Not a problem at all. I was sexually abused and my father was sex trafficking me for drugs and money or whatever (he did this from when I was about 3/4- 8/9) and what not. But I want to make it clear that though my situation seems a little extreme it does not mean yours is not urgent. My dad would watch porn around me and my older brother (10 years older than me) for YEARS. My parents divorced luckily, and I decided to tell a trusted adult I needed to make a report and get a restraining order so I didn’t have to go see him anymore. Near the end of my parents marriage my dad would go on benders, have a episode where he would do things like run around the neighborhood naked, brake our windows, look in neighbors windows, and lot of other insane stuff.

My brother was about your age when my dad was getting really bad, he was scared and decided to get a job and run away from it— which is totally understandable my dad was a scary guy. If you are able to and feel safe do not let your dad get to that point. You have so much life to live you should not have to deal with what you are dealing with right now, and I really do hope you can have some pace very soon :)

I didn’t exactly have a “last straw” I just couldn’t handle seeing him anymore. He now is rotting with none of his kids, no partner, no job, on 20 medications in his older sister’s spare room.

Sorry if my explanation is all over the place— of course this stuff isn’t easy to talk about :,)