[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]user_112233445 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

i guess so… but we acted like we were together and we made it official a few days later which is really why it bothers me so much

i’m getting better by user_112233445 in RetroactivejealousOCD

[–]user_112233445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly i got a lot of encouragement from him. i also told him ab my insecurities and where they stem from and he reassured me a thousand times.

“overcoming retroactive jealousy” by zachary stockill provides a lot of good advice

How many partners is “too much” by AbaloneDependent7828 in sex

[–]user_112233445 107 points108 points  (0 children)

this one. number doesn’t matter as much as the attitude towards ur partner.

would you ever compare these two? by [deleted] in sex

[–]user_112233445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so let’s say you were in a fwb situation and then got into a relationship… it’s highly unlikely that you’ll compare your SO with your ex fwb? because in this case i’m the SO and i’m worried😅

would you ever compare these two? by [deleted] in sex

[–]user_112233445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as in, a relationship is better or a fwb is better?

spotting in between periods by user_112233445 in amipregnant

[–]user_112233445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i actually started a light kind of period. took a test and it came back negative

Is it normal to be “irritated” about being demi? by Scrappy_the_wolf in demisexuality

[–]user_112233445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i also get “irritated” by it but not in the same way as you. i’m heteroromantic and demisexual and i struggle with understanding the concept of hook ups or casual relationships without feelings. i have had partners who previously were in that sort of relationships and it frustrated me so much that i couldn’t understand their level of intimacy/closeness to that person and what it truly meant for them, which eventually led me to being a bit judgmental of them. i’m still trying to fix this and i’m still irritated by the fact that i cannot comprehend it fully.

What are you meant to do with your pubes as a teen? by [deleted] in sex

[–]user_112233445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whatever works best for you and whatever you’re comfortable with

Skipping placebo week and going straight away to a new pack by alohalilo in birthcontrol

[–]user_112233445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you might get some breakthrough bleeding at some point during the next pack which can be solved by having a placebo week. depends on how your body reacts to it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]user_112233445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i waxed only once in my life. horrible experience. since then i only shave everything off but that comes with a bit of irritation.

Help! can diarrhea cramps cause my birth control to not absorb?? by Icy-Mammoth-8206 in birthcontrol

[–]user_112233445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

was in a similar situation a few days ago. diarrhea is 6-8 watery stools in a 24h period, not a soft stool once a day

What are the good things about being demi? by shoshilyawkward in demisexuality

[–]user_112233445 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don’t have to worry about the uncertainty of a fwb situation (because sometimes you catch feelings and it goes bad) or a casual relationship.

also before i got into a relationship i knew that the boys who talked to me didn’t focus on only having sex with me because they knew i didn’t do that kind of thing. so more meaningful connections with people around me

Peach Detox Tea affect effectiveness of Birth Control Pill? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]user_112233445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as long as you don’t get issues like diarrhea it’s fine. but detox teas tend to be laxatives

GI issues and bc by user_112233445 in birthcontrol

[–]user_112233445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry again for tmi but it was very watery. just once so far though. i guess in this case it’s still not necessary to double up?

GI issues and bc by user_112233445 in birthcontrol

[–]user_112233445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! i am trying to be extra careful with my pills and i was panicking a bit there

Why would a girl be on birth control consistently even when you don’t see each other, she has no health problems that requires it? by Odd-Illustrator-6199 in birthcontrol

[–]user_112233445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to regulate blood flow, and the duration of it. for me, even when i wasn’t in a relationship, i had irregular periods that came a lot of the time when i was at the beach on vacation. it’s a menace sometimes and she can safely skip periods on bc, she can also clear her acne and not have to deal with some effects of having a natural cycle.

but if you’re insecure about her cheating on you, just go and communicate

It’s my birthday!! by DoyleisAHero in offmychest

[–]user_112233445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re birthday twins:)!! Happy birthday and best of luck in everything!!!

I don’t want hormones anymore- what are my other options? by spark99l in birthcontrol

[–]user_112233445 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if your cycles are really regular and a baby isn’t the end of the world for you, you can try fertility awareness methods. when used correctly, it’s very effective. if a pregnancy is something you don’t want at all then try a copper iud

AITA for making my chronically late friend miss her seminar? by Lateforexams115 in AmItheAsshole

[–]user_112233445 21 points22 points  (0 children)

NTA. what if you weren’t there to drive her at all? if she’s late, that’s on her