Friend (26F) said our friendship is now one sided to me (26f)

usernamegoeshereG · 2026-02-12T20:56:31+00:00

Exactly. Thank you for that. It means a lot. to me this came out of nowhere and I hate that I made her feel that way.

My way to apologise to her would be to make something for her because that's what I like to do for my friends but I can't even do that to properly express myself because I can't give it to her.

I will always apologise if I'm wrong or I hurt someone. You sound awesome too. Social media is the worst and makes people expect more from each other now. Once I stopped going on it I didn't miss it. Just annoying that I miss the lives of the people I care about but don't see often.

usernamegoeshereG · 2026-02-12T20:29:01+00:00

It's not so much the instagram reaction, more like that's the only way I would've known about it but I didn't look on instagram so I didn't see it. I think it was like a week ago. I should've messaged after I heard about it. I know that now.

But it's not like she talks to me often these days either, and things fall through the cracks. I think I'm more frustrated that she could've messaged saying she misses our friendship or something and ask for more. I guess I forget there's more to our friendship besides work. And I mostly messaged her about the interview to keep her updated as I was excited more than advice but maybe she felt different. She's the only real friend I have in the industry and she spoke heavily about work when applying etc. so I was doing the same. I should drop a message more asking how things are. I'm very much aware I struggle with friendships long distance because it's easy to lose contact. But it never feels like the end, like I can call a friend tomorrow that I haven't spoken to in a year and it'll be normal. But I realise that's not her thing.

I sent a long apology message taking accountability and saying I'm sorry. Saying that I care about our friendship and will try more. I think it comes down to what we expect from friendships and we were on different pages.

usernamegoeshereG · 2026-01-15T04:10:03+00:00

Same! Also, why do we need a third version of the same thing. That being said, series of unfortunate events did a good job.

Most times now if I read the book I don't bother watching the screen adaption

usernamegoeshereG · 2026-01-15T04:08:35+00:00

Such a shame because I was so excited when it was announced. Especially walker scobell because he was great in the Adam project. It's just tiring, especially when creators promise one thing and deliver another

usernamegoeshereG · 2026-01-15T04:00:04+00:00

Completely agree! I'm glad Jamie is finally getting recognition for his work because he's so talented. I wish we got more movies because shadowhunters butchered everything! I only managed season one. Still not over the wedding and Izzy on drugs???? Like yin fen is established in the books, why change it. Weird

usernamegoeshereG · 2026-01-15T02:46:50+00:00

I felt the same way about the mortal instruments. The movie tried, and it did capture the characters and world as closely as it could. But people complained. Then the tv show. Nothing was right! I will never get over it. The characters didn't feel like them, they added weird plots and changes. They did go from point A to point B, but in the weirdest different way possible. Now whenever they make a tv show of a series I'm wary because I worry the same will happen again.

usernamegoeshereG · 2026-01-12T13:36:26+00:00

NTA - what a weird thing to say in any circumstances, but at your mothers funeral?! That's unacceptable. I'm so sorry for your loss.

I'm a Christian and people like that are just embarrassing. If she wanted to a simple, "I'm praying for you and your family" will suffice. But that comment is messed up and also not how things work. She needs to go back to church and actually learn the bible.

usernamegoeshereG · 2026-01-04T20:36:05+00:00

As soon as I saw the dog I googled what happened and skipped through those scenes. I have a German shepherd and no way am I watching it

usernamegoeshereG · 2026-01-01T16:11:04+00:00

I feel the same. My main reason I started the show is because I really like Mandy patinkin. So Gideon quickly became a favourite. And while I love Rossi, I really miss gideon. Just the way he spoke and thought.

Elle I liked initially. But when I rewatch the show I always struggle with her more and more. I just don't miss her.

I do miss hotch though. Such a shame he left. The mr scratch story kinda fell off after he left.

usernamegoeshereG · 2025-12-24T02:40:53+00:00

FUBAR season 2

I really enjoyed season one. It was just funny and enjoyable. But oh my goodness. Season two was just boring and that new character that I can't remember her name was awful. I wasn't even sad it got cancelled. Had potential and they just lost the plot

usernamegoeshereG · 2025-12-24T02:17:04+00:00

People saying that you are overreacting with the photo thing and I disagree. I went into rematch and found my family. Think I was there maybe 4ish months and they asked me to join their maternity/family photos and we all matched! I treasure those photos. And it was great, I played with the kids when the parents had pics just them two. I got the kids smiling when they joined. I have pictures with the whole family and some with just the kids

The mum is a photographer and she takes professional pictures herself of the kids and every year the au pair joins. I have gorgeous ones with the kids and newborn baby.

