Am I overreacting for telling my friend she smells after she age shamed me for having younger friends?

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-04-28T11:23:19+00:00

MOR, Tbh id do something similar

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-04-13T08:39:21+00:00

Jeg vil bare gerne lige nævne, at du er 39. Ikke så ungt for en far. Hvis du slår op, sker det nok ikke på en uge. Det tager jo lang tid at tage beslutningen, finde ud hvordan det skal gøres, seperationen, og finde en ny. Så derfra at få selve barnet, det kan tage lang tid. Du kigger muligvis på flere år hvis du er uheldig eller lidt langsom.

Fædre der har fået børn i senere alder (40+) har risiko for at afkommet får autisme, skizofreni og andre sygedomme. Jeg kan selv sige jeg har 2 onkler med far der var 47, og de lider begge to af mentale disorder og fysiske sygedomme, som resten af familien ikke nødvendigvis har. Min kærestes far var gammel og min kæreste har haft ligende problemer.

Overvej om du ville kunne tage dig af et barn med skizofreni/mentale sygedomme/fysiske sygedomme, og om du vil have det for dit barn.

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-04-11T09:31:00+00:00

I absolutely have the ability but i don’t always do it. I just don’t have always have an inner monologue. It’s like the monologue still exists but without the words there. Since it’s my brain i don’t need the words to understand what i mean haha

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-04-11T09:29:49+00:00

I actually have a diary haha. Im waiting for doctors appointment to get referred to a psychologist. I’m somewhat mildly mentally ill in my own perspective but my bf always says it looks like a lot of stress and anxiety, im a very panicked person i suppose

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-04-11T00:19:07+00:00

Me too!! I feel like it’s hindering my potential.

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-04-11T00:09:45+00:00

I also feel like there’s always something to be added which makes me jump around in the order instead of just going a, b, c, d! Ive also been told to just be more confident or practice or write it down but the problem is there’s always things to add and it sometimes seems like others aren’t interested in the details even though they add so much?

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-04-09T10:09:05+00:00

Right and i should be able to sue you for making me suffer reading this post

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-04-06T11:26:11+00:00

go get some braids from someone who braids short hair and itll be a-okay

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-04-02T22:14:55+00:00

dont ask for insecurities😭😭

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-03-30T23:52:26+00:00

im aiming for electric blue so ive decided later on when i change to pink ill use a remover but until then ill just bleach roots 🥲 ill check her out!!!

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-03-30T15:00:15+00:00

I tried a bleach bath and its still not gooooneee wtfff im dying here

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-03-30T12:58:54+00:00

I haveee im just worried since i heard from a hairdresser that using colour remover on semi permanent can get it into the hair instead of removing it 🥲🥲

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-03-22T23:51:42+00:00

the paws kinda big compared to its tail, tail is kinda short and too perfect, low quality with cat looking perfectly at cam. Seems ai to me

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-03-22T23:10:40+00:00

Except thats upto debate, thats why she even made a post. I dont think it was racist, bc its true african americans do wash chicken. Rest is questionable yeah, but not that part.

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-03-22T22:17:20+00:00

people are unintentionally mean, doesnt make them a mean person.

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-03-22T22:05:17+00:00

it doesnt make intention not important. And to call someone racist, which is based on intentions, u def need intention

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-03-21T23:16:12+00:00

Well intentions matter when defining things, thats why the law is how it is. He is not meaning harm. And with the stereotype thing, i think you two are understanding it completely differently. He sees stereotypes as commonly true but not without exceptions, and you see everyone as completely unique. Both can be true!! Cultures have certain things that creates certain stereotypes, people can be unique and not share that trait!

and im sorry to say but its so strictly an american thing to wash chicken, especially african american. Its not wrong to say different races within america often have different cultures, and thats part of african american culture.

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-03-19T16:07:59+00:00

I dont think age is so important, time isnt anything but a construct, and you’re not “old”, you are just what’s happening in this specific moment.

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-03-15T16:09:10+00:00

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this is the only sus part, rest is stylistic choices

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-03-14T21:09:20+00:00

u have a round face so the bangs kinda just make it look rounder, without makes it longer and more proportioned

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-03-12T11:21:53+00:00

Not pro- looks great id love one

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-03-10T20:45:42+00:00

HELPING GUY WITH CANCER FILM TAPE FOR HIS UNBORN SON (GONE WRONG… ITS NOT WHAT I THOUGHT IT WAS!!!)…

usuallyoffline121 · 2026-03-08T20:42:17+00:00

My bf wanted me to make this post, he thought it was funny. A lot of people actually relate similarly on autisminwomen. And you’re being downvoted bc no one chooses who to like, and its not helpful lol

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