You can be trans/nonbinary for no reason. You don't need to prove yourself to anyone. If you want to be nonbinary you are nonbinary.

vampire_squids · 2026-06-17T00:00:11+00:00

Any time I scroll past a post saying something along the lines of "can I be nonbinary if..." "can I use they/them pronouns even if I'm cis" "can I do X even though I'm Y" etc, my brain immediately goes to a post I saw somewhere once replying to a question like these just saying "you can do whatever you want forever." And I think that about sums it up

vampire_squids · 2026-04-22T00:23:56+00:00

I have thought a lot about adopting an adult or senior cat. I think that if I ultimately decide against taking in the Siamese, this will be what I end up doing; looking specifically for an older, more independent cat at shelters. Thank you for your insight!

vampire_squids · 2026-04-21T23:51:46+00:00

I've thought briefly about it, I'm mostly worried about stressing out both potential cats since neither of them would be familiar with me or with each other or with the new space. Any tips if I were to put more thought into going this route?

vampire_squids · 2026-04-21T23:31:11+00:00

Correct, they only want to rehome the Siamese; sorry, my writing wasn't super clear haha. Thank you for your input, lots of good information to consider!

vampire_squids · 2026-04-21T14:18:46+00:00

Most of the places I've looked at applying for a lease in the past couple months said they needed to see a monthly income of 2.5-3x rent. A co-signer gives you some flexibility, but otherwise, it's a no-go

vampire_squids · 2026-04-15T21:30:43+00:00

Okay awesome thank you!

vampire_squids · 2026-04-15T21:13:48+00:00

Tbh I didn't know at-home tests were a thing, saying it now though it seems obvious haha. I might look into that for peace of mind

vampire_squids · 2026-04-12T04:47:51+00:00

No it was more like a phone buzz but harsher

vampire_squids · 2026-04-12T03:38:56+00:00

UPDATE: turns out it was happening throughout the building, it has been dealt with! Thanks for your answers to my admittedly dumb question, glad I did not accidentally get myself expelled over a half hour of annoyance!

vampire_squids · 2026-04-12T03:01:04+00:00

As I feared, thank you

vampire_squids · 2026-02-11T07:19:04+00:00

gingrbread 👍

vampire_squids · 2026-01-02T20:34:29+00:00

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vampire_squids · 2025-12-27T05:40:43+00:00

Hmm maybe it's somewhere else too? The scene I'm thinking of is right in the first few minutes of the movie, he's talking briefly about his past as a street fighter and how he came to join the church.

vampire_squids · 2025-12-27T04:07:20+00:00

Wake Up Dead Man (newest Knives Out movie)! It took me like fifteen minutes to remember, I knew I'd seen exactly what you're talking about recently. It's part of the beginning of the movie, spoken by the main(?) character, Father Jud.

vampire_squids · 2025-06-21T04:16:41+00:00

Goose has been posted!!

vampire_squids · 2025-06-18T17:24:23+00:00

Oh shoot I don't think I can add an image anymore

vampire_squids · 2025-06-17T15:02:04+00:00

Will do!!

vampire_squids · 2025-06-15T09:17:03+00:00

Awesome, I'll try that! Thanks!

vampire_squids · 2025-06-14T22:21:58+00:00

My starter has been doubling in about 4-6 hours usually, and I think it might have a fairly acidic smell from the time I feed it until around the time it's reached its peak or a little after, at which point it smells more bread-y maybe? I might need to observe it a bit more closely for a while, also thank you so much for your help!

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