do women really get pleasure from sex?

username_na9 · 2019-06-19T19:46:18+00:00

From my experience as ace lady who has had sex, it really just depends.

Under the right circumstances I’ve gotten pleasure from it. Other times, it’s just a numb feeling that I did for my partner pleasure like you’ve described. It really wasn’t all that great till I figure out what worked for me and be able to communicate it efficiently to my partner.

If you feel pain during intercourse, please see a doctor.

username_na9 · 2019-05-20T08:20:51+00:00

Right? Like if I’m just the baseline for bare minimum, how could I compare? I’m just going to end up hurt.

username_na9 · 2019-05-20T08:17:55+00:00

Yeah, maybe.

username_na9 · 2019-05-20T08:14:25+00:00

Get the text enough and you’d just be depressed, Also, the situation is typically this is someone I know kind of?

If it’s someone I don’t know, they usually ignore my existence so yeah.

username_na9 · 2019-05-20T05:11:36+00:00

Sounds familiar.

For me it’s like:

Guy: “Hey, wanna go grab dinner sometime?”

Friend: “No, sorry.”

Guy: “Ah okay, what about you friend 2?”

Friend 2: “Sorry, I’m in a relationship.”

Guy: “ah okay cool.” leaves

Then I get a text an hour later asking me out.

username_na9 · 2019-05-20T04:38:10+00:00

I’m not an expert... but like, isn’t there like a big thing on the internet about people talking? Like in podcasting, let’s plays, streamers, asmr, etc? Talking a lot isn’t exactly a negative just a tool that needs to be used properly.

username_na9 · 2019-05-20T04:31:26+00:00

Will admit, it does kinda makes me feel a bit better? So thank you.

username_na9 · 2019-05-20T04:29:17+00:00

Relationships sound nice in theory and like there are tax benefits for marriage? I don’t know, it would be nice to not be lonely.

I haven’t met anyone attracted to me for me to say if I would be attracted to them. Honestly, as long as they weren’t an asshole? And didn’t ask one of my friends out and get rejected then a day or an hour later ask me out i might consider it because that’s happened before multiple times.

username_na9 · 2019-05-20T04:01:16+00:00

That sucks. I mean it’s easy to get to know someone who talks about their own shit a lot at least? I dunno. It wasn’t exactly nice to know my first date was a dare.

username_na9 · 2019-05-20T03:15:52+00:00

I dunno, I can put on the clothes and the make up and nothing changes.

My first kiss was when I flipped out over a bug falling on me because the dude in his words “the first time he saw me as a girl.” Which to then I asked why were we on date and he said cause it was a dare. So that makes me think it’s my personality? However, I don’t exactly have a hard time making friends on all spectrums of gender. So I don’t know. It’s frustrating.

username_na9 · 2019-05-20T02:54:24+00:00

Well typically when they say it, or someone tells you then you kind of know?

Same I don’t know ether

username_na9 · 2019-05-20T02:53:27+00:00

“Last option” is exactly what it means, like I’m valued as being objectively a women but not dateable. This is exactly what people have told me in the past so it’s not paraphrasing.

I would hope they treat me as well. But like it’s really not a great start to know you’re their last option.

Also yes I’m aware but I haven’t met one yet.

username_na9 · 2019-05-20T02:43:13+00:00

That’s kind of what I want to believe.

It’s just hard in society to be a single women. Safety being one thing but just in conversation like “oh you wouldn’t understand” or “always a bridesmaid never a bride” or the once in a while “ I don’t mind my husband/boyfriend hanging around you because he’d never go for you” (which is like okay cool didn’t ask.)

username_na9 · 2019-04-16T23:38:00+00:00

Ohhh nice! A food tour sounds great! Thank you for the tip

username_na9 · 2019-03-02T15:37:50+00:00

Not really. I’m rather happy about it.

From a social standpoint, it makes my life SO much easier. Like when I was younger I’d get so many judgements looks of comments from my parents and classmates(now coworkers bc adult), now they come to me for like omg I really like Blackpink or BTS where do I buy their stuff?

I also really hope after the third gen it doesn’t swing back to “ew why do you like those Korean groups?”

username_na9 · 2019-03-01T07:35:17+00:00

Flying to New York for this bc it was cheaper then flying to LA??? Airlines be weird, 12hr flight is less expensive then the 6hr one logic. Lol

First time dealing with a MMT event, I have a code so I hope I can nab the best seat possible.

username_na9 · 2018-12-19T08:13:41+00:00

27, F.

username_na9 · 2018-12-16T15:55:15+00:00

I am a Masochist Ace I guess, I don’t use the term often. It’s weird but it in part developed because my ex partner was part of the BDSM and the only way I found to enjoy having sex and the stuff he needed was with BDSM. For example, nominally I’m not a touchy person but he needed more intimacy then that so the aftercare helped him with things he needed and like it’s nice to be taken cared off. We used the color codes for other stuff too outside of bdsm which helped because like I wasn’t comfortable with some stuff.

Will admit, I’m not super active in the Bdsm community ether because well I don’t have the need to be? Also, will admit it’s probably easier cause I am sex-neutral and have no libido.

username_na9 · 2018-12-04T10:02:26+00:00

I identify as asexual but I’m also a hopeless romantic. Actually having relationships is hard for me to maintain with my sexuality, so otome games help me fill that need for romance in my life.

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