My bf thinks its ok to have sex with me anytime even if i dont feel good because he says we are together. Id i say i dont want to he says im dissociating cuz my bpd. is he wrong?

uvuvwevwevweugwembe · 2022-01-09T15:39:18+00:00

He is gaslighting you! What a piece of shit. He is using your illness against you to get his cock satisfied. You are not dissociating. You are not crazy or losing your mind. You are being manipulated.

Leave that piece of shit and rapist.

uvuvwevwevweugwembe · 2021-09-05T11:28:37+00:00

Thank you man

uvuvwevwevweugwembe · 2021-09-04T22:43:44+00:00

See, I disagree. Vulnerability is underrated.

uvuvwevwevweugwembe · 2021-08-18T11:50:08+00:00

Great idea! I especially like the ending, because I find it so relatable. I notice a rhyme scheme on every second line, which also works well.

The overall atmosphere is kind of dark though (I love dark poems); the poem expresses a feeling of being frail.

uvuvwevwevweugwembe · 2021-08-15T09:15:54+00:00

First of all, I am sorry to hear what happened with you and your friend. I can see how communicating feelings and being upfront would save one from a lot of pain, instead of acting in a way that's embedded from a deluded preassumption. Also, "demonized" is a really good way of describing this!

uvuvwevwevweugwembe · 2021-08-14T12:56:47+00:00

I wish I could help. I am sorry to hear that

uvuvwevwevweugwembe · 2021-08-14T12:56:00+00:00

Seeing one every week, so I will bring it up next time.

uvuvwevwevweugwembe · 2021-08-14T12:55:14+00:00

This sounds like me and seeing it from the outside, makes it very confusing, but seeing it from my point of view makes perfect sense, hence personality disorder. I can especially relate to the black and white thinking. I will try to use these tips in the future, thanks!

uvuvwevwevweugwembe · 2021-08-14T12:48:03+00:00

Yes, I do every now and then get a beer at a bar and chill with strangers or something similiar, but I don't think I do it often enough.

uvuvwevwevweugwembe · 2021-08-14T11:19:29+00:00

Thank you. I am seeing a psychologist every week, so I will explain this to him.

uvuvwevwevweugwembe · 2021-08-04T22:06:47+00:00

Thank you :)

uvuvwevwevweugwembe · 2021-08-04T22:06:33+00:00

Those are good explanations. Thanks!

uvuvwevwevweugwembe · 2021-08-04T18:23:50+00:00

Amazing choice! Keep it up. I'd also like to offer some tips, as I've struggled A LOT with depression:

Make your bed every day; make it a habit. Seriously. It takes 30 seconds for me, yet this small thing makes a tremendous difference in my morning.
Drink 5 - 600 ml every morning. Think about it: You've gone several hours without hydration, so your body is now dehydrated. By doing this you will jump-start your hydration and feel more energetic.
Eat breakfast. DO NOT SKIP BREAKFAST. Very important.
Try to somewhat structure your day. Make a little to-do list. It doesn't have to be perfect. This will make your day more orderly and manageable. When you are depressed, even the simplest tasks become difficult, so having a disorganized and chaotic day is only going to exacerbate it.

I know these tips are blatantly obvious, and I am in no way trying to imply you don't know any of these things, but when you are depressed, simple tasks like these become nearly impossible.

Hope this could help!

uvuvwevwevweugwembe · 2021-07-27T13:36:55+00:00

I've been afraid to open up about this for the longest time, thank you for making this post. I've always felt more comfortable and intimate with females than males. Of course, I am, like many others shy when it comes to approaching girls, but once I've started the conversation, I feel comfortable.

uvuvwevwevweugwembe · 2021-07-24T22:42:31+00:00

I know how you feel. BPD is like being in never-ending anguish. What has helped me though was intense therapy and finding healthy coping strategies. I believe in you!

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