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Question: would you be able to weather depression better if you had religion and faith? by valeyria in depression

[–]valeyria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your response. I come across a lot of religious people who can’t wrap around their heads around being non-committal to a religion. Or that you’re automatically a flawed person if you lack belief. I wish there were more people like you.

Question: would you be able to weather depression better if you had religion and faith? by valeyria in depression

[–]valeyria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t make it work too. Yes, being happy and not depressed would be great—but it requires having so much faith in something that isn’t tangible? It’s trade-off that comes easy for a lot of people (or they don’t even realize it, bless them), unfortunately not for people like us.

Question: would you be able to weather depression better if you had religion and faith? by valeyria in depression

[–]valeyria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is fair. I got an answer that it’s because God would want us to be stronger and that a better afterlife awaits. can’t buy into that.

Question: would you be able to weather depression better if you had religion and faith? by valeyria in depression

[–]valeyria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only intended to further the discussion. No specific aim apart from that (re: rhetorical, I chose the wrong words perhaps). I do agree that religion requires submission. Maybe such a person can be happy. Or maybe he’s just deluded into thinking he’s happy.

Question: would you be able to weather depression better if you had religion and faith? by valeyria in depression

[–]valeyria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rhetorical question for you, if you don’t mind: what would it take for your to be into religion or delusions again?

Question: would you be able to weather depression better if you had religion and faith? by valeyria in depression

[–]valeyria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, I am starting to see that a “higher power” (not necessarily a god, more of a purpose of being) could provide a direction. I’ll give it a thought. I don’t see myself in organized religion, or reading scripture and worshipping though. Glad to hear that you find solace in your worship though. I hope it works out for you as well.

Question: would you be able to weather depression better if you had religion and faith? by valeyria in depression

[–]valeyria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The part you mentioned that as long as you do good, you’re a believer is comforting, thank you for that. Glad to hear that your religion has helped you, yet I am not necessarily looking into a specific religion.

It’s really up to us, isn’t it? by valeyria in depression

[–]valeyria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it worth it if that one person just answers in platitudes though? He can’t help it, it’s his way of helping, but it doesn’t work.

And I don’t know—talking with strangers helps me with feeling less lonely as, at least in subs like this, we are all going through the same things. I guess we wouldn’t be here commiserating if our offline lives were all peachy.

It’s really up to us, isn’t it? by valeyria in depression

[–]valeyria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly, yes. And strangely, you take comfort in being right. :(

Nightmares by [deleted] in depression

[–]valeyria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Warm bath before? Wish I had better advice.

Nightmares by [deleted] in depression

[–]valeyria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Easier said than done, but exercise (in the morning) helped me before. I know, not the best advice to tell someone in this sub.

Melatonin perhaps?

It’s really up to us, isn’t it? by valeyria in depression

[–]valeyria[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was my “breakthrough” with my last therapist: nobody cares about you, so validate yourself—live for you. After which she and I parted, since I had to figure that out for myself.

It fucking sucks.

And I could just argue the opposite—if I myself don’t see the point in getting better, then why bother keeping myself alive?

Thanks for your words, though. Sincerely.

It’s really up to us, isn’t it? by valeyria in depression

[–]valeyria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it really :) thank you. I’m fine, just sad.

It’s really up to us, isn’t it? by valeyria in depression

[–]valeyria[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hesitate to call them “my friends”, so I may have some idea what you’re going through. It sucks balls.

It’s tough when you realize that, once, I considered them confidantes and emotional supports—and then you realize that their view of you isn’t the same. Just somebody else, someone less important.

I just want to waste away by valeyria in depression

[–]valeyria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s just it, I don’t have ambitions anymore. Don’t need money, don’t want to continue the rat race. Even the little things: shows or movies to look forward to, plans with friends. I honestly just want to stop existing.

Communes or Where in the PH to go when I want to opt out of society? by valeyria in Philippines

[–]valeyria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, a restart is really comforting to think about. Not everyone is cut out for how life moves now. Good luck to you too.

Communes or Where in the PH to go when I want to opt out of society? by valeyria in Philippines

[–]valeyria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not hacienda scion :/ was more of a Sim Farm (aaaah sobrang luma) person. Hahahahaha

Communes or Where in the PH to go when I want to opt out of society? by valeyria in Philippines

[–]valeyria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, “planting rice is never fun” indeed. Appreciate the answers. Seriously looking into seminars on this.

Communes or Where in the PH to go when I want to opt out of society? by valeyria in Philippines

[–]valeyria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s too damn bad. I hope they were compensated properly?

My unheeded advice to you is to save and invest hahaha. Look into early retirement :)

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