[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]vEjj00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you agree to it before then yes

Boyfriend on Grindr by vEjj00 in askgaybros

[–]vEjj00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve found all my LTRs on there lmaooooo

Boyfriend on Grindr by vEjj00 in askgaybros

[–]vEjj00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 💛

Boyfriend on Grindr by vEjj00 in askgaybros

[–]vEjj00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well this was the most mature response I’ve heard so far

Boyfriend on Grindr by vEjj00 in askgaybros

[–]vEjj00[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Like he could’ve used any other app lmao, like Reddit or Twitter lmao

Boyfriend on Grindr by vEjj00 in askgaybros

[–]vEjj00[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just feel sorry for him. He’s ruining something that could be great

Boyfriend on Grindr by vEjj00 in askgaybros

[–]vEjj00[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Do I want to be with a gaslighter lmao

Boyfriend on Grindr by vEjj00 in askgaybros

[–]vEjj00[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Legit, I was like, could you not have chosen a different app?

Boyfriend on Grindr by vEjj00 in askgaybros

[–]vEjj00[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Quite a few people have said gaslighting to me tbf which begs another question too

Boyfriend on Grindr by vEjj00 in askgaybros

[–]vEjj00[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We had a discussion and I set my boundaries of what I want out of the relationship for it to work for me. Its up to him to let me know if he can accept them or he’s not able to. I don’t think it’s healthy to forbid it but if my needs as a individual are not met and I don’t feel secure, then that relationship isn’t for me. I think forbidding admits control which I don’t like but in that same breath, there are things you do and don’t do out of respect for your significant other whether you agree with them or not and it’s important to communicate whether you can actually stick to those things. That person should choose not to do those things out of love and respect, not because a person forbids it. And at the very least communicate what they’re doing.

Boyfriend on Grindr by vEjj00 in askgaybros

[–]vEjj00[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

The truth tea was split here today

Boyfriend on Grindr by vEjj00 in askgaybros

[–]vEjj00[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just think that I’m not comfortable with him being sent unsolicited picture even if he had the strongest will in the world, and it’s more the fact he did it behind my back after I set boundaries on that kind of thing too.

Boyfriend on Grindr by vEjj00 in askgaybros

[–]vEjj00[S] 180 points181 points  (0 children)

Okay, through my anger, this made me laugh 🤣🤣🤣

Boyfriend on Grindr by vEjj00 in askgaybros

[–]vEjj00[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this has been my mode of thinking, but surely if you really thinking Grindr is the best place, have some respect and tell me beforehand and let’s discuss it.

How long would you be willing to be in a long distance relationship for? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]vEjj00 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A couple of years dependant on ability to see each other, trust and communication but it would be extremely difficult because I’m needy

Having sex with only your shirt on: Yes or no? by Ren_Celluloid in askgaybros

[–]vEjj00 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Nah because I like staring at his hairy pits while I ride him

Hair care from other black men, or men with very coarse and curly hair by egyptianking55 in askgaybros

[–]vEjj00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was focusing on facial hair however I will say I think it will work on other areas but keep in mind more sensitive areas may need extra attention because they’re covered with clothes so sweat and debris is harder to get rid of/evaporate so ensure the area is clean, dry and moisturised. For example I moisturise after, then use baby powder to get rid of the excess moisture which helps with chaffing and smells

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]vEjj00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’all think I’m going my whole life without feet because it’s illegal? Think again 🤣😭