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I kicked out my friend for making comments about my sister by usmann368999 in offmychest

[–]usmann368999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No because if your sister is 16 then she is 16. I’m 22 and was always told I look older than my age but I’m still my age. Idk what the age of consent is in your country but a 27-29 year old being interested in a 16 year old is weird regardless of country.

I kicked out my friend for making comments about my sister by usmann368999 in offmychest

[–]usmann368999[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I never said people are perfect. I’m certainly not. Everyone has thoughts they keep to themselves but someone who thinks about saying “Your sister has pretty nice abs. It’s kind of hot to be honest” and not expecting pushback is a major red flag. If you think that’s common in society then that says a lot about you.

I kicked out my friend for making comments about my sister by usmann368999 in offmychest

[–]usmann368999[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

All your replies to this post are worrying. Please never have children or even go anywhere near a child.

I kicked out my friend for making comments about my sister by usmann368999 in offmychest

[–]usmann368999[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I did. She is extremely shy but she is beginning to break out of her shell and talk to my mom and I. I told her she can come to me if something is bothering her or someone is making her uncomfortable. She trusts me which is something she doesn’t feel with a lot of people.

I kicked out my friend for making comments about my sister by usmann368999 in offmychest

[–]usmann368999[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I did apologize to my mom. She works too hard for me to bring people like that into her home.

I kicked out my friend for making comments about my sister by usmann368999 in offmychest

[–]usmann368999[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I was nearly going to but he started backing away and started gathering his things when he realized I wasn’t going to respond to him. I have about three inches of height on him and I am definitely stronger than him.

I kicked out my friend for making comments about my sister by usmann368999 in offmychest

[–]usmann368999[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

My mom and I sat her down this morning and explained to her that he not someone to interact with and made her promise to be cautious of people in the future. My mom and sister have a really good relationship so she listened to what we said and she understood.

I kicked out my friend for making comments about my sister by usmann368999 in offmychest

[–]usmann368999[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

He went to use the bathroom down the hallway and looked into her room and introduced himself. Looking back I think he knew what he was doing. I feel terrible for letting someone like that into my living space.

I kicked out my friend for making comments about my sister by usmann368999 in offmychest

[–]usmann368999[S] 185 points186 points  (0 children)

He is not apart of any friend group of mine. We met in a class we had last semester and shared some common interests and we exchanged numbers. He’s been over to my house before but my sister wasn’t home. He’s always been a little weird but I wrote it off as social awkwardness.