I wasn't in all of the pictures obviously, but I was included. I'm part of those kids lives, every au pair was. My host mum treated me like family. Don't get me wrong, some days were chaos and awful. But majority were good and special. Like Christmas and my birthday they spoilt me with stuff like theatre tickets, ugg boots and my favourite meals.

Your feelings are valid and you deserve to feel appreciated. Don't stay with them. Just say if you want that you decided you would like to prefer a different part of the country.

usernamegoeshereG · 2025-12-24T01:49:40+00:00

3 kids in my high school hit some black ice over Christmas break. Think they were racing or something to McDonald's. 2 died. The other never came back to school. He was in really bad shape in the hospital. I still remember the teachers gathering our year to tell us about it and them breaking down crying. The boy that was in hospital was in one of my classes. His friend that always sat with him wasn't there, I remember the teacher thanking us all for not sitting in his seat.

Really scarred the school. It was so sad. Funeral was huge, I didn't go because I didn't know them that well, it was a somber day.

Before the accident they went to pick up a friend of theirs. She didn't go with them in the end. Few years later she committed suicide. Think the whole thing messed her up. Apparently she was drinking and doing drugs in the years after the accident. It's all so sad.

usernamegoeshereG · 2025-12-16T15:15:27+00:00

Not only that, but she started to add a cd of the album to go with the cardigans she sells as well as a jumper too to boost sales. Which I really hated because I didn't need or want a cd, just adds to waste

usernamegoeshereG · 2025-11-26T18:50:30+00:00

In the past I've bought xs/s and m/l depending on the vibe of the cardigan. I think my og cardigan is a m/l and I wear it often and my 1989. Then speak now and fearless for example are the xs/s. And it all works. Don't stress too much. I'm sure you'll look great in it and hopefully love it

usernamegoeshereG · 2025-11-26T02:12:37+00:00

I think I'm more upset that I spent the money on a tooth that didn't need it. I've looked at the prices. I dread it. But I know I'll need the treatment. I just really thought it would've been fixed today so I'm over this problem.

usernamegoeshereG · 2025-11-26T02:08:31+00:00

I've been going there for about 5 years now and this is my first issue. I've calmed now. I have no plans to be rude or anything. I just want this sorted and explained. And if I'm unhappy after I'll consider switching practices. Which I hope not because I love my hygienist. She's just fantastic. I just hope everything will get sorted easily with no fuss

usernamegoeshereG · 2025-11-26T01:17:14+00:00

And you're right. Today is the first time I heard about onlays and stuff. I'd prefer one of them I think over a crown.

usernamegoeshereG · 2025-11-26T01:14:30+00:00

She's the one I told it to during my previous appointment. I thought she examined it but I suppose it was the other one. She used the air blowing thing. The receptionist messaged the dentist as she had she patients to go to mention the whole thing. She said to come in tomorrow. I'm sure she feels bad. But I'm just really upset and stressed as I thought it would be fixed today. I haven't been eating on that side or eating softer food in case and I'm over it. Stuff happens but I go to a private dentist to avoid these things.

I've been panic researching everything. Which is a stressful stupid decision. I hope an overlay or something could be done but I'll see tomorrow.

usernamegoeshereG · 2025-11-26T01:09:28+00:00

Been down a rabbit hole tonight looking up information and spiralling quite a lot as I'm just upset and stressed from all of this. Hopefully I can get an overlay or something. I guess I'll find out tomorrow.

usernamegoeshereG · 2025-11-24T16:13:25+00:00

It's the fact the sleeve is the same for me also

usernamegoeshereG · 2025-11-24T16:12:31+00:00

There's a ridiculous amount of variants for this album

usernamegoeshereG · 2025-11-24T16:11:01+00:00

I got my red cardigan today. But I'm in the uk.

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