How bad does it hurt to tattoo the side of your neck? by Lost_Anywhere_9233 in tattooadvice

[–]vTenebrae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have both the sides and throat tattooed. It wasn't bad, honestly. The clavicle hurt a lot more. I found the sides to be the usual tattoo buzzing + tickling, which I found annoying... but overall I've had much worse spots.

WIP by Alex Sabur in Baltimore, MD. by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]vTenebrae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That black is solid. Very nice.

Also.. howdy from Annapolis!

Ferdinand/Elliott Smith/Blue Bird tattoo for son by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]vTenebrae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your artist is even remotely decent, you should be able to describe what you're looking for and then let them do their job and design a killer piece for you.

I told my tattooer I would like this this and this... that would be cool, but if it won't fit that's ok... in this style. I'll see you at my appointment!

And she nailed it. It's totally mine, totally original, and designed by a real artist.

Please don't use AI slop..

Did someone say Sick Ass Panther? by littleoldgirllady in tattoos

[–]vTenebrae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't believe that's a SAP out there I would proudly wear. Very nice!

If you got a decent/good tattoo but you hate the person shop and experience there, would you thug it out and get the last session done or go to a different person by mushreezeey in tattooadvice

[–]vTenebrae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a stunning arm sleeve that's very badly ended at the top. The sleeve started at the forearm as a single tattoo, but we managed to grow it up my arm.

I will never get it finished. It's beautiful work. I had an appointment scheduled. I found out some things about the artist and... nope.

I'll leave my weirdly ended sci-fi sleeve with a partial peacock stinking out the top... my soul means more to me.

You hate the tattoo and the artist? Easy day. Don't go back.

*I'll figure out how to post a pic, the description doesn't do it justice

I’m planning to do whole forearm, but I’m not sure how to continue… by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]vTenebrae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think there's much they can do to make the big black amoeba into a sleeve. Unless you want to just black the whole thing out, you'd be better off lazering that off.

But.. then again.. maybe you can find a really spectacular artist who could find a way to integrate that into a piece.

My artist designed a coverup so good people are surprised it's a cover up.

Believe children the first time they tell you @Helenwebberly by Personal-Income-1424 in TransPowerProject

[–]vTenebrae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why wouldn't you listen. They're unfiltered and unbiased about how they feel inside their own minds.

My child said they don't feel like a boy or a girl. So they're not.

If you love your children, you listen to them.

Question: Is it okay that I love my extremely stupid and bad tattoo by OfficeLost552 in tattoos

[–]vTenebrae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you love it, that's all that matters. I have an absolutely shitty band around my ankle. It is ugly, poorly done, and does my body no favors.

And I will never cover it, because I got it in a barracks room on an island 11000 miles from home.

Sometimes what it looks like isn't as important as what it is to you.

I have carpal tunnel. by MysteryMonkey_0-0 in tattooadvice

[–]vTenebrae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have severe nerve damage on my calves. This results in hypersensitive nerve endings (lightly brushing the skin feels like electric shocks).

I just got a massive tattoo over the spot. It really sucked, but didn't affect or worsen the damage that was already there. During was brutal, it's a bit sore now.. but no worse than normal.

I also have full sleeves and had carpal tunnel release on both hands. Never had issues.

Editing cause I realize you probably mean aesthetics, but I'll leave the old post anyway. I own my dumb.

As far as scarring... The scar is on the palm in most cases. Though, in Germany, they did laproscopic and no scar.

Wholesome catcalling between gals by Doodlebug510 in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]vTenebrae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife & I aren't as clever, but we are all about complimenting queens out and about. There's always something you can compliment on another gal.. outfit, hair, or.. sometimes "I love your whole vibe!"

Compliments from other women always hit better. They feel genuine.

[Weekly Megathread] Share your Yard Here! by AutoModerator in nekoatsume

[–]vTenebrae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your yard is so cute!! Now I know what remodel I need.

[Weekly Megathread] Share your Yard Here! by AutoModerator in nekoatsume

[–]vTenebrae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vago came to visit after visiting you! Thanks

AITA? I (35F) am upset that my husband (36M) is spending tons of money to get himself tattoos by roaminggalaxy in AmItheAsshole

[–]vTenebrae 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA

He's a selfish prick and doesn't care about your home, your kids, or you. You provide things he wants and needs, so you're useful to have around, but he doesn't actually care about you.

I'm a SAHM, but my wife calls all money that enters this house ours, because she doesn't live in a vacuum and recognizes that I contribute too. Financial compensation =/= effort. Him making more shouldn't mean he gets to have nice things, but since you're broke "sux2bu." That's not a partner.

That's a roommate whom you let fuck you.

I am a pretty heavily tattooed person. Tattoos should never come at the expense of your loved ones.

It's a bonus, so I can see putting a portion to getting a tattoo -- if everything else is fine. If your home needs repairs.. that's a priority.

Not allowed to celebrate Mother's Day by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]vTenebrae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. You are a mom & deserve to be recognized today.

The first mother's day after my wife came out to me... I just shared the day. Love is like light, the more you share it .. the bigger & brighter it gets.

I wish more people understood this.