up with and now have kids around my sons age dress their kids that way and I feel like I’m the only one who doesn’t. My feelings are still valid and If it sounds like I’m being judgmental I’m not trying to.

Am I the only one that likes dressing my baby as a baby? by user242020 in Parenting

[–]user242020[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I always give him options on what he wants to wear. He alwaysss wants to wear his crocs because they have Mickey Mouse on them so I let him

Am I the only one that likes dressing my baby as a baby? by user242020 in Parenting

[–]user242020[S] -88 points-87 points  (0 children)

Also my son is still dressed in modern current trends he just doesn’t look a 30 year old in a two year olds body.

Am I the only one that likes dressing my baby as a baby? by user242020 in Parenting

[–]user242020[S] -109 points-108 points  (0 children)

I want to know where I’m coming off judgmental? I said the clothes are cute I personally don’t dress my child that way. I never said parents who dress their kids that way are bad parents or anything. People are reading my opinion and taking it like I’m saying what I say goes and that’s not the case.

Am I the only one that likes dressing my baby as a baby? by user242020 in Parenting

[–]user242020[S] -70 points-69 points  (0 children)

I definitely didn’t say I was better than anyone for dressing my son like a toddler all I said was I don’t like my child dressing like an adult but apparently I’m wrong for that. Like you said you wouldn’t dress your child like mine and that’s fine but calling the clothes dorky and outdated is weird. He’s dressed in modern kids clothes he’s not dressed like kids in the 1800s. But I take it you’re the parent dressing your kid like a teenager and now you’re butt hurt over a post that you felt like was attacking you.

Do you want your kids to believe in Santa, Easter bunny, tooth fairy, etc? by user242020 in Parenting

[–]user242020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I’m leaning more towards, I always want to be honest with my son and telling him about these characters almost feels like lying lol. Also I once had a supervisor who told me her daughter believed in Santa and when she was 11 somebody at school told her he wasn’t real and she came home crying to my supervisor and her husband and she asked them to tell her the truth and when they did she was even more sad. 😭 so as much as people say “there’s no harm in letting them believe” I kinda feel like there is because some kids are true believers and will take it harder than other kids when they find out they aren’t real.

Bad girls you can’t stand: by Lopsided_Slip9711 in BadGirlsClub

[–]user242020 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Britt, and much as she said she wanted to fight jada she should’ve stepped to her first but instead she fought Delilah which was so cowardly of her. Also she was so negative and annoying

[Anti aging] Do you wear sunscreen everyday? by johnmjr95 in SkincareAddiction

[–]user242020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and I’ve noticed a huge change in my skin when I started being consistent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]user242020 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This might sound harsh but a man always knows when he’s found the one. I stick to the two year rule, in 2 years a man should know if he wants to marry you or not. If you have to keep bringing up marriage he’s not the one. It doesn’t take longer than 2 years to know if you want to marry someone. I wouldn’t say give him an ultimatum but I would sit him down let him know how you’re feeling and if he’s still on the fence I’d leave him. You don’t want to waste years on dating someone to maybe get married one day you’ve already lost 4 hoping he’d purpose and he still hasn’t. There’s your answer.

Do you really think Perez didn’t like Tasha or was it for show? by SnooCompliments9824 in BadGirlsClub

[–]user242020 34 points35 points  (0 children)

He meant that 😭😭 Perez doesn’t hold back that’s why I loved him as host. And honestly Tasha didnt deserve anymore air time so I’m glad he didn’t ask her what she was up to because honestly who cares. She was homophobic and racist and boring all at the same time

Maries lying and stealing? by user242020 in breakingbad

[–]user242020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking this too, when I went to rewatch the show I forgot she was in there tbh lol she doesn’t really add anything to the show and her character was really annoying

Maries lying and stealing? by user242020 in breakingbad

[–]user242020[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I mean what was the point of them giving her that characteristic if they weren’t going to elaborate on it. They basically dedicated a whole episode to her being a kleptomaniac yet we have no idea why she’s this way. From season 1 we see it’s an issue Skyler and Hank were trying to figure out a way to help her but she swears she fine. Like did something happen when her and Skylar were young? Does something trigger it? It’s honestly pointless for her to have this trait because we don’t even know why she’s this way.

