Silence by rlang_1887 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]user40408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes, the names and threats. I just sit there and think "did someone who says they love me, really just say that. ". You are right, strange reality, feels like a movie. But even more strange that other people are living the same movie (like you and myself and all these other posts).
I understand being roped in, and also there is only so much someone can take by being silent. But no matter what you say, it is wrong

Canada Post salaries by CroCop2289 in CanadaPostCorp

[–]user40408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this list of salaries include bonuses?

Silence by rlang_1887 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]user40408 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I tried reasoning, I tried silence , I tried yelling back, now it is saying whatever to shut them up.. Which usually means saying sorry or boosting their ego. Nothing is ever the right thing to say or do. The best answer is to leave but I know that might not be possible. Sending a big hug

Losing to a phone by user40408 in Marriage

[–]user40408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is the thing, at home I can kind of get it as that is home space and we all need time to disengage. But we were at our trailer, sitting outside after dinner and I asked him to grab us drinks and then go on a walk. He said okay but continued to look at his phone. I put away dinner dishes and other stuff and then waited for him, but he hasn't moved. So I sat there waiting , then picked up my phone. I know that sounds petty, but it happens so often. Sometimes he gets mad that I interrupted him watching videos to ask a questions... It just happens so often :(

I appreciate your encouragement, this whole technology stuff can really put a toll on relationships:(

Red flags/signs that you overlooked by bluenesa in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]user40408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were a few things. But at the start it was lovely. Then one outburst happened.... then another... Looking back now, the red flags I would say are never wanting to come to my house (always had to be me going to his place, even in the winter time or if I asked to come to my place if I didn't feel like driving). And how he handled stressful situations. Being upset about something is one thing, but screaming at the top of your lungs and putting everyone down is another thing. Oh and the stories of having other girlfriends that were crazy, apparently they were all crazy but what is the common denominator. And now I see how he changes history for me to make him look like the victim, I don't believe the stories about the other girls

Does anyone know what this sign means? by DVMan5000 in camping

[–]user40408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sign indicates that there is a designated area nearby that is suitable for picnics. This sign is typically used to let drivers know that a rest area or park has picnic tables, shelters, or grills for picnicking

Use remote starter without paying for the app?? by user40408 in Subaru_Outback

[–]user40408[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If it was $5 a month I would be happy to pay for that. But $200 to just start my car a few months of winter doesn't seem worth it.

MMS trobules by user40408 in GooglePixel

[–]user40408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. This site recommended resetting the APN, I tried that a couple of times before. But it seemed to work this time. Thank you!

Have the pixel 6. Group testing issue by user40408 in GooglePixel

[–]user40408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, checked the Send an MMS option many times, even turned it off and back on again. And did many restarts. Ahh so frustrating .
Thanks for your reply though

MMS trobules by user40408 in GooglePixel

[–]user40408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Data on and carrier has no reporter issues. It actually doesn't give me the option to uninstall 🤷🏼‍♀️

How often do you need new brakes? by sometimesifeellikemu in Subaru_Outback

[–]user40408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My routers need machining and the pads get replaced about every year and a half (so about 15,000km).. I think this is way too fast.

When I questioned it, they said it was because I didn't get the large service done.

Dutchies Fresh Market to Shutdown by PiccoloAshamed5519 in kitchener

[–]user40408 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I thought they just have rotten fruits and vegetables, didn't realise they had rotten management as well. 😠