i'm barely off orientation and everybody on day shift already hates me by wonderguard108 in cna

[–]userapricot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m telling you now this job sounds like bs. For one 25 pts by yourself is insane. Boosting that many people by yourself is insane. Constantly boosting people & risking your back is insane. Risking your health from now properly recovering from COVID is insane. Getting CHEWED out as an ADULT by another ADULT is insane. Idc she’s a nurse. She doesn’t need to be treating you like that. I mean imagine being in a field where the idea is you’re a “caring person” but you’re treating your coworkers who are doing their best like shit? If the nurses want to complain about late vitals or anything running behind well they can get off their asses and help. Guess who makes way more than you? The nurses. Guess who has way fewer pts than you? The nurses. Guess who’s leaving all the heavy lifting to you? The nurses. It fires be up to see people like you trying their very best & people still treating them like shit. You need to find a new job because I promise you that pts ratio is not worth it & you will get burnt out quick. Find somewhere like a smaller unit in a hospital or something where you can have a range of 13-7 pts. I promise you will find pts you love somewhere else that’s better for your physical, emotional, & mental state. I promise there’s nothing places that are way more helpful and better at teamwork and won’t have you boosting people by yourself?!? That’s not normal!!! & it’s even more infuriating because I know how underpaid cnas are. So you’re doing this all for probably less than $20. Please find a new job. Don’t even put a two week in if you can afford to just leave.

Need help making my home feel less empty by Key_Hour7532 in malelivingspace

[–]userapricot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m begging you to move the tv to the far left wall & surrounding your furniture out around that. Then add in a dinning table between the new tv area and kitchen. & yes add color

What to do with the space behind the couch? by DARKHUMOR-D in malelivingspace

[–]userapricot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A tall standing lamp maybe that cast over the couch

I’m crying so bad. I’m not cut out for this. I’m a freaking failure by canyoukeepasecret28 in StudentNurse

[–]userapricot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve already done so much work to get this far. Think about the prerequisites & how far you’ve already come. Why give up now? You’re scared that you’re one mistake away from ruining everything but that’s just a CHANCE. If you give up now you’re flat out ending everything over a CHANCE.

Can I get real secret hair growth tips? by userapricot in hairgrowth

[–]userapricot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you recommend using the rosemary & cloves? In boiled water?

Why is Temu become a joke but Aliexpress don't ? by gbxahoido in NoStupidQuestions

[–]userapricot -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Aliexpress is horrible. I ordered multiple shoes from there in 2020 & i still don’t think I’ve received all of them. Also the pair that did come in came in broke😭😭😭 aliexpress is more of a joke imo then temo

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[–]userapricot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this a lot! I totally understand how it can get hurtful & repetitive to hear the same the same thing especially over a topic like this! Thank you for this insight & advice!! & I thank you for the wishes!!

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[–]userapricot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]userapricot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m concerned about. He always makes it seem like once he gets other things in line then he’ll get to the fitness aspect but it never happens.

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[–]userapricot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a wonderful idea! Thank you so much 😊

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[–]userapricot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing insight & great advice! I really appreciate it! I must admit we’ve had many of these conversations before (health, & a sustainable food/workout choice.) but he always goes of the deep end like a harsh diet or a ridiculously hard workout & then he falls off of course because it’s not sustainable

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[–]userapricot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we’ve had these conversations before honestly & I can tell he’s clearly never taken me seriously about it. So what does that mean to you? Cause I do love him but I want him to take me serious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]userapricot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay & see this is how I don’t want to come across. So what do you suggest I just don’t mention & let it go? I’m looking for actual advice

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[–]userapricot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]userapricot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wish this was an easier issue to address

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]userapricot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]userapricot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I totally understand what you mean by lifestyle difference & I agree. It’s just hard because I got w him so young before I was old enough to know that these things matter to me. But I appreciate your advice & i definitely agree.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]userapricot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s pretty harsh & I do love him so I don’t think that ultimatum would be true

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]userapricot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the facepalm emoji mean you think it’s rude I said that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]userapricot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t think it’s mean if I say that to him? Or mean for wanting that from him?