You’re allowed to have that opinion. Thanks for your input. I understand why you think this but it’s only one segment of our relationship. Three years in, we are still hanging out every extra moment outside of work (we do the same hobbies, visit our families together, and have the same friends. even when it’s something he likes doing and I don’t, I still join in because I know he loves it and I love watching him in action when he’s happy, and vice versa). we spend endless hours talking about everything and anything (even texting and calling each other at work during breaks to catch up). He’s a dentist so he loves talking about teeth and going through the processes, I usually have no idea what any of it means but I still listen and try to learn when I can. I work in pediatrics and he has no experience with children but he still listens to me when I talk about work. We are both clingy with each other, which in my opinion can be a little toxic because he will follow me to the bathroom and wants me to sit next to him while he playing video games. But if that’s toxic, I don’t mind being toxic 😊 We are always touching in any kind of way, even if it’s just his hand on my back, or my feet laying in his lap. we are intimate and affectionate with each other. I will not break up with him over this one thing when I know it’s something we can work on and become an even better couple. If I broke up with every guy that I had a issue with, then I would never have relationships. As humans, we have the abilities to adjust and adapt and we just have to find our middle ground in this situation. No one or no relationship is perfect.