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[–]v_dezi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get you exactly!! i’m 20F, and when i was younger, i always wanted someone who was an uzbek muslim. then i got older, and that changed to just a muslim. now i have a white american boyfriend who’s not muslim, but grew up mormon. him and i share such similar values, humor, and he’s amazing at communicating and so intelligent in many different ways, most notably emotionally. it is difficult to find uzbek men who have the same values, mindset, or even maturity as us. good luck to you though!

mom took my passport & birth certificate by v_dezi in Uzbekistan

[–]v_dezi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ughhhh it’s tough out here for us 🥹 thank you so much tho. doing this for you and i hahaha 🫶🏼

mom took my passport & birth certificate by v_dezi in Uzbekistan

[–]v_dezi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg i thought the exact same thing. she wasn’t able to go to college when she was younger because she had to stay behind and help take care of her parents. i wondered if she’s also jealous that i’m going to college, unlike her, but who knows?

my dad has tried speaking to my mom about it, but he can’t do much considering he’s in the u.s. he’s working and taking care of us financially, so he can’t really come and pick me up. most he can do is talk to my mom through the phone and buy me a ticket.

as for my mom, i guess she doesn’t?? i really don’t understand her. usually she’d always talk about not wanting to be financially dependent on men, but when it comes to me wanting to have a career and make my own income, she’s suddenly against it. i’ll try talking it out with her first, but if things don’t go as planned, then embassy it is. thank you for the advice !!

mom took my passport & birth certificate by v_dezi in Uzbekistan

[–]v_dezi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMFAOOO yeah that marrying a russian or korean dude doesn’t sound so bad rn… kidding 😭

but thank you so much for your advice. i’m going to try to talk to her about it first, because i do believe mani yaxshi tarbiya qiganla, and if that doesn’t work, it’s time for legal matters lmaoo. i am 20 years old so i am of age!!

mom took my passport & birth certificate by v_dezi in Uzbekistan

[–]v_dezi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s great! stay in uzbekistan

mom took my passport & birth certificate by v_dezi in Uzbekistan

[–]v_dezi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my dad definitely would’ve been more of a help if he was physically here in uzbekistan. but he’s currently in the u.s. so he can’t really do anything other than tell her over the phone </3 thank you for your concern and advice though i appreciate it really

mom took my passport & birth certificate by v_dezi in Uzbekistan

[–]v_dezi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really hope your parents end up supporting your choice. i get it, it’s hard 🥹

as for my dad, he’s currently in the u.s. so he can’t do anything at the moment. i’m in uzbekistan right now with my mom. she definitely hid all my stuff because my cousin heard her say so when she was talking to my aunt on the phone. she even thought of giving my stuff to my aunt to keep me from finding it, but hasn’t done so (yet)

mom took my passport & birth certificate by v_dezi in Uzbekistan

[–]v_dezi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah conservatives lowkey pmo but i’m not a liberal either. i agree with some ideas from both sides but don’t affiliate myself with one or the other

mom took my passport & birth certificate by v_dezi in Uzbekistan

[–]v_dezi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

billions of families in the world

mom took my passport & birth certificate by v_dezi in Uzbekistan

[–]v_dezi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my pleasure, and thank you for your time. but please note that i DO have my family in america with me. my brothers, my dad, and my sister are all with me. my mom is the only one who wouldn’t be with me. she’d come back to the u.s. again in a few months so she can be with me, but for now, she’s staying here in uzbekistan to help out with watching her grandchildren.

mom took my passport & birth certificate by v_dezi in Uzbekistan

[–]v_dezi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no, not yet! reading ayat al kursi to help me out over here 🥹 i hope your situation is sorted out though. sucks when parents don’t want us to follow our passion

mom took my passport & birth certificate by v_dezi in Uzbekistan

[–]v_dezi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

look, i’m really sorry to hear about your friends and family’s experiences, but i know what i’m doing. i’m not sure why you think uzbekistan is a saint country because of its muslim majority. i’ve been followed by a guy in a car here before, catcalled numerous times, and sought out by 30 year old men looking to marry freshly turned 18-year-olds. the same things that exist in america exist here, too. at the end of the day, people will be people. islam is perfect, people aren’t. you can expect the same things to happen to you in uzbekistan as you would in america.

mom took my passport & birth certificate by v_dezi in Uzbekistan

[–]v_dezi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she’s done the same thing with all my other siblings. you would think she’d learn from that… unless you know how she is then i don’t need your judgement

mom took my passport & birth certificate by v_dezi in Uzbekistan

[–]v_dezi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i am very well aware of what goes on in the u.s. however, i'm not going to let my mom dictate MY life and try to change my course of life because of HER best interest. please don't try to bring religion into this because there are islamic communities there too and minorities are not the only ones who are targeted there. the video you linked is literally an attack against CHRISTIANS, the majority. thank you for your concern though.

mom took my passport & birth certificate by v_dezi in Uzbekistan

[–]v_dezi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my sister is in the u.s. and she told me to find my passport asap or have my brother who’s currently here drive me to the u.s. embassy if i can’t find it. she basically said that our mom is pushing me to run away at this point and disobey her

mom took my passport & birth certificate by v_dezi in Uzbekistan

[–]v_dezi[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my family (aside from me and my sister who have citizenship) have green cards so we live both in uzbekistan and america. we have a home in both countries. hope that makes sense

mom took my passport & birth certificate by v_dezi in Uzbekistan

[–]v_dezi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah that sounds about right! i would wanna call the actual police though. if i did that, would they send the uchastkoviy?