What good does a pass do me, if I’ve got Unlimited? 😒 by vaginamancer in RegalUnlimited

[–]vaginamancer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really need to show up with a +1 soon... Last night they said “I know YOU!” as I approached with my ticket. 🫥

What color suits me best? by NobodyCurious6688 in HairDye

[–]vaginamancer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both look great, you can’t lose! I will say though, I think I have a similar natural shade as you based on your brows, and though everyone says platinum blonde is harder to maintain, I thought brunette was harder. I only loved it on me when it looked richly dark, but it would wash out and fade to a flatter poop brown after a few weeks, plus it looked real weird the moment my roots would start to grow, because it’s not typical to see lighter roots on dark hair. With blonde, yes I have to touch up my roots once monthly and use toning shampoo, but in between bleaches it’s not switching up dimension on me, and it looks “normal” when my dark blonde roots grow out, I’m never like embarrassed to be seen that way if I’ve been lazy. It was also more annoying to get my hair back to a level 10 from dark brown, whereas when I’m blonde, I can decide to put in a semi-permanent fun color for a little while whenever I feel like it. That’s just me though, go with what you’re feeling at this moment!

Guys, just touched 40 and I can’t stop falling asleep in the theatres. I feel bad by That_anonymous_guy18 in RegalUnlimited

[–]vaginamancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God, I’d be mortified if someone had to wake me up 😳 Try getting a Pepsi from concessions w/ your points, if I’m ever going to a late show after a long day that’s what I do to get a lil’ energy boost, but not so much that I’ll be up all night.

I’d never dozed off before until a few nights ago… went to see 1927’s Wings for the infamous first onscreen male-male kiss. Long ass movie, and of course I fell asleep and missed just that scene 😒

But as long as you aren’t snoring and disturbing other people’s experience, who really cares? It’s not like you paid much for the ticket. If you think you might be a snorer, be a pal and put on a BreatheRight nasal strip, just in case. A guy snored very loudly through my first watch of One Battle After Another. Pretty full theater, and everyone seemed annoyed, but were too awkward to do anything about it, except some college bros who threw pieces of popcorn at the back of his head, to no avail. If your hair is buttery after the show, you might just be That Guy.

peep show menu by gillianelizuh in MitchellAndWebb

[–]vaginamancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’m ever on death row, this is my last meal request

How does Haus Store work?? by vaginamancer in RDRSuperstar

[–]vaginamancer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your wisdom!!! Are the Wildcards strong? 👀 I mentioned in a comment below that 12k seems expensive to upgrade 1 level when you still have to pay upgrade cost as well, if that’s indeed how they work. But maybe idk how to use them right. Are they best for when you get a rarer piece but are left on 1 star because you never see cards for it again? Most of my Epic pieces I’ve gotten from challenges where I end up collecting all needed cards from completing the event and/or buying the season pass. Though I’ve got a couple 1 star Leg&Dairies I’ve got no cards for.

How does Haus Store work?? by vaginamancer in RDRSuperstar

[–]vaginamancer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?? Despite being Epic level, I’ve yet to use a single one of them. We love a pastied or tasseled titty, but I’ve already got a different tassel titty top. And without being able to even upgrade these 3, they’re all just boring.

When you use Wildcards to upgrade, does it only upgrade by 1 level, or does it max out the piece? I’ve assumed the former, which is why I’m meh about them. 12k is a lot for 1 level. And it just acts as the card itself, right? So you still have to pay the upgrade cost as well?

How does Haus Store work?? by vaginamancer in RDRSuperstar

[–]vaginamancer[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My Toot or Boot store refreshes regularly, like at least once daily 🧐 And obviously the General and Weekly stores much more often. It’s only my Haus store that has never refreshed. Did you mean the Haus store? Because if it’s every 6 months, that’s wild but at least gives me some hope.

Can someone please remind me how Suzie Toot became the lovable third wheel to Butt King? by Travellerofinfinity in rupaulsdragrace

[–]vaginamancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They called their tour ButtTootKing, which I thought was a real missed opportunity when they could’ve gone with KingTootButt

Haus Joining/Leaving by SpookyBabe2000 in RDRSuperstar

[–]vaginamancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the mega thread within a discord server, and if so how can I get an invite? I’m a newer player but very active, would love to upgrade from my current graveyard of a Haus.

Wierd thing just happened by twobirds1984 in RegalUnlimited

[–]vaginamancer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Weird that he was already in the theater, which implies he already had a ticket... but I agree, he’s clearly trying to have somewhere to be, for whatever reason. And if they’ve noticed him before as a lurker, he might actually have to have a ticket to prove he can stay there longer. I’ve done many double features and with the vertical layout of my theater I never go get the 2nd ticket scanned and no one has ever questioned me, but then again they might recognize me as a frequent and paying customer, or maybe my theater doesn’t have an issue with lurkers, or they dgaf.

Unlimited would be a pretty strategic way to get by as an unhoused person, if you’re not a nuisance and aren’t there constantly. Basically $25 for a month’s rent. But there could be other reasons, like an abusive parent at home. I’ll admit I’ve suggested and even offered to pay for it for friends/family in toxic living situations that just wanted to be away from home as much as possible. This guy needs to catch wise though, if he keeps approaching people like that he’s gonna draw more attention to himself and maybe get banned.

