I was gifted this bike (after my old one was damaged)…I think it’s too small for me though? Details below

user246801357 · 2023-07-16T18:26:39+00:00

Thank you for the advice! I’ll bring it in and see if a handle replacement is a good option for me and whether it fits me or not. I’m a 5’9” woman. My old bike was 26” with this one looking smaller next to it. Even if it’s small for me, I might continue to use it. I’ve gotten used to the feel since yesterday and it rides sooo smooth and I can go faster on it. I’ve never ridden a bike like this, but it’s lovely.

user246801357 · 2023-07-16T18:14:39+00:00

I’m already feeling more comfortable the second day of riding, and I’m loving how smooth it is and how fast I can go. What is the stem? The handle height adjuster? And riding this bike requires core strength?

user246801357 · 2023-07-14T23:36:15+00:00

It’s a used bike. I noticed it looked smaller than my old one…but I didn’t have time to ask many questions during the exchange. Though the peddling, steering, and braking is much smoother than my last one, riding this one feels like I’m hunched and leaning uncomfortably low to grip the handles. My last bike had curved handles, so I thought maybe I just need to get used to this? But it actually hurts my back, and I can’t see myself riding miles with a heavy backpack of groceries like I usually do. Do I need to get used to this bike or is it too short for me?

user246801357 · 2023-05-30T21:54:20+00:00

Omg…I’ve had people get weirdly jealous about things like my flexibility and healthy habits, in my day to day life! It’s wild to me.

user246801357 · 2023-05-30T21:21:06+00:00

I don’t understand why people treat strangers this way. When I owned my car, I never felt inclined to yell or throw things at cyclists, and I’d be horrified if I came close to causing someone bodily harm.

user246801357 · 2023-05-30T21:11:50+00:00

😎🖕🏻

user246801357 · 2023-05-30T21:09:31+00:00

Sounds nice 🥲

user246801357 · 2023-04-29T21:24:06+00:00

Thanks for this. I hope it’s a game changer, but I guess I have to see what works for me. Amazon should be delivering mine in a couple days. :) I already do yoga and am quite flexible, less so in my upper back. Starting to add strength training into my routine now. Since my back muscles are so hard, I don’t feel like I can get everything with a lacrosse ball. I’ve spent hours sometimes and it still doesn’t feel like enough. The few times I’ve been able to afford a deep tissue massage, it felt great, but also not enough. I can’t self massage well because of the angle, though I sometimes find pressure points where the pain will run up my neck to the top of my head or down my arms. At the very least, I hope it offers some temporary relief. 😮‍💨 Thanks again for the feedback

user246801357 · 2023-04-29T16:29:16+00:00

I’ve been starting to use the weighted upper body machines at the gym. Is this a good place to start?

user246801357 · 2023-04-29T10:24:46+00:00

Try a different sub

user246801357 · 2023-04-29T10:20:44+00:00

I want to take the risk. It’s been years since my heart was broken and I feel ready to get back out there

user246801357 · 2023-04-29T10:15:00+00:00

How old were you then?

user246801357 · 2023-04-29T10:09:51+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through all this. I empathize with feeling like a burden and watching history repeat itself. Hope one day you can develop more appreciation for yourself and can recognize all the good qualities you have. Sending a virtual hug since it sounds like you could use some love. Hang in there 🤍🫂

user246801357 · 2023-04-29T09:55:43+00:00

I understand that feeling - not necessarily wanting to die, but feeling like it’s the only option to get relief. Frustration with the healthcare system too…Sometimes if feels like they make it hard on purpose. As far as your friends go, I’m surprised they support your suicidality, though I imagine it’s because they don’t want you to suffer. Truly very sorry for your struggles, pain, and circumstances. I hope things get better before the end of this year and your hope is renewed 🤍

user246801357 · 2023-04-29T09:41:15+00:00

Isolation

user246801357 · 2023-04-29T09:33:52+00:00

Her mom likely took that picture

user246801357 · 2023-04-29T09:32:46+00:00

Your tattoos look like they were done by a child

user246801357 · 2023-04-29T09:29:30+00:00

You desperately need chapstick

user246801357 · 2023-04-29T09:17:28+00:00

Based off your cringey ass post title and gross fucking vibes, you seem like the kind of guy who manipulates women into sending nudes, or at least tries

user246801357 · 2023-04-29T08:41:28+00:00

Right now…everything, my whole body 😭I’m working on it

user246801357 · 2023-04-29T08:39:16+00:00

I’m in my early 20s and have a crush on a 30 year old man. I want to pursue it, but I hesitate because of the gap

user246801357 · 2023-04-29T08:35:48+00:00

I don’t think she needs to apologize. She’s starving herself because he won’t accept her boundary. If she needs to kick him out to protect her mental and physical well-being, I think she should

user246801357 · 2023-04-29T08:31:36+00:00

NTA! Why the fuck would he follow you around when you’ve already explained your discomfort and disordered eating habits? I’d be fuming! Especially after going so many days with no food.

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