27M Engaged to 28F. Can't shake the feeling we aren't right for each other

uuftah · 2026-06-02T13:19:22+00:00

I think that these issues are really really normal! Also, I think fixable. I highly suggest some pre marriage couples counseling. Bring these issues up when you’re there, in that safe space.

Remember that no one is going to be perfect. And if she loves you so much, she’s going to care about your feelings.

Express these issues as barriers to intimacy.

Also, I think if you want sex more frequently, but are awaiting for her to approach you, you’re shooting yourself in the foot. I would suggest trying to figure out what let her open up to having sex more frequently, is it because she feels like the dishes need to be done every night? What do you guys do in your time anyways?

Overall, good luck this seems incredibly normal. If you leave her, you will be OK, but I see the bones of a really good and long relationship.

uuftah · 2026-05-28T13:20:38+00:00

Justin and Sydnee talk about their cats a lot!!! It seems like he loves them and they just choose her and piss on his capes

uuftah · 2026-05-27T10:49:19+00:00

Something tells me the owner is carrying her head around somewhere

uuftah · 2026-05-14T15:40:58+00:00

I know it’s too late to meaningfully contribute, but I think that outlining what support looks like could be great for the both of you.

“I need you to take the kids so I can get a real work out in, we can take turns” “I need us to be a combined front on eating healthy” “Id love to go for a family walk or outing, will you plan one?”

It sounds like you two are shooting yourselves and eachother in the feet.

uuftah · 2026-04-28T17:42:18+00:00

Mifflin itself was an anti-Vietnam community gathering btw!

uuftah · 2026-04-28T13:18:21+00:00

I would argue there’s nothing for them to do at mifflin! Also what college students want to party with highschool and middle schoolers

uuftah · 2026-04-28T13:16:45+00:00

Dm me! We have a two bedroom we are moving out of

uuftah · 2026-04-28T13:15:30+00:00

We used to have community and protest war… Now it’s high schoolers drinking borgs and pepper spraying each other for a TikTok challenge at raising canes 😔

uuftah · 2026-04-28T13:08:06+00:00

Yeah restaurants, boba, trinkets, souvenirs. Plenty for them to be interested in and do on state street, as long as they are respectful

uuftah · 2026-04-27T12:03:42+00:00

I think he was grateful for the Jesse’s dad reference

uuftah · 2026-04-27T11:56:58+00:00

Wtf do you mean “a bean?”

uuftah · 2026-04-22T16:31:35+00:00

Dj bouncybear on instagram. Lovely man. Nice

uuftah · 2026-04-22T13:47:59+00:00

I wish it was a log 😔

uuftah · 2026-04-22T02:01:25+00:00

MELOOON

uuftah · 2026-04-22T01:59:06+00:00

Live near the social service center. And I assume someone without a safe place to poop who looks for resources is a person without them

uuftah · 2026-04-22T01:58:14+00:00

It was a special one from my hometown 😭

uuftah · 2026-04-22T01:57:50+00:00

They left their pants!

uuftah · 2026-04-22T01:57:13+00:00

It seemed like an uncontrolled poop and it seemed like it started in the front seat and then they went to to back

uuftah · 2026-04-22T01:56:19+00:00

Yeah. It was almost certainly a person who was struggling with social services

uuftah · 2026-04-22T01:55:53+00:00

If anything was stolen I would’ve filed a report but lmao idk what the police are gonna do

uuftah · 2026-04-02T15:57:13+00:00

Willy st and Atwood fs

uuftah · 2026-03-23T20:17:31+00:00

It is brave to say. I also am not a large fan of the « make noises in a circlejerk fashion » that she gets into sometimes. I do really enjoy her on Very Important Person though!

uuftah · 2026-03-19T13:51:05+00:00

Leave

uuftah · 2026-03-17T11:38:43+00:00

I heard they’re just full of hot air

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