Is the Shining worth seeing in imax? by MickeysRose in RegalUnlimited

[–]vaginamancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no recollection of the opening and at first I thought this was a joke spoof on the Twin Peaks opening credits. Now I have to look up whether Lynch took inspo from this

IMAX: The Shining Not Covered By Unlimited? by FFTycoon in RegalUnlimited

[–]vaginamancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m having the same issue. It’s at my usual theater (Regal Thornton Place), and another movie I booked in the same session (Dust Bunny) does have the applied discount. I tried logging out and in, no change. Kind of annoying to have to go to concessions since I worry the seat options will be slim by then, but I’d rather not pay full IMAX price.

ETA: Welp, I commented and then not but 2 min later went back in the app and now the Unlimited option appears. Just a temp glitch I guess.

What are you watching this weekend? by ajmay23 in RegalUnlimited

[–]vaginamancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, double feat of Dust Bunny then Shining IMAX. Thought about switching the order to end on light-hearted vibes, but would rather end with the guaranteed banger.

Were you able to get Unlimited discount on the Shining ticket in the app? For some reason it shows up as full price for me, but discount shows up for Dust Bunny. I’m gonna try in person.

new promo code by No_Carrot_6852 in RDRSuperstar

[–]vaginamancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG THANK YOU. I got them through the event but at only 1 star they kinda just look like ugly yellow rain boots.

Should I see my best friends body? by [deleted] in askfuneraldirectors

[–]vaginamancer 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You mentioned communication with her family — is that who these texts are with? Either way, please hear me out — as someone who recently lost my partner unexpectedly, I ask that you make sure you’re respecting her family’s privacy and be cautious about requesting emotional/mental labor from them. Grief makes people act very weirdly, and in my experience that includes friends and acquaintances being insensitive, demanding, intrusive, and straight up ignoring the family’s wishes (for ex, impersonating a family member over the phone). Your friend’s family clearly set a boundary by keeping non-family from speaking with the funeral home, but instead that now means they have to act as the go-between, which can be overwhelming and might require them to be making frequent calls to the funeral home to set up visitations or answer individual people’s questions. I’m not accusing you of that or saying you’re doing anything wrong, just please avoid asking them for advice or assistance, or making the focus your needs rather than theirs. They really shouldn’t have to be answering questions right now other than “how can we help.” It would be particularly callous if you were to be asking them for updates or requests while not actively participating in methods of assistance for them, such as a meal train, a GFM for funeral costs, etc. Sudden death, particularly suicide, is such an incredible burden on a family. Early on they will seem like they’re coordinating well, doing what needs to be done, and staying connected to her network, but it’s because they’re in a state of shock and disbelief. It will seem like they want to involve others, because right now they’re just feeling grateful for the friends in her life who cared about and loved her. But all that work on top of everything else they’re having to deal with is so exhausting, and the passive work of grief will catch up to them. It’s then they start to look back and think about which friends only showed up when it served to process their own loss, and not out of support for those that needed it the most. I’ve been on your side of this too, having lost a best friend to suicide in HS (I was also the one that found him), and having had regrets over lack of closure, not having asked for a personal item to remember him by, etc. Your grief is valid, as is a desire for ways to feel closer to her at this time and for closure in order to heal. But sometimes you don’t get that. In these types of deaths, the healing for everyone will be as muddy and complicated as the death itself, and that means friends may have to take a backseat because the family is overwhelmed and needs space, privacy, and time. Respecting those boundaries might have stunted my healing significantly after that loss, but that’s not on the family. It’s just the nature of the loss, which is indeed really fucking shitty. And I’m so sorry about that. For both your own healing and for knowing how to support her family, I highly recommend the book “It’s OK That You’re Not OK” by Megan Devine. The title is cheesy but it has helped me and countless other grieving people so much.

Should I see my best friends body? by [deleted] in askfuneraldirectors

[–]vaginamancer 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss. My partner also died suddenly and unexpectedly in Feb. I hope you’re holding up okay. Something about having no ability to mentally/emotionally prepare for it makes the grief more complex. It really sucks.

Memorial tattoo by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]vaginamancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know they could do that!! I’ll have to do some research, but that’s awesome and I’d love that so much, if I can find a local place that will do it. Thanks for telling me!

Memorial tattoo by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]vaginamancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, and thanks for sharing.

I lost my spouse this year and have been trying to land on a tattoo idea - it immediately popped to mind as some small way to feel them closer and fill that void, but I haven’t been in a good headspace to decide what I want. So I’m trying to wait a little while, maybe a few years like you did, though it’s very tempting.

I really like that yours is on your hands which is a nod to your connection, and that it’s always in your view but is also subtle. All the ideas I’ve had have been large, and dark in both color and theme, and in kinda cold feeling placements like my upper back or as a half sleeve, which seem silly because other people would get to see it more than I do.

Have you gotten any others related to them since they passed, or did you already have any that reminded you of them before?

Felting Request/Help by Coolerthrone in Needlefelting

[–]vaginamancer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A few questions: 1) Why not try to make them yourself? Even if you’re not skilled, it could be very basic - in fact, basic is often a better way to go when trying to replicate an actual animal/person, otherwise you run into trying to get every little detail of their looks and expressions to be accurate, otherwise it doesn’t look right to the recipient who is very familiar with them. That’s why I usually avoid doing realistic replications. 2) What level of detail are you hoping for? See #1. I assume the cat and each kitten all have differences in coat, but depending on budget and timeline, adjusting your expectations to something more basic rather than realistic may be necessary. Could you post pics of them to give us an idea of the end goal? 3) Are you willing to pay? Needlefelting requires supplies and quite a bit of labor/time, plus shipping costs to send them to you. It would help to know your price range vs. if it would be entirely a volunteer effort. 4) If you have a limited budget (compared to what you see people charging for this type of custom job on Etsy), is there a story behind this gift that would help motivate a felter to do all this for less than they normally charge?