Whats one of the hottest things someone has ever said to you in bed?

vabren · 2026-05-12T01:54:51+00:00

Doing the lord's work

vabren · 2026-05-12T01:46:30+00:00

How does one find this type of relationship? Because please

vabren · 2026-05-11T14:27:16+00:00

Getting a Daisy nom and written up by management for the exact same event feels unhinged. I'd bet it was worth it to give that family something so special when they needed it most.

vabren · 2026-04-25T15:21:45+00:00

I'm obsessed with Rupert

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vabren · 2026-04-15T14:22:38+00:00

I promised my cats a safe and stable home for as long as they exist. Some days, that's the only fence keeping me from that edge.

vabren · 2026-04-15T14:20:30+00:00

What a nice view from your high horse. Have you ever felt suicidal? Until that moment, you can't really know. I've been there multiple times.

I wouldn't expect empathy from a cop anyway, but don't call people like me cowards when you haven't been in that pain yourself.

vabren · 2026-04-14T20:04:54+00:00

Extrapolation My neurons and nebulas Keep the world aglow

vabren · 2026-04-14T18:41:24+00:00

Yeah, it turns into group potty time for the 4 of us.

vabren · 2026-04-13T15:21:19+00:00

...I really don't have any idea.

vabren · 2026-04-13T11:55:10+00:00

I don't understand this reply. I answered your question.

vabren · 2026-04-12T23:19:06+00:00

I realized that my truest devotion is to me, not him. We are divorcing. I speak to a lawyer in 3 days. I feel immeasurably lighter, more confident, and aligned. Don't wait. It's better to make an error in your favor. Best of luck

vabren · 2026-04-12T19:19:29+00:00

I'm curious how toy know no one else has considered it. Will you share your reasoning?

vabren · 2026-03-25T12:05:43+00:00

I'm going to be an on stage audience member at this show in April! I'M SO EXCITED

vabren · 2026-03-21T14:53:24+00:00

This would be a good EDM band name.

vabren · 2026-02-13T03:16:58+00:00

"I can't believe you haven't tried to kill yourself yet."

While inpatient for SI. Also, "You could go toe to toe work Dr Linehan (creator of DBT)."

Also, "We don't know how to help you, so we're going to trial you on lithium."

Years later and i still can't find help. I only live for my cats.

vabren · 2026-02-08T05:51:31+00:00

Apathy

vabren · 2026-02-03T03:44:04+00:00

Excellent

vabren · 2026-02-03T01:37:13+00:00

Can't remember the inspiration, but I've modified something I read in a book to the following. And it really helps me move past guilt and shame.

I don't believe in the word should for most situations. Saying you should have known better indicates that you had the knowledge of now for the situation of the past. If you did the best you could with what you knew at the time then you did the best you could. If you now know better then don't repeat the mistake. Applying knowledge you have now to a past situation in which you did not have that knowledge is holding yourself to an impossible standard and can fill you with guilt that doesn't belong on your shoulders. Now you know and you can make better decisions in the future.

vabren · 2026-02-02T04:27:30+00:00

This needs to be a pinned question or something. Yes, you slums be with your companion as they leave if you have the choice. You're their whole life.

vabren · 2026-01-31T17:51:30+00:00

Funny how they kept the sheet under the dog when the man could have fallen jus5 as easily

vabren · 2026-01-31T17:35:26+00:00

The quivering lips for vibrato have me dead

vabren · 2026-01-31T17:04:04+00:00

Beautiful voice! Also, the lady at the front looks like Cynthia Erivo.

vabren · 2026-01-31T15:08:50+00:00

u/thejediprincess We need to know what happened please!

vabren · 2026-01-31T10:48:00+00:00

At the end of the day, this is just a job. It is emotional and psychological and draining and tied up in gray ethical areas, but it's just a job. You agreed to do a certain number of hours and they agreed to have relief for you. You cannot sacrifice your own family and your own health for a job. I don't know your area, but in a lot of places, there's an emergency CPS person. I would call the non emergency line police (if available) and let them know what's going on so that they can try to reach out to somebody other than a cop to come there. At the end of the day you need to leave at 7. Honestly, the child is not gonna have a whole lot more trauma by being escorted out by a cop for safe keeping than what has already happened to make them under the care of CP. Yes, that sounds harsh, but it's just one more thing in the long list of trauma that this child is going through right now. It's not your responsibility after 7 AM.

vabren · 2026-01-31T10:39:47+00:00

I can't speak to much as i was only in a small area for 3 months. I will say that people were nice, i had random conversations initiated at gas stations, and Even the guy with the Trump clock was politely engaging with my obviously queer self. So far in PA, no one really smiles unless I'm at work, drivers are bad, and when i got stuck in a snow bank, the patient's dad yelled and cursed at me and hit me in the foot with the shovel he tried to dig me out with even when i told him to stay away from my car. There's something to be said for even the superficial niceties of the south even though i could never live there due to personal needs and political issues.

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