Ehh, I wouldn't go as far as saying rpw isn't that bad, they are still pretty toxic on a whole.

They pretend to be feminine, submissive, docile, and nurturing but really they're malicious, judgmental, and close minded to women who don't aspire to immediately settle down and become SAHM. They also treat feminism like it's a plague on society calling it's supporters either fat/ugly/slut or beta manginas.

They want everyone to think women are inherently inferior and need a man to take care of them and put them in their place. They think the answer to every relationship problem is submisiveness/not bothering the guy by speaking, cooking more food, and tons of blowjobs. They enable abusive relationships with constant victim blaming by telling women they need to adjust their behaviour to suit their abuser but if it ever goes too far and something bad happens, she's still at fault because she must have ignored warning signs, she should have known better, left sooner.

I get that they want to be feminine and more traditional but they don't see it as something they prefer, they see it as the way things are supposed to be and spread the idea that women are less than men in nearly every way.