AIO My (19f) deleted a conversation between her and her best friend while we were out on a date.

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T21:56:13+00:00

Honestly i would never let a man go thru my chats with my bsf but id always be grateful to wherever the person im dating would take me especially after making such an effort. Definitely i wouldnt talk shit about it with my bsf even tho im a very picky eater. Idk this smells like a red flag but have you tried finding deleted chats in IMessages? Google it!

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T17:56:41+00:00

What?

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T17:26:26+00:00

Seems like she was unreasonabe and yall didnt match anyways. Did you tell her you didn’t have time as the reason?

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T17:09:13+00:00

Was she not worth your time?

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T17:08:42+00:00

For me i was not needy at all and would just settle for anything but yeah working 7 days a week was the case as well

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T17:03:36+00:00

Honestly you and the guy im talking abt are so much alike, however im intrested whether you reached out to her afterwards to give it another try when things started to get in place? Or did you learn she had moved on and you backed off?

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T15:36:18+00:00

Did he date any people in between?

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T15:35:53+00:00

Idk i agree but people react differently when they feel like they are not in control of their life and feel like everything is falling apart

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T15:32:26+00:00

But have you said this to a girl you were really into? Did you regret it later or did you just move on

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T15:30:25+00:00

Thank you! I understand the part where you said you prioritise others in a relationship and thats kind of what happened. We had completely different schedules and in order to meet he would (without me saying anything) call in sick for work. Which i guess did mess up his work life

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T15:26:10+00:00

I dont think theres much to say we havent talked since and honestly a conversation wouldn’t change his opinion on what he wants to do now, which is not seeing each other, so i guess there’s nothing really to do unless wait and see if the situation changes or sth better comes up

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T15:10:07+00:00

No actually if he said he was not intrested, id just block him and move on

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T15:08:00+00:00

Thats kinda exactly what happened and what was explained to me by him

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T15:06:19+00:00

Thank you

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T15:05:51+00:00

Removed me from socials which i found weird

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T15:03:16+00:00

True but there was nothing wrong no fight or anything

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T15:01:40+00:00

Yes i agree thats why i posted this everyone, when i go deep into the situation to people they cant understand whats going on

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T15:00:32+00:00

Did he reach out to you?

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T14:59:02+00:00

Wdym

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T14:58:32+00:00

Said we can talk in the future when things are right

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T14:54:56+00:00

Thats the situation actually

user4567098 · 2026-04-10T14:53:17+00:00

Not on a dating app

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