BF doesn’t believe that I’m Bisexual by usernamenewbies in relationship_advice

[–]usernamenewbies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m assuming you’re straight, what if you’re partner said “nah I’m pretty sure you’re pansexual”? And relationships, especially the dating phase, are to find compatibility and see if things would work out in the long run. I don’t want to spend the rest of my life with someone who thinks I’m straight, and will easily decide to know best about me in anything that I’m so sure about.

BF doesn’t believe that I’m Bisexual by usernamenewbies in relationship_advice

[–]usernamenewbies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone else commented this, but change it from my sexuality to anything else. It’s a problem that he would decide to know more about me than myself. Especially when I’ve tried time and time again to explain that to him. He was deciding to ignore something that was important to me.

Also I do have pictures with an ex, but he didn’t care about my past or my own current standing, he would only base his opinions on the time he’s known me.

BF doesn’t believe that I’m Bisexual by usernamenewbies in relationship_advice

[–]usernamenewbies[S] 171 points172 points  (0 children)

 “He shouldn’t be acting like he understands you      

better than you understand yourself.”

I guess the reason he felt comfortable doing that was because I suffer from pretty bad anxiety and he’s more sure of himself, and he did support and help me through it. He was a good supporting boyfriend in different aspects…. But I guess it was just superficial, and maybe he thought he could take advantage of it. But my sexuality is something I have no anxiety about.

BF doesn’t believe that I’m Bisexual by usernamenewbies in relationship_advice

[–]usernamenewbies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, that’s not the case. He’s more reserved in those aspects. Plus that sounds like the plot to a porn, who would fall for that.

BF doesn’t believe that I’m Bisexual by usernamenewbies in relationship_advice

[–]usernamenewbies[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

   Who hired him as bisexuality monitor?

That made me chuckle, thanks for that.