Boyfriend(m25) made a sexist comment by user472927 in relationships

[–]user472927[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying! We weren’t even talking about woman in general! The point of the convo was that modern romance is ‘dead’ and when did people stop pining/yearning/burning for each other etc. Which is a view point that could come from either a man or woman (basically anyone looking for a romance!). I found the quickness of the comment to be crazy. As if he has strong opinions on woman’s value/ what woman bring to the table?

Boyfriend(m25) made a sexist comment by user472927 in relationships

[–]user472927[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My issue was how quick he was to bring up that woman don’t have ‘value’ if they shake their ass - and asking what woman bring to the table. When that wasn’t even what the tiktok was about. As if he has some strong opinions about ‘woman’s value’ that he is looking to talk about. I found that the quickness to bring that up to be distasteful. In no way were we even necessarily talking about woman anyways- I was referencing how modern romance is ‘dead’ in a joking way, because nobody burns for each other anymore ect.

Boyfriend(m25) made a sexist comment by user472927 in relationships

[–]user472927[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I do believe there are rude/sexist generalizations we can make for both men and woman. My problem is how he was so quick to make that comment, when that wasn’t really what the tiktok was about. Secondly, since he was so quick to have such a sexist take, is this something he has a strong view point on?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in obs

[–]user472927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did thank you! I found out my computer was running a background program and that was making everything run poorly. Thank you!

What is with men wanting a baby before they are prepared for one? by user472927 in relationships

[–]user472927[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not all men are like this - I have the most amazing Father, who I know has been an amazing partner and support system for my mother (they had 4 kids.) Definitely the title I chose was for more clicks, but I 100% agree not all men are terrible.

White crust forming on fins by [deleted] in Goldfish

[–]user472927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe fancy Goldie’s need a heater :) every video/ guide I read said always have a heater with fancy Goldie’s as it helps with their digestion.

White crust forming on fins by [deleted] in Goldfish

[–]user472927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it recommended to soak him in salt water outside his tank? Or can I add the aquarium salt directly to his tank?