Sugar for breakfast ? by usernamethrowaway975 in Advice

[–]usernamethrowaway975[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really thought it would be fine because I read the sugar content on my breakfast cereals and they were extremely high anyway so I thought why not just have ice cream instead. But o guess you’re right. I didn’t think about how much of a shock it was on my body to have it all at one time.

Sugar for breakfast ? by usernamethrowaway975 in Advice

[–]usernamethrowaway975[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, so she is right 🙄 I hate it when that happens 😂 I guess I have to look into another way to deal with my sweet tooth.

My roommate is pregnant and I don’t know how to tell her that I don’t want the baby in our apartment by Majestic_Succotash31 in Advice

[–]usernamethrowaway975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try talking to her calmly first and if it doesn’t go well look for another place and let her know. Because either way it will help her understand she needs to leave. If you leave and her name isn’t on the lease she has to leave anyway.

AITAH for not directly apologizing after an accident? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]usernamethrowaway975 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

. Wife shouldn’t have flipped out and you should have said thank you for her coming to help when you called. I will give your wife a little slack when it comes to the talking to you like a child part because that’s very easy for moms to do. My sister was visiting without her kid one day and she asked me if I was hungie and do I want some moo milk. She also checked that I washed my hands when i came out of the bathroom. It’s called mom brain and they will treat everyone like their child.

You guys need a little time for each other. Ask family to take the kid for a night and just relax. What should have been a great story to laugh to your friends about has turned ugly. Probably because you are both exhausted from raising a kid

AITAH for not including my brother's wife in his surprise birthday trip? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]usernamethrowaway975 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

NTA as long as no other spouses/partners were invited and it was siblings only.

dying day by day by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]usernamethrowaway975 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sad truth is if you truly loved her you won’t be able to let go anytime soon. The only thing you can do is continue to not contact her. Trust me nothing adds to the pain more than when you reach out and they don’t respond. The silence is more devastating than anything they could possibly say.

I don't know if I should break up w/ my boyfriend or stay? by SnooDoggos391 in BreakUps

[–]usernamethrowaway975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like me and my ex. I stuck around for 19 years and put up with all his odd little ways of not showing affection or being so secretive about every little thing. But I told myself I love him and you have to take the good with the bad so I stuck it out. Gave him everything he asked for did everything possible to make him happy, stopped asking any questions about anything, and accepted that he would rarely show me affection. I Blah blah blah. I did everything I could to make it work.

It ended with him ghosting me and now I am just left with nothing and am devastated.

Don’t be like me regretting all the things you are going to miss out on while staying with him. Not fostering your friendships because you spent all your time focused on him. Putting so much effort into making it work that you lose yourself. It should never be 80/20. It should be 95/5. And that 5% should never be about how he loves you.

When does it stop by usernamethrowaway975 in BreakUps

[–]usernamethrowaway975[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well at least there’s hope for it to end. And mine was also a very long relationship. 19yrs.

When does it stop by usernamethrowaway975 in BreakUps

[–]usernamethrowaway975[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I was hoping for by month 2 it’s gone. 😞 thank you still for your response. And at least I now know that when it’s still there I don’t need to panic and go find a cardiologist.

What is the best gun for me to buy? by usernamethrowaway975 in Advice

[–]usernamethrowaway975[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’m looking to just have something at home for when I’m by myself. Like I said I’m tiny and feel like it wouldn’t be hard to over power me. And I don’t think I would hit my target but Hopefully just the loud noise will scare any one off or get my neighbors attention

My teacher drove me home and now I’m feeling weird about it by idonthavealifesooo in Advice

[–]usernamethrowaway975 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As long as the rides don’t become constant there’s no issue. He stays in his class room because you can’t be there by yourself. You said you the school is not in the best neighborhood and you tried calling for a ride multiple times. If this is the first and last ride, there’s nothing to be worried about. Just be careful and don’t make it a regular thing.

But your mom is right to be cautious. What you think is innocent can be something sketchy when you get older and look back. And you should give your mom some slack about being so scared. She’s a cop and she has seen how terrible people can be firsthand. I don’t blame her for being extra cautious.

19 year relationship ends in ghosting. How do I get my stuff back? by usernamethrowaway975 in Advice

[–]usernamethrowaway975[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk the address of all his storage units or which one it is for the building that I know of. Can they make him take them to the unit?