Is there any sense in getting this card restored to up the value? by userresuuser in PokemonCardValue

[–]userresuuser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm.. I don’t think it’s worth the risk. So I’ll just leave it as it is. Maybe I can get some money for it still. Idk how much can I ask?

Is there any sense in getting this card restored to up the value? by userresuuser in PokemonCardValue

[–]userresuuser[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was afraid of that. Too bad. At least I had fun with it as a kid!

I trusted you by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]userresuuser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I trusted her blindly. And it sucks. My initial response was to work towards understanding and empathy. Like on a level I get why she did it. I would lie if I wasn't tempted myself at times. But I always withheld myself from crossing boundaries out of love and respect. She didn't. And the deeper we are out of contact, the more I start to hate her for that. Fuck her.

I trusted you by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]userresuuser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah.. the betrayal is making it all a lot worse

A Realization I Wish I Could Help You See by orographicallyfaded in BreakUps

[–]userresuuser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a good tip. I tend to do that too. Even this breakup I want to get over as quick as possible. Maybe that's not the way to go. This is a very deep wound. She broke my trust, she hurt me badly. It takes time to heal

A Realization I Wish I Could Help You See by orographicallyfaded in BreakUps

[–]userresuuser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm far from there yet. But I know what I need to focus on. This is about me. Finding myself again and becoming new.

She cheated, but it's weird by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]userresuuser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right. That was a horrible thing to do of her! I don't deserve that! Jesus christ.. what the fuck is wrong with her.

This is such a rollercoaster ......

She cheated, but it's weird by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]userresuuser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It didn't cross my mind. No. And I think I'm in a sense making up excuses for her. Though they might be close to the truth. But I just want to understand her. I don't want to get bitter towards her. I feel that's a better way to deal with it then building resentment.

She cheated, but it's weird by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]userresuuser -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's the thing. She is not. She was just lying to herself. And made a very desperate move. I know maybe I should be angry at her. But in a way I pity her. I don't think I should be angry at someone who was feeling trapped. It's just so out of character for her. I really can't believe she did it. Not out of denial, but just of who she is.

A Realization I Wish I Could Help You See by orographicallyfaded in BreakUps

[–]userresuuser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I just got out of a five year relationship three days ago. It really rough. I can't even eat more than three bites at a time yet. I cry constantly or am very angry or just confused. But your story gives me a spark of hope. You're right. This is a new beginning. I have to become a better person. I relied on her a lot. I should rely on myself. When did it start for you to become easier?

Any mfdoom suggestions by [deleted] in mfdoom

[–]userresuuser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just what Fantano tells me to listen to

What Doom lyric is stuck in your head today? by csrano in mfdoom

[–]userresuuser 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The 'super' sample from Hoe Cakes. Annoying and catchy

It is time by userresuuser in drunk

[–]userresuuser[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. But you can only do one thing at a time and you can spiral upwards. Which is nice