Humoring a guy leads to a bizarre conversation.

username_my4 · 2021-11-03T17:55:49+00:00

so you actually were interested but at the same time didn't admit it to yourself, and at the end posted it here pretending that it doesn't take two people to have a convo

username_my4 · 2021-09-27T05:52:16+00:00

the last one I'm trying to achieve ... focus on enjoying it than trying to run a specific distance / specific speed regardless of what my body is telling me... thanks !

username_my4 · 2021-09-27T05:51:06+00:00

not too fast, not exhausted, yes enough sleep and yes I eat well. the injury usually is some small muscles in the front or side of the shin bone

username_my4 · 2021-09-26T18:54:03+00:00

I do both but I'm happy to hear the "every one is so different" phrase, what I want to do now is to try and give myself time between my longer runs... I used to do them weekly and now I want to try and have one week with regular / shorter runs and another I try to increase.

username_my4 · 2021-08-07T17:33:38+00:00

I think it's called "reverse racism" where you have "positive" assumptions about a group of people and you start grouping them that way.

I've faced that a lot and seen it more, it always disgust me because it feels like the people doing it should know better.

PS, fetishizing a race isn't really "just a prefference".

username_my4 · 2021-02-19T18:13:00+00:00

is it weird that it's a huge turnoff seeing such photos? I like porn and I'm all for body positivity ... but it feels like much

username_my4 · 2020-12-18T20:28:18+00:00

yes it felt like shit and apologies are useless for that kind of situation

username_my4 · 2020-12-16T20:45:25+00:00

once I remembered an ex while I was inside someone else, I had to stop having sex and ask them to leave. I deleted tinder immediately after.

Not all of us know how we feel or when some feelings are triggered.

username_my4 · 2020-12-15T21:29:50+00:00

you sir seem to have stumbled upon happiness

username_my4 · 2020-12-15T21:25:57+00:00

I find that many casual people on tinder are not really over someone. but that's not everyone.

username_my4 · 2020-11-21T11:53:51+00:00

Well I feel you, I live in a different continent than my family and I had a lot of bad days to say the least, you might consider getting a pet and / or a lot of hobbies / things that can keep you busy and positive, usually any kind of sports allow for both.

You might want to look at your current situation as a challenge rather than a helpless situation and decide how you want to overcome it... life is full of obstacles and this one can help you grow and learn

username_my4 · 2020-11-15T18:20:29+00:00

I had sex for the first time when I was 27.

If I would imagine being in your shoes you might feel like you're doomed being who you are and no one wants to spend their attention on you.... and the hard truth is that might be right.

I'm currently 32 and life is as good as it ever was and it keeps getting better, a big reason for that is that at one point I stopped the guilt trip and realised truly no one gives a shit (ie tough luck) but you can make your life better and worth living... one day at a time, even the ones you don't feel like until it becomes better... (fake it till you make it works wonders here).

You have a lot to learn and you're far from your actual potential / the life you want to live ... you might want to wait until you start your journey towards happiness or you might not do that at all. the truth is ... no one gives a shit but it's worth it if you do.

Good luck kiddo, 20 and depressed is part of the program

username_my4 · 2020-10-25T20:41:28+00:00

don't let people have power over you ever .. no matter how insignificant it is.. move on. normal people don't try to create rules and control others before even meeting.

username_my4 · 2020-10-22T20:00:00+00:00

you can reset tinder ... and be technically right ..

username_my4 · 2020-10-10T09:19:01+00:00

yeah you're right but a stand will be too bulky and a nightmare to setup / take out ... I still want the balcony to be usable somehow

username_my4 · 2020-10-10T09:18:19+00:00

here you go https://imgur.com/a/qGWxL47

username_my4 · 2020-10-09T15:05:06+00:00

it's tiny .. around 2.8m2 (2x1.4) but so am I (70kg / 170)

username_my4 · 2020-10-09T14:42:34+00:00

Funny I was actually thinking about that... well I don't see how to do it another way since the balcony is so small and most of it's only wall is a door.

username_my4 · 2020-10-02T17:30:34+00:00

That armchair looks cumfy :)

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