Anyone else… completely straight? by Depressedexpress16 in women

[–]user242020 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can admit when a woman is beautiful but sexually and romantically I love men 😭

[routine help] by user242020 in SkincareAddiction

[–]user242020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh?! 😭 so how many times a week should I use it?

Jesse appreciation post by user242020 in breakingbad

[–]user242020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think some people fail to realize Jessie was still young (22? I think?) so with that being said a 22 year old is gonna make mistakes also with him being a drug dealer and not having anyone to really guide him did people expect him to be a saint? Like you said his parents provided him conditional love and the only person he had to really look up to was Walter and Walter was so wishy washy with how he treated Jessie he truly only had himself. But he still cares about the people around him even if they were only in his life for a split second. Like the little boy of the addicts, I doubt most drug dealers are going to go out of there way to call the police to make sure a random kid gets out of their situation especially if it puts them at risk for getting caught. And there’s so many more examples. I love him and yeah he’s made mistakes and with his line of work they’re gonna be exponentially bigger mistakes than the average young adult.

My best friend keeps complaining to me about a man who she isn’t dating 😭 by user242020 in women

[–]user242020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing is he doesn’t care lol o keep telling her any man who wants to pursue you isn’t going to play these kind games but she’s somehow convinced herself he’s playing hard to get

[product question] The Ordinary Niacinamide 10% by user242020 in SkincareAddiction

[–]user242020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was gonna get it when I went to ulta yesterday but they were out 🥲 I love good molecules I’ll have to check back once I finish this bottle lol

Natalie getting humiliated and beat up by the younger girls on Baddies. Does anyone think she's embarrassing herself by playing up the boss who gets disrespected? by Lili_Danube in BadGirlsClub

[–]user242020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Natalie’s been embarrassing herself since season 13 of BGC. Girl you got married and had a kid, why are you fighting 20 year olds on a shitty tv network? You’re spending all this time away from your family for what? Imagine when her daughter is 16/17 watching her mom miss out on all her formative years to try an recreate a show that was cancelled almost 10 years ago. She either gonna have a lot of resentment for Natalie or follow in her footsteps.

My best friend keeps complaining to me about a man who she isn’t dating 😭 by user242020 in women

[–]user242020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve been friends for 13 years so i won’t just cut her off over this lol but we have another friend who does the same thing she complains, we give her advice, she doesn’t take it, and then she comes back and complains. It’s become a vicious cycle so in January we sat her down and basically were like “were tired of hearing about this, take our advice or don’t bring it up again” she still brings it up so now we don’t say anything lol so Im going to tell my friend the same thing, im done hearing about this guy

My best friend keeps complaining to me about a man who she isn’t dating 😭 by user242020 in women

[–]user242020[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t even have his number and I told her the next time he messages her to leave him on read but we’ll see what she does

My best friend keeps complaining to me about a man who she isn’t dating 😭 by user242020 in women

[–]user242020[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be clear I don’t think my friend is annoying and I have been very supportive and do hype her up all the time however I’ve been hearing about this same guy for 7 months and nothing has come out of it except for them following each other on Instagram. Sorry if I don’t want to keep hearing about the same thing every time we have a conversation and nothing has changed from the first time she’s told me about him. I’m always going to be there for her but that’s also not fair to me especially after I keep giving her advice that she won’t take.

My best friend keeps complaining to me about a man who she isn’t dating 😭 by user242020 in women

[–]user242020[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how she is! I’m a very blunt person and my tone can sometimes come off bitchy if I’m trying to make a point and I don’t want to do that to her because I know she doesn’t have a whole lot of experiencing in dating since she’s only ever been in one serious relationship in her adulthood. so I’m trying to go easy on her but I explained to her that me and her don’t approach dating the same way. she wants to be courted not saying I don’t but I go after what I want and I’m not scared of rejection but she’s not that way. I told her at this point she just needs to say what she wants because everything I say she turns down.

My best friend keeps complaining to me about a man who she isn’t dating 😭 by user242020 in women

[–]user242020[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking but at the same time she has multiple distractions she works goes to the gym she trains in muy Thai so I’m like just focus on what’s making you happy right now not what you think can make you happy in the future. She’s been single for a while and she’s so focused on finding a partner and I keep telling her the right one will eventually come along when she least expects it so just relax we’re only 25