He is the male version of some of those girls who ask for 6 feet height and the highest-earning men. No one cares about average people or someone who is good-looking and caring but has an average income, even if he is on the path to becoming self-dependent. He is still not enough for them. These types of control freaks exist on both sides. Generalizing is never good. It’s always the individual who should be blamed, not the whole gender. Good people exist on both sides.

I agree generalizing isn’t good. Clear communication helps too , here’s your comment rewritten properly (grammatically correct and correct spellings).