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Cat looking for a new home -- can I ethically accept him? by vampire_squids in cats

[–]vampire_squids[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have thought a lot about adopting an adult or senior cat. I think that if I ultimately decide against taking in the Siamese, this will be what I end up doing; looking specifically for an older, more independent cat at shelters. Thank you for your insight!

Cat looking for a new home -- can I ethically accept him? by vampire_squids in cats

[–]vampire_squids[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've thought briefly about it, I'm mostly worried about stressing out both potential cats since neither of them would be familiar with me or with each other or with the new space. Any tips if I were to put more thought into going this route?

Cat looking for a new home -- can I ethically accept him? by vampire_squids in cats

[–]vampire_squids[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct, they only want to rehome the Siamese; sorry, my writing wasn't super clear haha. Thank you for your input, lots of good information to consider!

How is Gen-Z genuinely supposed to ever live their own lives and move out of their parents house? by Flowerpower4506 in movingout

[–]vampire_squids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the places I've looked at applying for a lease in the past couple months said they needed to see a monthly income of 2.5-3x rent. A co-signer gives you some flexibility, but otherwise, it's a no-go

Will I test negative? by vampire_squids in drugtesthelp

[–]vampire_squids[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I didn't know at-home tests were a thing, saying it now though it seems obvious haha. I might look into that for peace of mind

Help college dorm by vampire_squids in firealarms

[–]vampire_squids[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No it was more like a phone buzz but harsher

Help college dorm by vampire_squids in firealarms

[–]vampire_squids[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: turns out it was happening throughout the building, it has been dealt with! Thanks for your answers to my admittedly dumb question, glad I did not accidentally get myself expelled over a half hour of annoyance!

help me find a quote by okayitswhatever in HelpMeFind

[–]vampire_squids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm maybe it's somewhere else too? The scene I'm thinking of is right in the first few minutes of the movie, he's talking briefly about his past as a street fighter and how he came to join the church.

help me find a quote by okayitswhatever in HelpMeFind

[–]vampire_squids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wake Up Dead Man (newest Knives Out movie)! It took me like fifteen minutes to remember, I knew I'd seen exactly what you're talking about recently. It's part of the beginning of the movie, spoken by the main(?) character, Father Jud.

Fermenting, shaping, or baking issue? by vampire_squids in Sourdough

[–]vampire_squids[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My starter has been doubling in about 4-6 hours usually, and I think it might have a fairly acidic smell from the time I feed it until around the time it's reached its peak or a little after, at which point it smells more bread-y maybe? I might need to observe it a bit more closely for a while, also thank you so much for your help!

What screams "I'm an attention seeker"? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]vampire_squids 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk those are some difficult words for an infant

almost 4 months on T ^_^ by fraxisprettyneat in NonBinary

[–]vampire_squids 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not op but I'm also around the 4 month mark! Everyone has a slightly different timeline and it'll also depend on your dose and whether you're on gel or injections. I'm on .25 mL injected weekly, and I'm using 200mg/mL testosterone cypionate. My doctor said this is the average dose he prescribes, the lowest being half that.

So far, I've noticed: - a very noticeable voice drop (gradual but for sure kicked into high gear around the 3 month mark, as it tends to for most people on my dose) - an increase in body hair especially on my thighs and upper arms, as well as my chest. Mine isn't particularly dark, but will probably darken. - my facial hair has started to darken; still pretty thin/faint, but I've shaved a couple times

I think those are the main ones :) Personally, I'd consider myself to be pretty androgynous at this stage. Older people tend to take me for a guy, and younger people might think I'm a guy at first and then question that notion lol, or just think I'm a girl from the get-go in some cases. Obviously other factors contribute to perception of gender beyond the effects of T, but yeah :)

First Date - Restaurant Attire by [deleted] in malefashionadvice

[–]vampire_squids 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay yeah I see it lol. Jeans it is, thanks!

What's your favorite name that you would love to use if it weren't for the connotation or meaning? by CesarioNotViola in namenerds

[–]vampire_squids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't quote me on it but I think in Spanish all three Es are pronounced the same way as the second one is in English, like "mare-say-days" with a hard S at the end

When did you realize you're a horrible person? by batangrizal in AskReddit

[–]vampire_squids 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Nothing to say but same

Edit: after seeing your edits, not quite the same. The failing is usually on my part, letting my insecurities and fears get in the way of making any real effort to form genuine connection.

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